What should I do if my friend thinks too much?

It's not the same thing to endure it, because you'll also get tired, so let's just shoot it and break it up.

As the saying goes, the Tao is different and does not conspire with each other, which is what it means, blindly humbling this kind of careful person will only indulge him, since this choice may be the best way for himself. I've tried my best to keep it before, and I've tried my best to tolerate it before, but in the end, I still can't help but choose to give up, why would I give up on the person who has always let you put up with it? Because after a long period of patience and a long period of retention, I will also feel tired.

She is the most cautious girl I have ever met, and there is no one, although other girls around me will inevitably have cautious eyes, but she has the most cautious eyes. But I endured her for six years, and humbled her for six years.

We met in a club at the university, and because she was one year older than me, I called her Senior Sister at the time. In college, I didn't have any friends at first, but after I got to know her, I guess I had a friend. Usually, we eat together, and she often cooks for me, because I am petite and easy to be bullied by others, so she often helps me.

I've always had a good impression of her, but one day, after an incident, I didn't think so.

The two of us were taking an exam together, and before the exam, we had already packed up the things we were going to use for the exam and checked it several times. But when it came time to take the exam, my exam tools were missing one of the most important things, but this is what I found out when I did the question. That question is the big head of the whole paper, and the score accounts for one-third of the whole paper, so even if you do well in the front, if you don't do that question in the back, then you will basically hang up.

I saw that she was writing the test paper next to me, and my heart was full of helplessness. I wanted to ask her to borrow it, but I knew it was impossible, and it was forbidden to borrow test supplies from each other for that exam, so I was sure that I would take that exam.

We had a drink that night, and she was glad that she had passed the test and drank wine, while I didn't drink juice. Because she didn't drink enough, she was already drunk before she had finished a few beers, and she also said that she had leaked her mouth when she was drunk.

Do you know why you have less stuff today? Because I did it! We are only allowed to pass one exam this time, so I can only do this, you are so good, you will definitely have more chances than me in the future, this time you should let me.

Hearing such sincere words, my heart really hurt at the time, I didn't expect my best friend to do this to me, so in the end, I naturally broke off with her, and the real reason for breaking up is not only this.

You have to understand in your heart what kind of person this friend is, and analyze the specific problems in detail, which can not only do this for things, but also apply to people. Use different methods to communicate with different friends. Because you always use a method to communicate with friends, you will always meet people who are not suitable for this method, friends make hearts rather than any fame and fortune, not all types of people can be their friends, and they should get along with friends according to the actual situation.

In a person's life, you will meet a lot of people, some people forget at a glance, and some people will always be with us all their lives, when a friend is too careful, if it is not very serious, you can not worry about him, because friends need to be tolerant, so you can take this as his characteristic. If your friend's careful thinking is too serious, and you have to use your own careful thinking for everything, and when you can't get used to his behavior, you can give him advice, which is really not good, and you are very disgusted with this behavior, then you can stay away from this friend, and you shouldn't let yourself be wronged when you make friends, and you can't stand it, so stay away from him.

A person's careful thinking has good places and bad places, and it may be able to reflect its benefits in a certain thing, but most people will have a lot of eyes for people who are careful about this kind of thought, and then they will be afraid to associate with them, if the careful thinking of a friend is not used in you, then he really treats you as a friend, if he is also careful to you, then it will definitely be very tiring to associate with him, it is better to have less contact with this kind of friend as soon as possible, you can be that kind of ordinary friend, It's all up to you what you think.