How do introverts greet guests?

Although you are an introvert, you don't need to find a topic to greet when you accompany guests!

Usually if someone comes to the house, we will naturally welcome the guest through the door. After all, no matter what you say, the visitors are guests, and they are all worthy of our smiles. It is rare for people to come to the house once, and as the hosts, the joy in our hearts is not pretended.

So, first of all, you have to welcome the guests into the door with a smile, and everyone will instantly break the barrier that they haven't seen for many days, and they will become lively, and they will not be so embarrassed.

I don't know what other places are like, but as far as I know, like our Chaoshan area and Fujian area, if you have a guest at home, you will immediately boil water and prepare to make tea for the guest. Because in our eyes, the tea ceremony is also a form of hospitality, and if a guest comes to the house and does not make tea for the guest, it will be very impolite to take it, and it will be considered to look down on the guest.

And when we make a cup of tea, everyone naturally has a topic of conversation. After all, you haven't seen a guest for so long, even if you are introverted and can't speak, there should be a lot of things to talk about. For example, how is the other party's life recently, and whether the career is going well, you can inquire more about the other party's news.

And then following his words, we can talk freely, in fact, about a lot of things.

In this way, you can also know a little bit about the current situation of the guests, and you can also know more things, and in the same way, in the process of chatting, you can also tell the guests about your situation, or what you have seen and heard, etc. This way, guests will also be able to get a lot of useful information from you. Chat itself is a way to exchange messages with each other, allowing each other to get more favorable content.

As long as you know this, you will be able to drink and have a good time chatting with guests.

Of course, in the process of chatting, there will inevitably be some cold and awkward times. So generally speaking, when a guest comes to my house, I immediately turn on the TV program, and everyone can chat and drink tea while watching the TV program. If you encounter the end of the chat topic, you can take out the people or things in the show to comment on it, and find a topic for everyone to talk about.

And the guests will eventually cooperate with the host's topic, everyone watches TV all the way, and countless topics continue to appear along the way!

In short, even if you are very introverted, there is no need to feel embarrassed, because you are the master, and you must have the calmness of the master. I use these methods a lot, so I hope you can give them a try!

I'm one of those people who are very introverted, and when I used to have guests at home, I would hide in a small room and not want to meet them, because I was a little shy and didn't know what I was always worried about. Even my former classmates, once came to my house to play, passing by my house, I didn't dare to come out, so annoying, I was too cowardly at that time, and now I have slowly learned to change, this situation is not able to survive in society...

Ever since I graduated from junior high school, I wanted to grow up as fast as possible. A few days after I was admitted to the normal school, the teacher came to my home, first went to the living room to have a meal, and there were other guests in the house, so my parents asked the teacher to come to my room and let me accompany the teacher. The teachers who came were my homeroom teacher and Chinese teacher, and I quickly ran to my room to take care of it, because it was too messy.

But the teacher had already arrived, so he immediately found a chair for them to sit down. Guests at home must be polite, even if you can't say anything, but you must not talk nonsense, you must behave properly, so that the guests are comfortable. <>

I always have to say a few words, after all, I feel that if I don't speak, it is too ungentlemanly, the teacher is a guest, and I should say more. I don't know what to say, so I'll just use some greetings. That's what I said at the time, the teacher hasn't been seen for a long time, how are you doing?

Is the work going well? The teacher said it was okay, and then I talked about their recent work, the upcoming start of school, and reminiscing about the past. In fact, I didn't have much time to communicate, most of the time the teacher was talking and I was nodding my head next to me.

The teacher rested for a while, because the school year was too busy, so he left quickly, and I sent the teacher away. I remember the past, but I can't go back to junior high school anymore.

I still didn't feel as good as I was at the time, or I didn't know what to say? Maybe I'm still a little introverted now, and I want to learn from the host, the kind of broadcast host, so that I can become extroverted and know more about how to communicate with people, which may bring great benefits to myself.

You and I are like, I don't speak very well, I always feel that I have no topic to talk to others, and when I find a topic, there is only the beginning, and it is difficult to talk freely.

You don't need a psychiatrist for your situation, you can generally recognize your situation, and you can adjust it yourself. Usually contact people more, greet people and treat things with more smiles, and talk to people more, what you pay will be what you reciprocate. Be brave, you'll be great, come on!

Ask him what song he likes. Game Ang. I like to go to wherever I want. And then you just follow the topic and talk nonsense.

Brother, how are you now, my situation is very similar to yours.

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