How can I be a competent woman

The fate of husband and wife is difficult to repair, not to mention that you still have children, since his family does not cooperate with you, you don't want their help, you just work hard with your children, maybe there will be a turnaround, if you give up now, one day you will regret it, as long as you do your best, I believe there will be good results, I think people do not deceive, in the future he will be good, you will have a sincere good person for you, have a true heart, how can you see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain, only tested love is the most beautiful, I bless you, sincerity, gold and stone for the opening.

Out of the hall, under the kitchen!

To be a wife, you have to know: a husband is a husband, as long as you love, don't compare, don't keep talking about how good other people's husbands are, don't count him down, you are his closest person, you still say this about him, it doesn't seem to be very right, for most men, praise and encouragement can give him the strength to fight more than abuse. Love him must respect him, no more anger can not be exported to hurt people, the wound of words is sometimes bleeding for a lifetime, the physical injury is very easy, the consequences of mental injury are terrible, as a wife to know:

Don't show your face to your husband, an angry woman is very ugly, he has a lot of pressure at work, and he has no obligation to go home and look at your face to make you happy. The other party will have shortcomings in his character, the details of life will be different from you, so that you are not satisfied, but how can he be perfect, in front of you, he has to put down the mask, be himself, be an ordinary person, tolerance is the attitude that people should have towards marriage, always pay attention to tolerance and understanding of each other, as a wife, you know: a man sees his dignity more than anything else, no matter how much he loves you in private, how afraid of you, in front of people must give the right face, Let him be a man who is not afraid of his wife and even more fearless, he should not like his friends to joke and make fun of him for being afraid of his wife, unless he has enough strong backing and high status, but, most of us are ordinary people, and we must know as a wife:

My husband's parents are my own parents, the heart is compared to the heart, love the house and Wu, the old and the old, as long as I really feel that this is my own parents deep down, psychologically attached to the old man closely, the old man feels this sincerity, not to mention, people are old like children, as long as they coax the old man to be happy, we also have an old day, only do these you can be a competent wife.

If you want your wife to be competent, as a husband, you can't just care about your mother's mood and ignore your feelings for your wife, there are some things I don't like to say, and your mother also gave me a look when I got married, and I never told you, she always treats me well in front of you, and always says that I am not behind my back. I think it will be depressing to live with such a mother, you are caught in the middle with a mother on one side and a wife on the other, of course you will worry about your mother, the wife can have nothing, there is only one mother.

Two people work together to make the family happy and happy, the wife only needs to do her own thing, and her husband to share all kinds of difficulties and troubles at work, a happy life requires two people to work hard to maintain, the husband works hard outside, of course, the wife must take good care of their family, care about the husband, do mutual understanding and trust each other, both sides also need to care for each other, in order to have a perfect happy family.

Love your husband, love your family, and love everyone in your family.

Have faith, good looks, understand health, can make money, and can flirt.

I asked, why do you want women to give way to men? Men work hard outside, and women have to bow down, how many women are so good that they don't have to go to work? If the man comes home is words of encouragement and encouragement, I feel that no matter how tired the woman is, it will not complain about how much work she does, why do women still have a pleasant face? !

Life is relative, no one has to be how, and the formation of a competent wife requires the cultivation of a qualified husband, and the reverse is also true. Article 12 is very good, but this man has to be worthy.

I've also published some experiences about what to do if a couple falls in love and quarrels, so what if we want to try not to quarrel as much as possible? --As girls, we can learn to be a competent girlfriend.

We may usually be a lively person, or we are unrestrained in front of him, and there is nothing to scruple about, so we will be more casual, talking loudly and laughing out loud.

In fact, we can sometimes be a little more gentle, and occasionally change the style, which can make him a little fresh and make his eyes shine. But it must be gentle from the heart, not hypocritical.

Don't feel that there is no way to be gentle when you are used to being lively, because in fact, in front of the person we love, we will unconsciously be gentle from the heart, and we will involuntarily want to take care of him.

If you are already living together or living together, you can tidy up his room, you can make the home worse for the two of you, and you can surprise him from time to time.

When he first got off work, he saw that his home had become clean and tidy, and his tiredness of the day would be eliminated; When he woke up, he saw that the slippers were neatly arranged, and he would be very energetic throughout the day.

Men are more casual, usually may be more confused, often don't know what to put in **, at this time he needs a helper in life, we can help him classify things and put them well, understand all his things placed and home.

Without you, he would never have found his white t-shirt; Couldn't find his favorite tie; He couldn't find his other sock. He will become inseparable from you, and life will be a mess without you.

When two people are together, the atmosphere is also very important, if we keep thinking about it when we are together, it will undoubtedly only make the two people more troubled. So we want to make each other feel at ease.

If he suddenly wants to answer **, we should not keep asking who is calling and what is going on, which will make him feel irritated; If he gives you a small gift, you can compliment him on being emotional, you can give him a kiss.

It should make people feel relaxed and have no constraints together. That's how he likes to be with you.

Girls spoil boys is a panacea to solve the problem, if a girl does something wrong, can't think of any way to make her boyfriend angry, coquettish is a very useful thing. In fact, being coquettish is also a very simple thing, and it is not a difficult coquettish action for you, you just need to pout, the voice is gentle, and the tail note is a little longer to be coquettish, and girls are generally melted by girls. Therefore, whether it is a girl with a strong personality or a girl who is not good at coquettishness, you must learn to be coquettish to your boyfriend, and spoiling your boyfriend can avoid the number of quarrels and avoid many detours.

Second, learn to think about problems in the position of your boyfriend, and think more about your boyfriend.

Boys want to have a girlfriend who understands them. I don't like to lose my temper at every turn.,I don't think about my boyfriend at all.,Never learn to think about problems in the boyfriend's position.,Such selfish girls are the most annoying to boys.。 On the contrary, if a girl learns to think about problems in the position of her boyfriend, she should think more about her boyfriend.

will not make trouble at every turn, learn to think from the perspective of your boyfriend, and understand your boyfriend's difficulties, such a girl is very popular with boys. Therefore, if women want their boyfriends to like them more, they must learn to think about problems in their boyfriend's position and think more about their boyfriends. Girls, do you remember?

Third, girls should have their own income and their own jobs.

No boy likes a girl who doesn't do anything all day long, and bothers her all day long. A girl who doesn't do anything knows that being around her boyfriend all day long will not only disturb her boyfriend, but also make the boy feel that this girl is very unmotivated, so she will know that she is in trouble with her boyfriend. Therefore, girls must learn to have their own jobs and their own income, so that the boy will think that you are very sensible and motivated, and he will also like you very much.

1. Care. Care about your boyfriend, including his joys and sorrows, sunny and warm, you can care about his family appropriately, and occasionally care about his good friends.

2. Obedience. Whatever your boyfriend says, you basically have to do what he says, if you have any objections, if it doesn't matter the overall situation, don't say it to your face, and talk about it later.

3. Buy something your boyfriend likes. The guy likes what the girl gives him very much, and he values it very much (he is), every time he sees something, it's like seeing his cute girlfriend, you must want your boyfriend to care about you.

4. Be coquettish. Some boyfriends like to watch cute girls spoil him, and it is definitely good to be spoiled appropriately, but don't always be spoiled.

5. Lose your temper less. A girl's tantrum is the ugliest face, especially the unreasonable tantrum, some boys are patient on the surface, but they are very disgusted in their hearts, and he will always remember it.

6. Do something for him. For example, it's up to you to do laundry, tidy up the office, tidy up your home, etc.

7. Pick up your boyfriend once in a while. Don't always wait for your boyfriend to pick you up, pick up your boyfriend from work once in a while, he will definitely be happy, and then go to dinner for a romantic time.

8. When you can't see him, contact him often and let him know that you care about him.

As a competent girlfriend, you should have the following points: 1. Learn to love yourself and take care of yourself, only when you learn to love yourself will you know how to give and take care of others.

2.Don't lose yourself, don't be attached to him, lose yourself, give freedom to the other half, integrate into his circle, but don't interfere with his freedom.

3.Give him absolute trust, your support and trust are very important to him, as long as you don't break the law, you must show him support, be considerate and feel sorry for him.

If you love him, you will change appropriately for him, care about him, love him, think about the problem from his point of view now, it sounds like he should treat you like this, but love is equal, if you want to get, you have to give first.

It's okay to be yourself, and as long as he loves you, you can be any woman.

It's like a slave and a maid serving their master.

Everyone is an independent individual, with different ideas and opinions, there will be a lot of collisions and frictions in our relationship, and at this time girls must learn to observe words and colors, pay attention to some subtle expressions and changes in each other's actions, know what his expression represents, and slowly ponder. In this way, if you take the group, you can reduce the outbreak of a lot of contradictions, and it can also increase the tacit understanding between the two people, which is also very helpful for the development of the relationship in the future.

Be sure to approach a lot of things with a normal mindset. In getting along with my boyfriend, there must be a lot of contradictions. At this time, we only need to deal with these contradictions with a normal heart, and we can't be noisy and emotional ups and downs because of some small things.

Too frequent noise will make the man feel bored, so try to avoid a lot of conflicts, maintain emotional stability, and learn to control emotions and speak calmly.

Don't nag. Maybe it's easy to understand when girls talk a little more at the beginning, so that you can increase the communication between two people. But pay attention to communication, not nagging, nor repeating one thing, but picking out the concise words to express one's feelings and opinions.

Because some boys hate girls constantly buzzing in their ears, and the words they say don't have a lot of nutrition, which will affect the harmony of two people getting along. So it's important to pay attention to this aspect.

Learn to understand each other. In most families, boys are the breadwinners, but the pressure they face in life and work is very high, and many people must feel the same way. So at this time, girls try their best to tolerate each other and understand each other.

If he is willing to reveal to you the contradictions in his work life, then you can be a listener and give him some advice. In this way, the relationship between the two people will gradually deepen.

Learn to trust each other. Many girls have such a problem, that is, they are suspicious, they will always not believe each other, and they feel that the other party will do some small actions behind their backs. But such a lack of trust relationship can't last long, so if you want two people to live for a long time, you must give each other enough trust and don't push each other too hard, so it's easier to lose each other.

Of course, the premise of such a trust is that he is trustworthy and that he is a reliable person.

In front of outsiders, you must save face for your boyfriend. Some girls are too willful, too easy, and many times they will not save face for their boyfriends in front of others, which will make boys very distressed. Therefore, you must protect your boyfriend's dignity in front of outsiders, so that men will feel that you are more sensible and love you more, and they will have the desire to go on with you for a long time.