My dad always went to drink, and he was so drunk that my mom was very angry, how to get my dad to qu

Updated on healthy 2024-04-21
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Ways to quit drinking.

    Unless there are circumstances (such as a serious accident) that cause a medical emergency, an alcoholic will not be forced to accept help for rehabilitation, but it is not necessary to deliberately cause a serious car accident to persuade your family to quit. Many alcoholics** experts suggest the following ways to help you quit drinking.

    1.Don't hide all the wine.

    Family members often find excuses to try to hide their alcohol to prevent the family from binge. Don't do this, let them experience the consequences of alcoholism.

    2.Seize the best time to persuade you to quit drinking.

    The best time to talk to an alcoholic is immediately after an issue about alcohol has been raised (such as after a heated family argument or an accident). Choose a time when he or she is calm and you can have a chance to talk privately.

    3.Special attention.

    Tell your family member that he/she is worried about his or her drinking problems. Use examples of harm caused by alcohol consumption, including recent incidents, if necessary.

    4.Tell the results.

    Explain to the drinker what you would do if he or she didn't seek help to quit drinking--- not blaming, but implementing steps to avoid his or her problems, such as refusing to attend social events where alcohol is offered, and getting out of the house and staying away from alcohol. Don't do anything drastic that isn't well thought out.

    5.Ask for help.

    Gather information about alcohol abstinence** in your community beforehand. If he or she needs help, call an appointment with a consultant right away. It is recommended to accompany you when you participate in a ** project for the first time.

    6.Mobilize friends.

    If a family member still refuses to get help, ask a friend to talk to him or her in the same way as described above. A friend who has just overcome alcoholism may be convincing, but anyone who is compassionate and easy-going may be helpful. Going and talking with more than one person, more than once, is often necessary to gradually get the alcoholic to voluntarily seek help.

    7.Seek joint forces.

    With the help of a medical care professional agency, some families and their relatives and friends form a group to unite to overcome alcoholism. The implementation of this method is carried out only under the guidance of experienced professional bodies.

    8.Get support.

    It's important to remember that you're not alone. Support a number of community-provided organizations that help family members realize that they are not solely responsible for their personal drinking problems.

    Alcoholism** is suitable for many people. But just like some chronic diseases, there are different outcomes. Some people stopped drinking and tried to restrain themselves, others resumed drinking after a period of sitation.

    One thing is clear for **, the longer a person gives up alcoholism, the more likely he or she is to stay sober.

    Hope it helps the landlord.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're also drunk and go back... Your dad will lead by example.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You're 14 years old this year, and you're a little adult, and your dad loves to drink, and he's always a drinker, which led to a fight with your mom, and your mom and dad have a relationship because your dad loves to drink, so they quarrel, and you can't do anything about them, right? You're only 14 years old, and they're all adults, and they're still fighting in front of you, and I think if you're brave enough, you can tell your parents every time they fight in front of you, and tell them that as parents, they put the worst in them Show it in front of you, you can express your dissatisfaction, vent it in front of them, and then see their reaction, generally speaking, responsible parents should not be so noisy in front of their children, and if you do show that you don't like them to be noisy and annoyed like this, they should be able to restrain themselves, but this is not the final solution to the problem, you should advise your dad to drink less, yes, you should be your family, the little adults are also your parents, baby, you should advise your dad to drink less, and then the other way around You should advise your mother to be more considerate of your dad when he is drinking, as long as he doesn't drink much, he doesn't get drunk, and he drinks a tael or two, and the aunt likes this hobby, and if the epidemic happens, then he doesn't go and quarrel with him, you can do it from both sides, and here, you're a 14-year-old child, although you're talking about a little adult, but since you're a student, you have to focus on learning, although you persuade your parents to be here, you can do a good job in your grades, so that what you say in front of your parents can go, in order to attract their attention If your academic performance has not been good, then what you say, neither of them will take it seriously, do you think it is right, want others to take your words seriously, then at least you have to work hard enough to be your student, they will take your words seriously, the future is long, there is a long way to go, I hope my advice can help you, come on.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You are 14 years old, your dad loves to drink, which has caused your mom and your dad to quarrel all the time, if you can't stand their quarrels and you are about to collapse, then your only way is to leave it alone, because you can't manage it well, and they don't listen to you, if they want to listen to your persuasion, you can communicate with them more and communicate more persuasion and persuasion.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello landlord, dad loves to drink, this is really not right, as a child, you have to persuade dad more, tell him to drink too much alcohol, not good for the body, don't always quarrel with mom, but also think more about yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You are just 14 years old, if your parents often quarrel, you are still young, you can't dissuade them, you can find an elder to persuade them, because they are all adults, only elders can convince them.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In this case, you should learn to protect yourself as soon as possible.

    At this age, it is best to seek help from relatives and friends, and you can also ask teachers for some advice.

    Hopefully, these answers will be useful to those who need them.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because you are very young, you are not strong enough to convince them, so you should find a more prestigious elder to persuade them or persuade them, so that they can realize the influence and harm that the family often does to you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When you grow up, you will know that after you get married, you will be stressed, women will relieve stress by quarreling, and men will anesthetize themselves by alcohol, and your path will be like this in the future, this is life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Couples who don't quarrel are not normal couples.

    The reason is either because of your parents' situation or something else.

    Or that your father will have other reasons not to drink.

    The suggestion is not to worry too much, let alone participate, just live your own youth.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Just let them solve the problems of the adults themselves, you just need to do what you have to do.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Advise your dad to drink less and don't make mom angry.

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