Why is it that the heart does not feel empty when I fall out of love, but it is very sad and sad

I used to be naïve, but now I am more materialistic and realistic. That is to say, now you, after experiencing so many emotional twists and turns, rationality is greater than emotion. You know exactly what will happen if you don't get along with each other. You also know exactly what you can give him and what he can bring to you.

Your so-called missing is just that you are unwilling, how can such a suitable person appear in your current material conditions.

Falling out of love is like losing, something you like or a person leaving you, can you not be sad, people have feelings, when a certain emotion affects you, you will be sad, and the brain will reflect the relative pain when it receives the signal that you are sad! You can turn your attention away, don't always think about each other, so that you can slowly forget each other after a long time! Pick yourself up again!

That's because you don't take him as important, you should know for yourself that he is not suitable for you, and that he has not met certain conditions. It's just that you have become a habit with him, and when you find new feelings, you will slowly forget it.

Because love is still there, it's just that you understand the objective reason why you can't be together, so your heart is not empty.

There are two types of love in the world, one is 'asking the world, what is love, and teaching life and death to promise', and the other is that material is greater than feelings. The first kind of love will be empty, and the second kind will not. In fact, the first type of modern love story is almost extinct, and the second kind will be popular, there is no need to be sad and sad, and high-quality love is hard to find.

Because you don't like him enough or say you love him.

Because, you feel that you have paid what you should have paid for this love, and you have no regrets.

Because the time is short, because the feelings are not deep, because you have experience before the split, because your heart is ready.

Because your heart is full.

Because you are unwilling! Let it go, and the better is waiting for you ahead!

Let's take a layman's example: if you have a kitten or a puppy or something, it will be uncomfortable to die or lose it... It's just that you don't like it the same way, you know.

The heart is not empty because you feel that you have not lost anything? Love is still not as good as material things in your heart.

I really don't know what you mean by emptiness, color is emptiness, emptiness is color... Wukong, as a teacher, I can't help you.

1. The first thing to find is the crux of why you don't love it. The real reason. (As long as two people decide to be together forever, no one can stop them in this world) who don't want such love!

2. If there is still the possibility of two people being together, then I personally think that we must do 100% hard to fight for it! The premise is that the person you are facing must have at least 20% or more thoughts and thoughts about living a lifetime! If not, it's not worth it!

3. Falling out of love may be painful for everyone, but everyone's pain is different, and the time it can last is also different. Personally, I recommend that you use the Spiritual Transfer Method. You know you're in a state of falling out of love right now, but you can't be like you.

You can do what you love. Make new friends, increase your workload, learn new skills, and more. In short, keep yourself busy.

Be sure to put your heart and soul into it. Try it or get it working!

Starting a new relationship is the best way to get out of the shadow of a broken relationship.

A promising man must have an ambition that cannot be stopped by any problem, and the realization of his ideals is the greatest joy, and he should not give up his achievements for a certain woman. You have developed and have your own wealth, and you are free to choose what kind of woman you have, forget it! There is firewood burning in the green mountains!

That's why they broke up. Because you're not motivated enough, you're not strong-willed. It's heard from your words. The more you do this, the farther away you are from her. What you have to do is: make yourself excellent, so that any woman who approaches you will be attracted to you and cannot do without you.

Forget about a relationship, time, and a new love.

Go out to play, don't think about the past, it's natural after a long time, or cry well, after a long time, when you think of her again, you can calmly reminisce about everything before.

It's not long enough, it's going to get better after a while, it's going to come out, try not to see anything about her again, don't contact her, slowly remove her from your life, come on! Everything will be fine.

Plunge into a new relationship, after all, without money, you may or may not be able to go on, without a lover, you can still breathe the air of life, contentment.

It's definitely too idle, and I won't think about her when I'm busy when I'm busy. She doesn't cherish your relationship, so why do you want to keep it.

It's been 5 years since I broke up with my ex, okay? I feel that people will only love one person in this life, and the rest of the days are the accumulation of life. My ex-girlfriend and I have been with me for 7 years, and since we broke up, I no longer know what it means to be heartbroken and what heartache is.

Life has numbed me.

Choose something that interests you, set a goal, take the time to do it, and when you have a sense of accomplishment when you complete it, you will feel that there is actually a lot to do.

Time can be diluted together, let your life be full, you will naturally forget, don't ask me if it's useful, my first love broke up for 7 years and I haven't forgotten...

Love is only a part of life, not all, if two people get better together, it's best, if one party is improving, the other party is not improving, then it is likely that the other party will look for a more excellent or suitable love partner, so accept changes, and manly, if you continue to learn and work motivated, there will naturally be an excellent other half waiting for you in front

If you can't let go, you can't let go, why do you have to force yourself to let go and forget, you can miss it, but you should also do what you have to do. Slowly, it will not be so sad, but it will be a good memory.

Forgetting and forgetting is not something that can be easily done by one person, what you need most is to find something to fill the hole, and as for forgetting it, it's up to you to get it.

There is a saying, where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower. Although this sentence is a bit excessive, it is completely possible to have such a mentality during a relationship, and there is no need to trap yourself in the love network and not extricate yourself.

It's yours, you can't push it away; If it's not yours, you can't keep it. You have to believe in fate, if you fall out of love, it means that your fate is over. You should face it calmly, and then go to the next fate with confidence. Perhaps, a better marriage is waiting for you not far away.

If you can't get out, it may be that you think too much, consider the opinions of your friends around you, consider the feelings of your parents, etc. You don't have to, you can divide it, and the twisted melon is not sweet. Looking up, the sunny day is ahead.

I wish you happiness and happiness!

Be sure to take the initiative to mention it before she feels like she wants to break up, and if she is broken up, she can only rely on time to come out.

Choose a goal, a motivation, a hobby, even if it is to choose a friend, distract your mind, try to do other meaningful things, whether it is to get drunk, insomnia for a night, even if it is to talk to a friend on Twitter, find a new exercise, read a book, as long as it can distract your energy and make yourself tired to the point of being unable to think, it is fine.

Accept your own status. Then you can look for more meaningful and fun activities to participate in. Travel, competitive sports, or any other activity you enjoy...

If you want the wound to heal, you must give birth to a new **. So you should hurry up and find a girl and divert your attention.

Falling out of love can indeed be quite a blow, but it is important to adjust yourself as soon as possible:

Then, be clear about why the relationship failed. Help yourself to do better in the future. Thank you for every experience.

It's a man's words, I can afford to put it down, I used to be like this, I came out of my part-time job, and then bought a computer, audio, installed the Internet, listened to **, in order to get out of the predicament of falling out of love, I worked hard, put all my mind on my career, and my family also had good food to eat, it was as simple as that, and I was accompanied by colleagues at work, chatting more, and I felt very relaxed. Besides, why would you have an unrequited love for a flower? Look at the belly of the big boss, the cultivation and quality are very high, it is worth drinking a cup of tea together and talking about life.

You can't concentrate, maybe you don't have many friends around you to play with, and my former boss generally knows what the mentality is at a glance when he feels about his employees. So, open your mind and talk to your friendliest person, and you'll be able to walk out, and my boss will be a friend. He personally made tea, saying that he also had such a thing, in fact, it was nothing, don't make yourself confused, have a big belly, and smile tolerantly, hehe.

Also, fate is not up to you, both of you probably don't know each other very well about your personality, temper, hobbies, etc., the twisted melon is not sweet, people want to marry someone else, they marry someone else, emotionally incompatible, it's not interesting to marry, and the whole family suffers. If you have a family, try not to disturb their lives, be interesting, and remember well.

Feelings! For thousands of years, human beings have been the most unable to explain and rationally think about things.

Now that it has happened, if you still want to move on with your life in the future, your Lord must let go of this emotion for a while, otherwise you will never be able to get out.

Find yourself something that takes time and effort to do, and change your focus.

It is the choice of many people to avoid being busy, of course, there are also people who choose to be Shen Lun, and some people who choose to indulge themselves.

My advice is to find something to do for yourself, and I personally think that this is the most effective. Time is the best medicine, and indulging in sadness is the most undesirable thing to do, because in this way, it proves that she (he) is right to leave you.

Listen to me, if you can't forget her, then take the opposite path, as the saying goes.

You recall, reminisce carefully, reminisce constantly, over and over again, and keep thinking.

How sweet it is to remember the happy days between you.

and the anger of the time when there is a conflict between you.

Think again, at the end of the memory, she abandoned you or broke up with you, your broken heart.

At this time, you seriously think about whether this person is worthy of your love and like, and whether this person is really that good?

Go on a trip, usually new visions, new things can distract people's attention, if you are a careful person, you will also through what you see and hear on the road, trigger certain feelings, figure out certain things, and then get new insights.

There is only time to heal, it will get better slowly, it usually takes 3 months, half a year, a year, don't let yourself be idle, falling out of love is not a bad thing, it will make you mature a lot, lay a good foundation for the next marriage, be strong, it will pass.

It's normal for young people to fall out of love, who hasn't had a few friends, love is a random thing.

Most young people have experienced it, so you don't stop working, so beware of empty thoughts. The saddest time is only 15 days, no matter how you spend this day and day after day, the vicissitudes of life are the process of a man's maturity.

You know, she's not for you! Providence, don't be sad, there is something better waiting for you!

Only time can solve all this, and after a long time, it will slowly return to the past.

Sometimes it's too emotional, too hurtful to yourself, and let go when it's time to let go.

Think about it quietly, make an accurate assessment, whether it can be recovered, it is enough to work hard, if it is a foregone conclusion, you can immediately find the next her. This problem is solved.

People have feelings, in fact, no matter who you are, as long as you put yourself into it, you don't want to be sad and send that relationship directly, I'm afraid no one can do it. The best way is to find something to entrust time or quickly find another partner so that forget the sad feelings faster, if you don't do anything every day, it will be difficult to lie down ** and obsessively think about the other party's forgetful relationship, so it will also be on the body.

Time and new love.

Do things that require concentration, such as crafting and playing.

Work hard to improve yourself, and then wait for fate to come, and break up means that you may not really be a good fit.

First, start over for a while. Second, get busy. Third, time will tell you that it is not a thing. Fourth, think about those who are married and find that there is a problem with divorce, those who are sad about their marriages and those who are angry about betraying their love. Fourth, think about your parents.

Time. It's my own confusion. She doesn't like you anymore. What are you still nostalgic for? In the words of my village, is it cheap? besides, in the future, you will find that she is really not the most beautiful and suitable for yourself.

Come to me and fall in love and come out.

Go back to her and tell her that you miss her so much. Find a compound. Don't let yourself regret it.

The breakup is short, if you can, find a new girlfriend immediately, and soon you don't want to.

I've been through it too, heartbreaking. Looking back now, I could have handled it better.

Let's go for a long-distance run first, or other endurance-based exercises, through exercise to eliminate the biochemical effects of broken love on the body as much as possible, so that you will not be immersed in depression all the time.

After being able to calm down and think about it, think about what you actually need in a relationship? I have a friend who has been in love many times, and he told me that he just can't stand the feeling of being alone. I now think that I was more of an instinctive reaction, or fell in love with the concept of love.

In the end, I found that my strongest pursuit was not on the side of the relationship, so I decided to stay single for a while, until one day I might be able to meet the person who touched my feelings.

Relationships need to be managed, think about what you want most for a relationship. Then be more prepared to better manage your relationship later, and also be more prepared for your future life.

In general, it's about adjusting your body and thinking.