Why do I always feel so tired and want to let go of everything, what should I do?

Hello landlord! I used to be the same as you, I wanted to let go of everything and go to another world, but after a while I found that I had changed, because the other world I thought of was around me, because I came to a new environment, met some new friends, and added some new hobbies, which made you rekindle your hope for life, I have a dark side in my heart, but I use another face and another me to face those places that can bring me happiness, life is like an echo, you scold him, he will scold you, Hope is not born there, but needs to be found, you need maybe a new environment, or a faith, a belief, a dream, people live for the pursuit, I live well now, because I am pursuing, I am exploring hope, I love life, life will like me, I have hands and feet, and many people without hands and feet are stronger than me! Hawking has been in a wheelchair for decades, but he didn't give up on himself, although I didn't learn his physics knowledge, but I learned his hope for life, if your family treats you badly, but you have friends, it doesn't matter if you have few friends, you can make friends!

The world is so big, there will definitely be people you love, things you love, don't stop going out because the door is broken, at least there is a window! Set yourself a big goal! Countless small goals, establish a faith!

Pure hand-to-hand, if there is a logical loophole you can tell me, I will change, the landlord is a good person, hope!

Sooner or later, we have to face it.

Go out for a walk and relax yourself.

I feel that this relationship makes me very tired, and I can't let go of it if I want to, and the solution is: deal with it calmly.

The way to deal with it calmly: try to socialize together like a friend, don't dwell too much, just simply get along with each other, and then feel it. If you still can't let go, it means that you do have feelings for each other, and the best way is to find a problem and solve it.

For example, if you think the other person is too good and it backfires, then don't let yourself be entangled and tell yourself that no one is perfect. Otherwise, the more entangled you will be, the more tired you will be, and finally you will be tired to doubt your life.

Because two people are different individuals, it is normal to have various differences, if you can't let go, you have to learn to let go of yourself and adapt to each other appropriately. Try to take the problem lightly and try to choose to go with the flow.

I once encountered a relationship that made me very tired and couldn't let go:

It was my junior year, and my boyfriend was a very lively person, although he looked tall and bigBut in reality, thinking and doing things are relatively naïve.

At first, it was okay to get along, but as time changed, I felt that he couldn't do a lot of things, and his speech was relatively simple and direct, often provoking people, and even he himself didn't know what was wrong, which made me very embarrassed. So,I struggled, I felt very tired about it, like taking care of a child. But because I have true feelings, I can't let go, so it's also all kinds of uncomfortable.

How can I get out of this state, I keep asking myself?

Then I told myselfLet's spend time together as friends. I don't dwell on his rights and wrongs, and I don't think about what the result will be, just just in some company. It was later found outI finally came out of this state, and I felt a lot more relaxed.

As for his boyfriend, although he grows up very slowly, none of this matters. And if you want to continue, you must learn to look at his shortcomings correctly and understand him more.

Yes, feelings are like that, the more serious you are, the more tired you will be. So, it's important how you think about it. Maybe, when you don't bother him, the relationship will slowly end, let go, and your heart will be calm.

I feel very tired and can't let go, that is, you are not tired enough, and you will let go when you are tired enough, but when you are not tired in this relationship, you may also start a relationship that is more tired than this.

I don't think it's appropriate. In the dead of night, I always want to find a tranquility, find a space to be alone, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind, and escape for a while in the tranquility of cranky thoughts. When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a signal to the sky that it is tired, too tired, and this feeling of tiredness is not something that ordinary people can imagine.

Every day I want to find peace in my soul, however, it is really difficult.

From the day people are born, they are destined to accompany a lifetime of emotions and unsatisfactory life, fate is doomed, if you want to change your fate, you have to contend with all the misfortunes and ups and downs, choose the appropriate escape, that is just useless futility. Escape may sometimes be just a minute, or you can only get a minute of silence, or maybe you suddenly realize in the tranquility that people can't live too tired. I often comfort myself in this way.

There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Maybe I'm just a philistine. Why look for tranquility in anything?

In fact, I want to hope for peace, in this extraordinary and bad day this year. I reflected and reflected. Most of the time I don't understand what I'm doing.

Kind of life. Kind of always tugging at people's minds on certain days. When it comes to the tranquility of seeking, everyone expects to have this moment.

For me, it may feel a little heavier in moments of solitude, but it's not absolute. Sometimes, although people are in a noisy and noisy environment, but the heart has already flown to the realm of not knowing what kind of, I often smile on my face, and I have seen through all the complicated things in my inner constancy.

People sometimes pretend to be a master of the world, but in fact, it is not the case, and the appearance of all this is also due to countless times of crawling, and then the end of reflection. There is no real excitement of benefits, no real heartfelt reverence for life and nature, no gratitude and appreciation for life and the world, no kind and transparent understanding, no kind and susceptible heart, no final awakening, and no natural tranquility and detachment.

In many cases, the motivation to seek tranquility is far greater than the force caused by all external things, and it may also be a process of excellence in the pursuit of tranquility for each individual. Why is that? I asked myself with a smile.

For a person who is truly integrated into life, will sigh at the wonder of the creation of the world. The heartfelt reverence and concern for life and nature is a kind of sincere gratitude and admiration.

Everyone has their own growth process, the mentality is smooth, no one is smooth, the worse the heart, the worse the situation, for example: a restaurant owner, business is not good, few people patronize, resulting in closing, complaining about business is difficult to do and other problems! As long as we put our mentality in place, take proper measures in time, and believe that there are always more ways than difficulties, and successful people are often those who are positive!

Everyone has different pressures when they are tired, and the key depends on how we resolve it!

Relax, calm down, negotiate, and have a better attitude.

I think life is too short, and if you really feel tired all of a sudden and want to let go of everything, then you should listen to your own heart, and there is no need to do something for yourself that makes you tired.

Of course, I think the premise is that you don't have any other family members to support, then you are free, but if you have a family waiting for your salary to survive, then you should show your own sense of responsibility and then think about how to solve the problem? At this time, you can't just let go of everything if you want to. <>

If you can really let go of everything, unless you have a certain amount of savings to make you worry about food and clothing, otherwise it is irresponsible to yourself and your family, in fact, how many people live in the world without feeling tired? But how many of us can really let go of everything?

I know a person who he thinks about very much, he feels very tired at work, and he is very unhappy to be managed, so he chooses to put down everything and do nothing, but he also needs to survive, he actually chose to gnaw at the old, I think this is a very despicable behavior. You can live your life as you please, but only if it doesn't affect anyone.

He soaks on the Internet every day, and when he sees someone talking about his superior life, he will be ashamed to PK with others, saying that he has never gone to work in his life, and no one is as comfortable as his life. Whenever I saw him say such things, I panicked for him, and I wished that there was a crack in the ground to get into.

If a person only thinks about himself, then he is not worthy of being a person. When we are young, we don't work hard, what should we do when we are old? You can gnaw on the old now, but who are you going to gnaw on when your parents are gone?

First of all, you have to make yourself interested. In this way, when you are tired, you can liberate your mind through this interest. You can make it easier for yourself.

Don't let yourself pursue too many things in life, live the moment is the happiest, and this lifestyle will make it easier for you.

The first is to let yourself go and let go of some scruples, so that you can live without worries and easily.

If you want to relax yourself, you have to tell yourself that you can't have too high desires, you can't think too much, and you can do it by believing in yourself.

I think we should have an optimistic attitude and not put too much pressure on ourselves in life and work.

We should not pursue too many things, we must learn to be content and happy, and if we really can't get something, we must choose to let go, so that we can make ourselves relaxed.

The heart is too tired, it is indeed because there are too many things in your heart, so you have to let go of all your responsibilities and obligations, let yourself relax, and then move on.