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What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.
Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?
How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.
Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."
When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.
Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.
Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.
The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.
There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.
He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.
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Conscience matters. But few people in this society feel that conscience is important.
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If you have a conscience, you will also value family affection.
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Not long ago, I saw a short ** clip in which a poor man killed his brother in order to buy a high insurance premium. This kind of story actually happened a lot in the first few years. A few years ago, poverty eradication was not over.
Families who are not wealthy have done the same. Money helps a lot in the standard of living, but which is more important than love or friendship?
The vicious circle of poverty: willpower is over-spent. Social psychologist Roy Beaumeister in his book Willpower:
The concept of willpower is explained in The Psychology of Self-Control, Focus, and Efficiency. Willpower is not a psychological effect, but a physiological mechanism. Overuse like our muscles can become fatigued.
Doing everything possible to maintain a decent standard of living is the essence of poverty. So many contradictions erupted, feelings disappeared day by day, and finally estrangement is the true meaning of poverty. What hates it is not the poverty of life.
What I hate is the oppression of pursuing the good things that come with material insufficiency. The annoying thing is that each consumer can only make the lowest level of choice.
Sustaining the livelihood of your dreams: Hoping to lead to a rich life. In the middle and lower strata of society, in fact, the middle class is the most uneasy.
Because they not only envy the food, clothing, money and power of their superiors, but also fear that they will fall into the lower class, they enter the ranks of poverty, sleep on the streets, and have no worries about food and clothing. "The lower classes have become accustomed to the torment of poverty. Never mind.
Because imagination is much easier than action, imagination only needs to imagine the beautiful scene of the brain, and there are many obstacles to overcome in action. Imagination is an advanced cognitive ability of human beings. It is different from feelings and perceptions, it can break the shackles of reality, cross the barriers of time and space, and create infinitely beautiful scenes according to the free will of the person concerned to meet their own psychological needs.
The selfishness of human nature: unreservedly displayed in front of money. People are social animals, so everyone has to establish certain interpersonal relationships.
Stable interpersonal relationships should be based on emotional components, supplemented by cognition and behavior, and the emotional components should be used to regulate the direction of interpersonal relationships. When interpersonal relationships are estranged, the dark side of human nature is exposed, they get angry and lash out, and relationships are nothing more than camouflage suits carefully disguised for profit. "Ideas are walls stronger than anything else.
Because it will not collapse or be handed over to the enemy. "The task of "cultivating the habit of independent thinking" is difficult and it is also the task of our lifelong growth.
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Affection. Because family affection is eternal, and interests are only temporary, family affection will accompany you for a lifetime, so I think family affection is more important.
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Of course, family affection is more important, when you reach a certain age, you will find that there is nothing more important in the world than relatives, all interests are only temporary, but relatives are for a lifetime.
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Or family affection is more important, because these things will only lead to people becoming more and more unrecognizable, and only family affection is more permanent.
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It must be that family affection is more important, and if we lose it, we can regain it, but if we lose it, there will be no relatives.
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In the course of our lives, affection and affection are very important components of life, and they are often intertwined, sometimes bringing us happiness and sometimes pain. At a certain time, there may be contradictions and conflicts between family affection and feelings, but no matter what, family affection is also very important, and feelings are also necessary, so it is necessary to properly handle the relationship between them and not let yourself become passive and painful. <>
Family affection may accompany us throughout our lives, from the time we are born, we will feel the love of family affection, and in the process of growing up, it is inseparable from the support and help of family affection, so family affection plays a vital role in our growth. Especially the love of parents, it is the most important family affection in our lives, after all, the nurturing grace of parents is something we can not forget for the rest of our lives, so no matter when, the feelings of parents should not be underestimated. <>
When we grow up, we may meet our own feelings, that is, we need to experience love. For the feelings of their lovers, many of them are based on their own instincts and physiological needs, and they will also spend a lot of energy and time to leave indelible memories in their hearts. Sometimes you may be very crazy about your feelings, do whatever it takes to love, and even forget your family affection, no matter where you are, no matter how difficult you encounter, you will move forward bravely at all costs.
Of course, you also need to be rational when dealing with feelings, don't be too impulsive, after all, feelings are different from life, and you may feel that you will hurt yourself. <>
If your feelings are not understood and recognized by your parents, you must stay reasonable, don't let your parents get angry, and don't blame your parents, you can take some flexible means to let your parents slowly understand yourself and accept your lover. Of course, this process may be more complicated, and it will take a long time, no matter what, you have to work hard to fight for it, and I believe that you will definitely get the support of your parents, so that there will be no conflict between feelings and family affection.
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I think family affection is more important. Family affection is destined for a lifetime, with deep bonds.
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Family affection and affection, I think the more important thing is, of course, family affection, no matter when family affection is never parted, and when you are hurt, family affection can always help you tide over difficulties.
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Family affection, because this is the only group of people who will still be good to you without accounting for your good or bad.
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Family, love, and friendship are what each of us will experience when we come into this world. These three emotions run through our lives. Sometimes he inspires us, and sometimes he makes us sad and angry. But it is undeniable that they are indeed important and indispensable to us.
There is no first in literature, no second in martial arts, and the same is true for feelings. In the depths of our hearts, there must be a scale that we can measure. Which affection is more important to us. For me, family affection is more important.
I believe that many men who have girlfriends will be asked this question, if their girlfriends and mothers fall into the water, who will they save first? This is a proposition. It gives countless men a headache.
At the heart of this is the comparison of emotions. Whether to choose love or family. Even though as adults, we don't make choices, we all do.
But if this kind of thing happens in reality. A choice must be made. I believe that many people actually have the answer in their hearts.
It is our relatives who have been nurturing us to grow up and have been selflessly dedicated. They are the main help of our growth. Without them, we would not be where we are now.
No matter how deep the relationship is, in the face of decades of family affection, it is a little beyond its strength after all.
In fact, no matter how we think about it in our hearts, in the face of this proposition, the law has already given the answer.
According to the law of our country, if a girlfriend and a mother fall into the water at the same time, it is a moral obligation to save the girlfriend, and it is a legal obligation to save the mother.
So is affection necessarily inferior to family affection? Not really. After the initial youthfulness, love will eventually transform into family affection under the polishing of time.
Although it is cloaked in love, its core becomes family affection. Legally the wife and family are also equal. Husbands and wives have a statutory obligation to help.
If the girlfriend becomes a wife in the proposition, then the law will not be able to help you choose. However, although many people may still save their mothers. But if he couldn't save his wife in the end.
We will gladly move forward with our wives.
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A person's life is rich and colorful, and different emotions will definitely be experienced at different ages, including family, friendship, love, etc., and the feelings in the title should refer to love in a narrow sense. In the face of these different emotions. I believe that people have different comparisons about their status in their hearts, and for me, at any given moment, family will come first, followed by love, and then friendship.
That's why I feel that family affection is more important than love. Why do I give such a ranking in my mind? I believe that after reading the following analysis, you will understand.
Family affection accounts for a large proportion of a person's life, and love can also be transformed into family affection. I believe that many people have encountered such a question, "That is, the daughter-in-law asked me and your mother fell into the river at the same time, who do you save", such a question seems to be a proposition, but in fact it can reflect the ranking of love and family affection in people's hearts to a certain extent. On the one hand, people can experience the warmth of family affection as soon as they are born, and love needs to be found in their own ability in later life; On the other hand, after experiencing the tempering of life, the love that has achieved positive results will gradually change to family affection.
Compared with the romance and freedom of love, family affection means more responsibility and waiting. The reason why some people feel that love is more important than family affection is because they only see the freedom and romance of love. But in fact, after a vigorous period of love, love will eventually return to dullness, and gradually transform into mutual support and mutual waiting in a peaceful life.
And it is the responsibility and waiting carried in family affection that makes me feel that in a person's life, family affection is much more important than love. <>
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I feel that family affection is more important, because family affection is a very reluctant feeling, and it also has a very important meaning in people's lives.
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It's family affection that is more important, because I think family affection can't be abandoned, but I think feelings can be abandoned.
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I think family affection is more important, because the people who give us affection can sacrifice a lot for us.
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There are many things to care about in our lives, and family, friendship, and love are the three feelings that people often talk about. For many people, family affection is as important as their marriage, and of course many people don't think so. Everyone's order of family and love is different, so if you compare family and marriage, what do you think is more important?
In our lives, family affection occupies the first half of our lives, and married life occupies the second half of our lives. And for many people, the line between affection and marriage is clear. And many people will also make a comparison between family affection and marriage, and at this time, you can see what kind of feelings in a person's heart are more important to themselves.
For everyone, the relationship between family and marriage is very important to themselves, so they will want to take care of both, but it is often more difficult to do so, because people's minds can only be placed on one thing. As for me personally, I care more about family affection. Because family affection is thicker than water, and family affection will not be easily shaken.
When we feel setbacks and difficulties, family affection is the driving force that supports us, and our loved ones always choose to support us unconditionally.
In fact, for each of us, family affection and marriage are crucial, because we cannot live without the support of any kind of relationship. It is because of these two relationships that our lives are enriched and colorful. And having such a relationship can also make our lives more enjoyable.
So there is actually no comparison between the two, and I think family affection is as important as marriage. But if I had to tell who was more important, I think family affection was more important.
So to sum up, I think if we compare family affection with marriage, family affection is more important, no matter when and where we can't forget the strength that family affection gives us, so what do you think about this?
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