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Communicate with your friends and integrate with their lives.
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1. Make friends with heart, make friends with others, and treat friends sincerely.
2. If you want to be friends with others, you must take the initiative and introduce yourself to others.
3. We must have a common language, like-mindedness, and trust each other, so that we can slowly deepen our friendship.
4. Friends should tolerate each other, understand each other, and don't always take advantage of each other.
5. Remember that gentlemen's friendship is as light as water, and you need to keep your distance from each other.
6. Don't speak ill of your friends behind your back, and don't talk about the rights and wrongs of others.
7. Don't interfere with other people's privacy, don't cross the line, just be friends.
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1. People who are easy to satisfy. This kind of person wants less, he can always get more than he wants, and he has nothing to regret. Moreover, "if there is no desire, he is strong", he does not need to be attached to anyone, and he can live a peaceful, relaxed and happy life.
Associating with this kind of person can make you calm and help you think.
Second, people with a kind heart. This kind of person only hopes for the good of others, is not afraid of suffering, and is willing to submit to others. Because of his good popularity, others dare not bully him; Since he is beneficial and harmless, others do not want to deceive him.
Even if he is fooled by chance, he has no sense of loss, and he can forget things naturally. Associating with such people is conducive to cultivating one's own moral foundation. The so-called "virtuous load" is the foundation for great things.
3. People who like others. This kind of person can always find the good in others and ignore the disadvantages. As a result, others also like him and are willing to approach him to help him, so that his life will be happy and his career will be smooth.
Associating with such people, who can always be praised and encouraged, helps to develop self-confidence.
4. People who trust others. This kind of person has a deep understanding of human nature and human feelings, and believes that the vast majority of people are willing to succeed with their own efforts and are unwilling to be bad people. He dares to leave things to others and give them a fair pay, so he can win people.
Those who win the power of others are invincible in the world, and the wise people who win people are fearless saints", this kind of person is a great talent, and he will be able to stand out. Associating with this kind of person can make one's natural potential be fully realized, which will help oneself grow, and it will be beneficial to climb the dragon and follow the wind. In the workplace, we must make more friends with noble people, learn from them those ways of doing things, and finally form our own ways of doing things, so that you can walk ahead of others.
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If you want to make friends better, then make friends with some attractive people, and some excellent people, you can learn from him, and there are people who are interested, which may make you happier, because on the whole, the mentality is the same, friends Hua must have nothing to do with character, we have to miss is to improve ourselves, make ourselves better.
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Here are a few tips for getting along with friends:
1. Be honest but don't make any mistakes
The most basic thing for people to get along with each other is to be honest, if they are not open-minded and sincere, but guard against each other, only talk three points when they meet, and never give a piece of their hearts to people, for these people, they cannot expect to put their hearts in their hearts. However, honesty is also about moderation.
If there is no guilt between friends, it is not very good to talk about everything, just like the "thoroughness" that Mr. Lu Xun opposed, it is not good, there is room for it, the necessary avoidance, and the need for elegance is still needed.
2. Enthusiastic but not rash
Interpersonal communication, due to the occasion, age, gender, generation and the depth of communication, etc., enthusiasm will also have a grade, a difference in proportion. In public, it is even more inappropriate to meet acquaintances and lovers in a timely manner, ignore others, laugh loudly, and behave excessively intimately.
3. Be humble but not false
If a person pretends to be humble and seeks a reputation for "modesty", this is a sign of vanity and not humility. Some people like to say some insincere words of praise to each other when communicating, thinking that only in this way can they appear polite, humble and educated. As everyone knows, excessive praise is almost flattery, which will make people disgusted.
4. Be cautious but not restrained
Be cautious in everything you do. Acting carefully and dealing with people is necessary for success. Being inhibited and helpless in front of people is not conducive to communication.
Don't say what you should say, don't do what you should do, it's not prudence but cowardice. In ordinary interactions, we must be down-to-earth and generous, and we must be cautious in our words and deeds.
5. Lively but not frivolous
Humorous conversation and lively manners are important mediums in human interactions. Be cautious and overdo everything, otherwise it will make people think that you are contemptuous and act frivolously.
6. Serious but not picky
If a person wants to be beneficial, he must see more of the strengths of others. Everyone has more or less strengths. It's up to you to find out.
For example, if someone is better than you in school or career, but is weak in life, then you can learn more from their strengths and abilities to help them with their weaknesses, which not only learns from each other, but also builds friendships. On the contrary, if you ask the other person to be good at everything, to know everything, then you will end up losing, and not everything is perfect.
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