I m 20 years old and want to be more mature, 22 years old, so mature?

Are in their twenties, and still feel like a child, which shows that there is already a desire to grow up, eager to mature back, eager to grow, this is the answer to the problems that every child will encounter in the process of growing up, when you find that you have a very immature side in fact, it is particularly naïve, it means that you are trying to grow up, and you are looking for a breakthrough to make yourself a mature person quickly.

This kind of feeling may be encountered by everyone, even if I am 30 years old, I still feel that I am not mature enough, and I am always doing something that does not match my age, maybe we are not very experienced, so let's increase my experience as much as possible.

It's nice to have a young mindset so that you don't have to worry about getting old. In fact, I still feel like a child in my 20s, maybe it's because of my mentality, or maybe it's because I don't have enough experience in a person, if you go through vicissitudes, then you will be more or less mature.

Maturity and stability are two different things, and maturity is not something to learn, we can only accumulate little by little through experience, which is a grasp of life experience. If you want to become mature, you have to train yourself more, and it is definitely not possible to be in your 20s and still be like a child.

The reason why you are in your 20s and still think that you are immature, in fact, this is also very normal, because we used to say that we stand at thirty, for a young person, only when you are 30 years old can you be considered mature in the real sense, and only at this stage can your career be truly finalized.

And for many of us young people, it is said that it is 20 years old, which is already an adult, but 20 years old is just a time node, in this time period, we just completed high school and college, and completed the process of transformation from students to society, we just take into account the time node of 20 years old, and do not take into account the logic behind it, we see that some have fully matured in their teens, and some are still very ignorant even close to 30 years old. This is mainly due to the inconsistency of the educational experience of different people.

Although there are many young people who are indeed more mature under normal circumstances after the age of 20, if a person's mind is still immature, it can only be said that it has nothing to do with age, and their life experience and values are inextricably linked.

There is also no special rule for maturity.

Maturity is related to many factors, such as family upbringing, psychological quality, and personal cultivation.

For example, I am a left-behind child, my parents are not around all the time, of course, now that I am in college, it may lead to more introversion, because I have experienced a lot of things.

In short, when you realize something or understand something that is very meaningful to your life, you are almost mature.

Of course, it's not all what I said, and in the end, you have to feel it yourself, in short, there is no special provision for maturity.

Twenty-something isn't that mature yet, probably because it doesn't make you feel a mature thing. There's no such thing as a hassle that wants you to grow.

The sign of a person's maturity is probably that there are fewer and fewer expectations, we think that we can achieve good results if we work hard, we think that as long as we are sincere, we can exchange sincerity and sincerity, and we think that as long as we are good people, we will definitely encounter good things. However, it was not until we were wronged that we found that hard work is not the only condition, and that the other party may not necessarily compare their hearts with their hearts and even be hypocritical, so you have to lower your expectations of others, and you can not overestimate your relationship with anyone, because often the higher the expectation, the greater the harm, just keep a normal heart.

A person's immaturity has nothing to do with age, to be precise, it is related to personal growth experience, life experience, you have experienced more things, and you will naturally mature.

Sometimes "maturity" requires some price, it may be that it will "grow" when encountering certain things or certain encounters or certain lessons, so this kind of maturity is also helpless.

In addition, some people's personalities are like this, maybe they are very arrogant, they may be very straight, they may be more out-of-the-box, or they are more simple-minded, etc., and the behavior they show will be childish, which does not mean that they are psychologically immature, and everyone will not think that such a person is annoying, but that such a person is "very real", so I think it is good to go with the flow, don't be too yourself.

Because you haven't experienced the things that made you grow overnight, you've been immature.

Don't worry, because you are still too young and have little social experience, only if you have more experience, you will slowly mature and steady!

Twenty years old is not a mature age, mature through the collision of various things in society, polishing, can be mature.

People can normally live to be 120 years old, so in this long river of years, you are still a child at the age of 20.

Maturity sometimes comes at a price, and there's nothing wrong with being mature, but there's nothing wrong with not being mature, so let it be.

Because you haven't experienced anything that makes you miserable or understandable. So your mindset is always in a state of activity.

Because you haven't encountered anything that makes you mature quickly.

It has something to do with your life experience, your personality, your experience, and so on.

You know that you are not mature enough, and that you have taken another big step towards maturity

Some people in their twenties are still studying, and some have just walked out of school.

Let me tell you this, immature boys are relatively cute! If an immature boy pretends to be mature, it is not cute. Why? Isn't it good to look like four?

Maturity is not a matter of a day or two. There is no absolute standard either.

Go out as a passenger and listen to the hearts of passengers from all over the world, what the past, and where they will go in the future. The premise is that you have a certain amount of time, and people are willing to say it.

But be sure to pay attention to safety, ** is also all over the world from ancient times to the present. Not something terrible. Well, that's ......It's mainly up to you, and you've realized that you're naïve, and it's easy to do.

First: learn to mature yourself and don't act like a child in everything. Learn more about how to deal with things.

Second: watch more TV series, don't watch all those soap operas, that will only aggravate your naivety! Watch some meaningful TV series and learn how the characters in them deal with the things around them.

Third, pay more attention to your words and mannerisms in your daily life. It's awkward at first, but you'll get used to it slowly. Pay special attention here. Don't let others think you're pretentious! That's something you need to pay attention to.

Fifth: There is more contact with people of your age who are more mature than you, and they are close to Zhu Zhechi.

Sixth: Let's fall in love, it's best to fall out of love by the way, falling out of love will make people mature, hehe. I didn't lie to you. But it is not advisable ...

Take your time, it's not something that happens overnight.

Based on my years of experience, it's all cooked!

Summary. At the age of 21, people should be mature enough to be able to make the right decisions on their own, take responsibility for themselves, and be able to take care of themselves. In addition, they should also have the ability to think independently, be able to see problems from different perspectives, and be able to communicate and coordinate effectively.

At the age of 21, people should be mature enough to make the right decisions on their own, to take on their own responsibilities, and to be able to take care of themselves. In addition, they should also have the ability to think independently, be able to see problems from different perspectives, and be able to communicate and coordinate effectively.

I'm still a little confused, can you be more detailed?

At the age of 21, people should be mature enough to make the right decisions autonomously and independently, take responsibility, take care of themselves, and have the ability to think independently and coordinate well.

Before you know it, it's already 20.

It seems that he is still a child, and he is still playing with his parents and playing with caution.

But at this age, you should have taken on all the responsibilities a long time ago.

Including excellent responsibility.

What other boys and girls are doing at the age of 19 or 20 may not be so referential.

But looking at the best of them is a wake-up call.

The first semester of sophomore year. It's officially over.

What you've learned, what you've grown.

A thought difference. You can't motivate yourself to change yourself upside down with a piece of chicken soup, but you have to take it one step at a time.

The reflection of....First of all, don't be too willful, don't be too big. This semester's skipping physical tests and thrilling physical education classes have given you a wake-up call. Luckily your petty waywardness has no real consequences, but it's just your luck.

Some things still have to be measured and handled properly. Don't forget that you were in a state of panic before the score of the sports slag vertical class. That's a good lesson.

Also, "count". This semester is a bit longer than the previous one, but it's not enough. The reason why so many classes have to start from scratch at the end of the semester, and why there are so many regrets and regrets at the end of the semester is because there is not enough "counting" in the semester.

From the first day, you will be in a state of ending your life. That can really change the look of the whole world.

English (including vocabulary, grammar, reading, writing, listening, speaking); economics (your economics professionalism is too inadequate); mathematics (there are too many missing freshman years, and if you want Liang Jian to survive well, you have to make up for it in advance); Art (really, really loved).

And also. You don't have the right not to be good, because there are still people in the world who love you, because you love people who are so good. Some of them are pushing forward, and you have no choice but to turn back.

Therefore, it is good to always mention the state, always meet the battle, and always be sincere.

You have low emotional intelligence, this can only be done slowly....

However, self-management should be done well, image temperament and so on.

The world is really beautiful and there are so many things you love. Therefore, you have to put your heart and soul into order to have a twenty-year-old who does not regret it.

So no matter what happened before, look forward, and from now on, be a Xuan who can be worthy of them.

No matter what, learn to face it, solve it, reject the glass heart, and believe in it from the heart to become strong.

When a person reaches the age of 25, he is already relatively mature, at this time he has graduated from college, his job is basically stable, and he can no longer rely on his family and parents, and he can also achieve self-reliance, so there are many things that will quietly change in himself.

First, knowing that it is not easy to make money, I started saving money on my own. Because before this, most parents were self-conscious, and they would not think too much about money, and they would care about their parents if they didn't have money. There is no awareness of saving money at all.

And after participating in the work, first of all, the hard work will make you feel that it is really not easy to make money, and you need to pay hard work, at this time, you will also be restrained in spending money, and you will make a financial plan for yourself every month, and the awareness of saving money is getting stronger and stronger.

Second, help parents share responsibilities. After work, I realized more and more that it was not easy for my parents. Because from my own work experience, I can feel that it is not easy for my parents to support a family.

Third, pay more attention to socialization. Because after work, the relationship with the people around you is no longer as simple as when you were in school, just dealing with your classmates, and after work, it involves friends and colleagues, and related units that are connected with your work, these relationships need to be maintained by your own efforts, so socialization is very important for everyone. I also began to consciously develop my circle of friends, so that I could have better connections.

Those who lack shirts. These are all things that are rarely considered before the age of 25, and after the age of 25, these are things that we must consider, which is a change in some things, and it is also a sign of a person's gradual maturity.

Recently, on Zhihu, I saw such a discussion topic "Should you learn to mature at the age of twenty", and found that there are many discussions below, some say that you are already twenty years old, and you want to say goodbye to the ignorant self and plan for your future; It is also said that it is only twenty years old, and it is only two years before the age of eighteen, so don't be too anxious to learn to mature, youth is worth wasting.

In fact, there must be a thousand strange answers to this question, and there will not be a special set of standard answers, and everyone should have different opinions due to the influence of factors such as family and society.

However, since the answer is not unified, I can only say my own opinion on the age of twenty. For me, twenty years old should be mature, I can't be nostalgic for those seventeen or eighteen-year-old youth ignorance, I can do not have to worry about the price, calculate the gains and losses to complete a thing. At the age of seventeen or eighteen, our parents may be able to clean up the aftermath for us, but at the age of twenty, we can only rely on ourselves.

Moreover, the age of 20 is another starting point in life, and the life we want to live at the age of 30 is often determined by our efforts in our twenties, and we are responsible for our future life, as well as for our aging parents. As far as I am concerned, for a person who was born in a small county, the family's economy is mainly dependent on my father to spend, which also determines that I have no capital to squander my own. I had to learn to mature and not let my sensibilities take over me.

I am responsible for my own future.

So, I'm still in favor of twenty years old, we should learn to mature and take responsibility for our future.

It's time to part, I'm parting, see you tomorrow!