What is it like to quarrel and quarrel?

Just like my mother, she is very kind, always kind to people, and rarely argues with people. My dad is usually the same person in dispute, and I've hardly ever seen her rub shoulders with others. I always admired how she could be so good-tempered, and then when I grew up, I suddenly found that my mother didn't want to say it, but she couldn't say it, even if others did it too much, he was used to suffering silently, not aggressive at all, and he couldn't even learn to fight back.

So many times when others push her for something they don't want to do, she really can't look past it, even if she is taught how to reject others, she can't learn. On the contrary, people always say why my mother has such a good temper, but I am sharp-toothed, why, because you always bully her. She never won every time she argued with her father, and every time she finished arguing with me, she told me that I should have said this and this at the time, yes, it was too late to say this after the quarrel, even if she forgot about it next time.

It's really depressing.

It's just that when I'm in a hurry or talking loudly, I can't stop the tears in my red eyes, in fact, it's not that I'm sad or anything else, every time I quarrel, I'll be mistaken for crying very sadly, in fact, it's a physiological reaction that can't be controlled at all, in fact, the trash talk in my heart can fight for another 200 rounds, but in the eyes of others, I'm pitiful and crying.

After every so-called quarrel, it is always at a certain moment long after the fact, that it suddenly comes to mind how to quarrel back ruthlessly and accurately when the other party said a certain sentence during the quarrel.

Not only did I not go back, but I was also prone to tears when I was excited, thinking that I was so unreasonable, unreasonable, and then I cried angrily and choked up and couldn't speak, thinking afterwards, why am I so wasteful.

When I quarreled with my husband, when I was stupid and said that I couldn't win, I really wanted to kill him in minutes and slap him to death. But I don't want the war to prolong, so it's average"Get up, my mother doesn't want to talk to you, and you're not allowed to talk to me for an hour!

I can't find the words, especially where I live, and the words that many women say when they quarrel make me basically unable to continue, and I don't know that these people have such filthy words from **, so I don't dare to say anything more to avoid a battle of tongues.

I broke up in a long-distance relationship last week, my boyfriend split his legs, he didn't say it explicitly, but cold and violent, and when I said **, I couldn't tell what I felt at the time, I only knew that he was blaming me, but I couldn't say a word, I thought I should have imagined a couple in a TV series quarreling but, I kept listening to him say this and that, and finally said with a crying voice, Sabi, just hung up **, it's really too aggrieved not to quarrel.

Quarreling with others is like being coquettish with others, I'm afraid it's just me, don't talk about laughing and crying every day, I'm not good-tempered, it's just that I'm obviously angry, but you think I'm coquettish, is it because I like to say - hate

My husband is a person who doesn't quarrel at all. As a law girl, I was brainless to crush him on the issue of quarrelling, so I just asked my husband, and he told me that when he couldn't quarrel with me, he was very aggrieved, a little wanted to fight, very aggrieved, and felt that I was bullying him ......

Quarrels are normal, and few people never quarrel, but it is not normal if they do not quarrel.

A call to respect and dig the individual to learn to control emotions is a sign of maturity, quarrels must be the only way to solve the problem, learn self-control.

If it's someone who keeps pulling you down and nuclear qualifications, stay away.

Summary. Hello, this friend, you can't quarrel with him, then don't quarrel with him, then you have to be reasonable about something, so it's okay to make the reason clear, quarreling is not the goal, the purpose is to make the problem clear, who's right and who's wrong, just make it clear.

quarrel, can't quarrel with him.

Hello, this friend, you can't quarrel with him, then don't quarrel with him, then you have to be reasonable about something, so it's okay to make the reason clear, quarreling is not the goal, the purpose is to make the problem clear, who's right and who's wrong, just make it clear.

Then if there is something to say anything, don't quarrel, quarrel will not solve the problem, just say the key and core point of this matter, and then analyze it, right or wrong, so that's fine.

Okay friend, can you elaborate on your specific situation?

I can't be reasonable, and I can't be justified when I'm angry.

He is wrong, and it is his reason to think that he is right.

Friends, if you are very emotional, then you must stabilize your emotions, so if you want to be angry, then you will lose, only when you are calm will you be reasonable, then reason is the most sober.

You must not be angry, to be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others. Can you tell us why you quarreled? Then the teacher analyzes and analyzes who is right and wrong.