What kind of experience is it to quarrel and not be able to quarrel with others?

My husband is a person who doesn't quarrel at all. As a law girl, I was brainless to crush him on the issue of quarrelling, so I just asked my husband, and he told me that when he couldn't quarrel with me, he was very aggrieved, a little wanted to fight, very aggrieved, and felt that I was bullying him ......‍

It's just that when I'm in a hurry or talking loudly, I can't stop the tears in my red eyes, in fact, it's not that I'm sad or anything else, every time I quarrel, I'll be mistaken for crying very sadly, in fact, it's a physiological reaction that can't be controlled at all, in fact, the trash talk in my heart can fight for another 200 rounds, but in the eyes of others, I'm pitiful and crying.

Quarreling with others is like being coquettish with others, I'm afraid it's just me, don't talk about laughing and crying every day, I'm not good-tempered, it's just that I'm obviously angry, but you think I'm coquettish, is it because I like to say - hate

I broke up in a long-distance relationship last week, my boyfriend split his legs, he didn't say it explicitly, but cold and violent, and when I said **, I couldn't tell what I felt at the time, I only knew that he was blaming me, but I couldn't say a word, I thought I should have imagined a couple in a TV series quarreling but, I kept listening to him say this and that, and finally said with a crying voice, Sabi, just hung up **, it's really too aggrieved not to quarrel.

After every so-called quarrel, it is always at a certain moment long after the fact, that it suddenly comes to mind how to quarrel back ruthlessly and accurately when the other party said a certain sentence during the quarrel. ‍‍

Not only did I not go back, but I was also prone to tears when I was excited, thinking that I was so unreasonable, unreasonable, and then I cried angrily and choked up and couldn't speak, thinking afterwards, why am I so wasteful. ‍‍

Every time I quarreled, I felt that if I returned to the situation at that time, I would definitely be able to play better. I always regret why I didn't say that at the time! ‍‍

There are two possibilities for a person who quarrels badly, one is that he is very reasonable, and the other is that he is very good at argumentation. Then he is reasonable, for him, it is not a quarrel, it is just a possibility. So there's nothing to do afterwards; And for those who are good at arguing, that quarrel is his forte, so there will be nothing wrong afterwards.

The calmer the other person must be afraid, because seeing the other person so calm, it is timiding to figure out what kind of thinking he is doing, and he can't figure out what kind of moth he is.

Summary. Hello, this friend, you can't quarrel with him, then don't quarrel with him, then you have to be reasonable about something, so it's okay to make the reason clear, quarreling is not the goal, the purpose is to make the problem clear, who's right and who's wrong, just make it clear.

quarrel, can't quarrel with him.

Hello, this friend, you can't quarrel with him, then don't quarrel with him, then you have to be reasonable about something, so it's okay to make the reason clear, quarreling is not the goal, the purpose is to make the problem clear, who's right and who's wrong, just make it clear.

Then if there is something to say anything, don't quarrel, quarrel will not solve the problem, just say the key and core point of this matter, and then analyze it, right or wrong, so that's fine.

Okay friend, can you elaborate on your specific situation?

I can't be reasonable, and I can't be justified when I'm angry.

He is wrong, and it is his reason to think that he is right.

Friends, if you are very emotional, then you must stabilize your emotions, so if you want to be angry, then you will lose, only when you are calm will you be reasonable, then reason is the most sober.

You must not be angry, to be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others. Can you tell us why you quarreled? Then the teacher analyzes and analyzes who is right and wrong.

It's not like that, although two people often quarrel, but two people still care about each other very much, and they love each other very much, such people are very suitable for being together.

I don't think that's the case, frequent arguments don't mean that there is a problem with the relationship between you, it may just be a communication problem. So you have to communicate often.

Yes, people who quarrel a lot are not suitable for being together, because if two people quarrel often, it will affect the relationship very much.

People who often quarrel are generally due to incompatible personalities, and they are unwilling to admit defeat, such people will be tired of each other when they are together, and they will quarrel too much, and they will also quarrel with their feelings.

People who quarrel a lot are not suitable to be together. Even if it's together, it won't be long-term. Because every day is a quarrel, a cold war, and every day is angry, how can there be time to care about each other.

This is not necessarily, being able to quarrel often shows that two people have a common topic and can face the problem head-on. This will not hide or intensify the conflict, but will help deepen the relationship between the two.

It's normal for couples to quarrel with each other, so it can't be said that quarrels are not suitable for being together. If the conflict can be resolved reasonably, it can allow two people to better understand each other.

There is no disadvantage in quarreling in many cases, indeed, there are contradictions only when the views on things are different, there are contradictions and nothing, because they want to be together, so they need a run-in period.

Summary. When you quarrel, you are very bored, very fragile, and more likely to care about other people's opinions, so you will be more concerned about what the other person says, which will cause you to be more entangled, and the atmosphere and emotions will be difficult to calm down.

Kiss Can you explain the problem a little bit more clearly? Why don't people fight and fight?

Sorry I was just halfway through and suddenly jumped to the page.

What I'm trying to say is why quarrels are always obsessed with what someone else says.

Why are two people very emotional when they quarrel Usually trivial things are infinitely magnified when they quarrel.

Usually the things that are good to you can always be forgotten when you quarrel, and what you think of is always the fault of the other party Is it not the feeling of the wide wheel at that time, the other party of the Qiao clan was wrong to even breathe.

When you quarrel, your heart is very boring, very fragile, and it is easier to care about other people's opinions, so you will be more concerned about the other party's words, which will cause you to be more entangled in the vertical manuscript and the atmosphere is difficult to calm down.

It is recommended to kiss and kiss When you quarrel, you can give both parties a little time to calm down, and when you calm down, you can discuss anti-Yu Tusi. Why do you quarrel Don't arch each other in anger Say the most hurtful things to the people you love the most and the people who care about you the most.

The cooling method can be used appropriately in the relationship.