I have two children, but I am often subjected to domestic violence, do I want to choose a divorce?

To leave, of course to leave.

Children are innocent, but they should not be a reason to stop you from getting out of your pain. Especially suffering from domestic violence for a long time, this kind of thing is simply unbearable.

If you think about your current situation, you have already had two children, and it stands to reason that the time you should live together is not too short. Then, the run-in that should have been there is almost grinding. What he looks like, at a glance in your heart, whether it is good or bad, you naturally know very well, whether it is worth nostalgia, just ask yourself.

As for what you are like, living together for all these years, he will naturally have a judgment in his heart. But I feel that he doesn't love you enough and is extremely disrespectful to you. Otherwise, how could he be willing to beat you, and without remorse, repeating domestic violence against you again and again?

Didn't he think about the consequences when he hit you? He never thought about it, would he lose you because of it?

Such a painful life is like a nightmare for you, and if you don't make a choice, you can only fall into it and be miserable after all. Maybe you will be nostalgic for the relationship that you have lived together for so many years, even if he is not so good to you. You may also be worried about your children, afraid that they will lose the joy of childhood and suffer from the harm of divorced families prematurely because of a decision made by you adults.

But unless you have the ability to influence your husband, make him realize your goodness, and start to want to cherish you. I began to regret my previous actions to you from the bottom of my heart, and I want to try my best to be a good husband in my later life, treat you and your children well, and live a serious life with you.

Although the prodigal son does not change his money, do you think you have the ability? Can you make him fully awake? It's hard, otherwise you wouldn't be bothered by this and hesitate to stay or not.

So when your dedication and patience can't be exchanged for a little bit of his touch, you can consider what the meaning of your nostalgia and persistence is.

At the end of the day, though, the decision is always up to you. In the dead of night, you might as well ask your heart carefully what you want, and then give yourself a deadline to try to solve your confusion within the deadline. Good luck at the end!

It is said that there are two if there is one, and the man who is domestic violence is the most incompetent, and he doesn't know how to love his own woman, and he will only vent his emotions on me as a woman.

You should have heard a lot of examples of domestic violence, and he has three chapters of the law, this is a matter of principle, if you do it again, you will divorce him and take the child away, otherwise such a family will not be good for the child's growth.

First of all, don't talk about children, that is, you are often subjected to domestic violence? If you continue like this, you are not afraid that you will go insane, what about those two children? In such an environment, what kind of character will children develop, they will only hate the world, why they should give birth to them, and even form a distorted character in the future.

Hurry up and leave, it's a relief for you and your child! Don't let your children be disappointed in the world, only darkness hangs over them, and their lives may be ruined because of this incident.

In the hearts of most Chinese women, children are all they have, and many women are obviously unhappy in marriage, but they finally choose to compromise for the sake of their children.

I remember when I was a child, there was a woman in our village, hardworking and kind, even if she was pregnant, she worked hard in the fields, and every time she came back from her mother's house, she brought something delicious and sent it to her in-laws first.

If you say, such a good woman, is her man particularly spoiled and treated her very well? It's a pity that no, her man is just a standard scumbag, he has no ability outside, and he will come back with the prestige of a man.

My wife is pregnant, and she has never known to be considerate, she came back from outside, put her legs on the kang plate, and waited for her wife to bring the food, and poured two mouthfuls of yellow soup, and began to count down her wife.

Although there is unhappiness in the woman's heart, when she thinks of the child in her belly, she has to swallow all the grievances into her stomach, but in the end, the man's domestic violence becomes more and more fierce, even if the woman is not spared in confinement, and the woman often goes back to her parents' house to cry.

But in those days, divorce was a shameful thing, so every time she went home less than two or three days, the people of her mother's family would persuade her to come back, sometimes, she did not want to come back, and the people of her mother's family let her think more for the sake of the child, and there was no one who did not feel sorry for the child, and the woman had no choice but to go back, and what was waiting for her was another beating.

In the end, the woman was so unbearable that she chose to commit suicide, ending her life of suffering. And since the loss of his mother, that child has become an orphan completely.

Therefore, I am here to advise you to cherish life and stay away from scumbags.

Because of the men who are domestic violence, they are not worthy of being fathers or husbands, they only deserve to be lonely and old. Women, please take care of yourself a little more, when domestic violence occurs for the first time, you should stay away from the scumbag, don't hope that he will change, your forbearance again and again, in exchange for his intensification.

If you are often subjected to domestic violence, then you must divorce regardless of whether you have two children or several children. Otherwise, there are endless consequences. Think about it, if you choose to move on with your life for the sake of your children, then your husband will think you are weak and easy to bully.

Then if he is a little unhappy with life, or is in a bad mood, he will take out his anger at you and will add punches and kicks to you. He certainly won't be grateful for the fact that you have raised two children for him and given so much for this family. On the contrary, they will treat you as a punching bag, and you can't bear such days for a day, so I advise you to divorce.

I think if you can choose to divorce, it's better to divorce as soon as possible, after all, it's a problem of domestic violence. In this case, it is impossible for the other party to change this problem, and if you tolerate it, it is possible that your child will also suffer from his retribution.

If it were me, I would have chosen to divorce, but I would have chosen to take custody of the child!

Many facts have proved that society is also calling for domestic violence to be unforgivable and nostalgic.

In the case of a divorce due to domestic violence, then the custody of the two children is likely to go to the innocent party, that is, the party who suffered the domestic violence. Under normal circumstances, in practice, the custody of two children usually has the custody of one child and does not have to pay child support to each other. However, if it can be proved that one party has committed domestic violence and is not suitable for raising the children, then it is very likely to win full custody of the two children.

[Legal basis].Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 1079 Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Gambling, drug abuse, and other vices;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates a divorce lawsuit, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Two children domestic violence should be divorced. Divorce by agreement is agreed upon by both parties and the divorce is signed by the marriage registration authority to apply for divorce registration. Litigation divorce is a situation where one party files a divorce lawsuit with the court, and after the court hears the case, it can determine that the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down and the mediation is ineffective, and the divorce shall be granted.

Legal basis: Article 1076 of the Civil Code.

Where the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079 Paragraphs 1, 2 and 3.

Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

1. What are the bases for the court to determine custody?

1. Children under the age of two generally live with their mothers. If the mother has any of the following circumstances, she may live with the father:

1) Suffering from incurable infectious diseases or other serious diseases, and the children are not suitable to live with them;

2) There are conditions for raising children who do not fulfill their obligation to support them, and the father requires the child to live with him;

3) The child is unable to live with the mother due to other reasons.

2. Where both parents agree that a child under the age of two years will live with the father and there is no adverse impact on the healthy growth of the child, it may be permitted.

3. For children over the age of two years, both the father and the mother request to live with them, and one of the following circumstances may be given priority:

1) Have undergone sterilization or have lost their fertility due to other reasons;

2) The children live for a longer period of time, and changing the living environment is obviously detrimental to the healthy growth of the children;

3) There are no other children, and the other party has other children;

4) The child lives with him/her, which is beneficial to the child's growth, but the other party suffers from an infectious disease or other serious disease that cannot be cured for a long time, or has other circumstances that are not conducive to the child's physical and mental health, and it is not suitable to live with the child.

4. The conditions for the father and the mother to raise the child are basically the same, and both parties require the child to live with the child, but if the child has lived alone with the grandparents for many years, and the grandparents request and have the ability to help the child take care of the grandchild or grandchild, it may be considered as a priority condition for the child to live with the father or mother.

Legal Analysis: You should get a divorce to avoid being victimized by domestic violence.

Legal basis: Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and the repentance is ineffective, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. After the people's court has ruled that the divorce is not allowed, and the two parties have been separated for one year, and one party files a divorce lawsuit again, the divorce shall be granted.