When you are poor, what makes you feel the pain of your heart?

Although I haven't entered the family life yet, there will be some sad times when I feel that life is unfair, because this real society is like this, of course, we are still relatively few now, especially after the family life, there may be more poor periods, and the current poor times are not a big deal, but you will also see some people's hearts or some truths. <>

At this stage when we are in the current stage, that is, the stage of college students, most people's living expenses come from their parents, at this time we need to control our own consumption, can not be said to rely on parents or others to control, that is some unrealistic ideas, at this time we are very likely to be unable to control themselves at the beginning, feel that now they have money, can be willful, so there are a lot of problems, at the end of the month many children have no living expenses, At this time, you also have to live, it can only be said that borrowing money, especially at the end of the month borrowing money is the most difficult, many people have no money, when you find the first person to borrow money, he said that I am gone, you are looking for a second person to borrow money, you are a little embarrassed, if he says no, then your heart is estimated to be almost cold, because we all know that there is a time and again, so at this time people's hearts have been hurt by 10,000 points, so that they can not face it correctly.

Another point is that we have been deceived by others, and we know the truth, I feel that my heart may be very sad, and painful, at least I am like this, I especially don't like others to lie to me, tell me the truth, I can't stand such a person, such a person always makes people want to hit him or never want to pay attention to him anymore, because many times although you need to play tricks, but you can't say that you are going to deceive people, deceiving people to let others know that there is really no light on their faces, so that they feel uncomfortable, At this time, the human heart is particularly painful.

People always experience poverty, often when they are poor and helpless, the people and things around them make them even more chilling. The so-called "poor in the downtown no one asks, rich in the mountains have distant relatives" is such a manifestation

No one wants to lend me money: I was young, but I had been poor. I remember that at that time, something happened to my family and I needed a lot of money to get out of the predicament, so I took out all my savings to help my family, and I didn't even save any living expenses.

I went to borrow money from my so-called good friend and promised to pay him back as soon as possible. But when my friends heard that I was going to borrow money, they always started to reject me for all sorts of reasons, even saying that they were poorer than I am now.

I'm not a fool, and naturally I know what others mean, because there are a lot of ** in society, and there are always people who borrow money and don't pay it back, maybe they are also afraid that I am such a person To be honest, my heart is really cold, what kind of person I am, haven't I been with me for so many years? However, what can I say?

No one wants to help me: Money aside, even when people are poor, when they want to find people around them to help them out of the predicament, they will always be rejected because they are afraid of trouble, afraid that I will rely on them, and afraid that I will spend their money. Only I know in my heart that whoever has helped me will definitely repay him twice as much in the days to come.

But not many people know what I think or believe me. Maybe society is like this, making people mercenary, and making people no longer trust others.

The reality of society: When people are poor, even this society feels that they look down on me, embarrass me everywhere, and oppose me. In today's society, it is difficult to move an inch without money, but if you need a little help, then you must use the money to open the way first.

However, now that I am at my poorest, it seems that even society has begun to abandon me.

I can't do what I want to do: I don't have any money, I can't go where I want to go, because I need an expense; I can't bear to eat what I want to eat, because I can save a little; People who want to be filial cannot do their filial piety well, because there is not enough money to support it. Because of poverty, we have no way to do many things, and we can't do anything.

I guess it's really a heart-warming feeling

Poverty is always temporary, and people cannot be defeated by temporary poverty, and then they will be poor for the rest of their lives, and then no one can help us. Fortunately, I still have hands and feet, and I can still break through in society, earn money to meet my own life, and make my life and that of my family better and better. When people are poor, there are always some people and things that make us chill and disappointed, but there are always some people and things that can warm us when we are poor, after all, we have true friends and family, but in the end everything still depends on ourselves.

When you see something, you can't help but shed tears and be sad, it's human instinct. It also shows that you are an emotionally healthy person with seven emotions and six desires. If there are more such phenomena in life, it means that you are a kind-hearted person and a person with rich feelings.

is a person with well-developed tear glands. This has no impact on your health, exercise and life. It's all human nature.

This shows that you are a more emotional person, and sometimes when you see something, it will touch the hidden pain in your heart, and you will feel a piercing pain.

It shows that you have something on your mind, and you always have things on your mind, so when you see some things, you associate them together, and you feel uncomfortable.

It may be that you care about it, but you want to hide it. It's like a scar that hasn't healed yet, it hurts when you touch it, so I'm afraid, so I don't dare to touch it, but this scar is where you can see it, and sometimes you accidentally touch it. Time.

It's not just my speculation, but I don't understand the situation, I can't talk nonsense, and if I don't forgive the situation. Pass.

It's because everything you see touches your sadness, for example, emotional betrayal, the departure of relatives, the betrayal of friends, are all sad things for people.

Conditioned reflex! For example, when watching a movie, some plots will make us cry, and your emotions will be driven by the plot of the movie, prompting you to change your mood!

There are some things, even after many years, every time I think about them, I still feel a cone of pain.

Some of the things mentioned here refer to the things that have caused great touches in the heart, and can also be understood as the pain caused by this kind of injury has not disappeared with time, but has lasted for a long time, and every time I think of it, it is as if it had just happened, and the pain is still clear and remorseful.

may still be the same sentence, what you can't get is always in turmoil, and it's too easy to be around, but you don't cherish it. In fact, you can face it, maybe when you see him in the past, you find that what you can't let go of is only the person you imagine, and he is still very different from what you imagined.

It is also a very beautiful thing to keep this relationship memory in your heart, but the past is always in the past, and occasionally memories are very painful but also very beautiful, at least you have loved, cherish the people in front of you, and people always have to face reality.

Know how to cherish yourself and cherish yourself. Stay away from what doesn't belong to us and cherish what you have. People are born to live, to live wonderfully, and to love beautifully.

Love is a thing, inexplicable, the deeper the love, the deeper the pain, the girls often don't like these infatuated men, they would rather like thin lovers, because they know how to attract women, and this is what our infatuated lovers don't have.

Love requires two people to operate together, and no matter how difficult and frustrated life is, you must face it bravely! Sometimes people despair not necessarily because of some very big shock, but because of the disappointment and confusion of life that accumulates.

Survival of the fittest, it's a simple truth.

There are many paths to go in this life, and there will always be twists and turns.

…Super speaker, Cui Wanzhi, everything is the best arrangement; It's useless to complain [I recommend taking a look (.)

In fact, everything has to be faced with your own heart.

Even if the whole world gives up on you, you can't give up on yourself. This is my favorite saying: Everyone will encounter unpleasant things in life, and when you encounter these, you must not choose to give up and escape, and suicide is to escape. In fact, you are not alone, even if you have no friends, but with family, and those strangers who pass by, your world is not gray and white!

Everyone has another self, maybe cowardly and inferior, maybe strong and fearless, don't let the cowardly self defeat and replace the strong me. When you have some immature thoughts, think about those happy things, think about those people who have expectations, think about whether you really want to do this, think about whether you really let life stop here before you live a wonderful life!

Think about it.

There is one biggest hurdle in everyone's life, and that is the test of "suicide"! When you have experienced it, after crossing this hurdle, life will be bright, you will know that your position is in the **, what is the path you should take? I was born to be useful!

Things work themselves out! Don't be confused about life, don't lose faith! You see, those who are deeply disabled never give up on themselves, and finally live the most beautiful life, which shames those of us who are physically and mentally able!

Give full play to your strengths, work hard to improve yourself, work hard, and have no regrets!

It may have something to do with the environment in which you grew up, don't blame yourself too much, the problem is not caused unilaterally, since you can realize that the current problem should find a way to solve it, you can usually chat with people more, and then make more friends, participate in social interactions, learn to listen, make your thoughts more open, don't feel that you can't do it, come on.

Mu Ne, very depressed and lonely, has the act of wanting to commit suicide.

This is because the body lacks yang energy, has no vitality, and has no confidence and hope for life and the future.

If you feel the pain in your heart, it means that you are still aware and want to change. This is a good sign.

Combined with the physique can be **.

Like me, whether it is feelings or friendships, there will be many people who care about you, but you have never thought about these things that are actually very happy, don't suppress yourself too much, face everyone with your heart, so that you will not be lonely

In this world, no one lives easier than others, but some people are silently holding on, and some people are shouting to the heavens and the earth. If you are simple, the world is simple to you. The more places I've been, the more I know where I want to go back.

The more people you meet, the more you know who you really want to be around. In the middle of a group of wonderful people, it is often mistaken that they are one of them, and then forget to work hard. In a group of people who are not excellent, they often mistakenly think that they are superior to them, and then forget to work hard.

Therefore, at all times, we must know ourselves clearly and never forget to work hard.

Loneliness is an important psychological protection mechanism.

Whenever people feel lonely, they realize that they should do something to deal with it, indicating that they should pay attention to their social relationships, social emotions, and social network connections. At this time, you should take the initiative to talk to someone, do something socially meaningful, seek a sense of social connection, or use your lonely time to learn knowledge and improve yourself.

Loneliness is a signal that reminds people to do more positive things. Loneliness is not a sign, nor is it a diagnosis, nor is it an end. Loneliness is the beginning of allowing yourself to do something and allowing yourself to start a new course in life.

It's hard to forget, and it's very easy to forget, and sometimes you forget what you're going to do, or maybe you can't sleep, just because you're thinking about someone, and you're going to think about it inadvertently, and that's because you've never forgotten it, and it's something you can't remember, and it's something that you completely let go, and you don't remember it, like what you ate at noon last month, except for a special day, it's hard to remember, and that's because you don't remember it, try to forget it slowly, try to make it less important, yes.

Some people will always be engraved in their memories, even if they forget their voice, their smile, and their face, but the feeling they feel when they think of them will never change. Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, so that everything tends to be dull, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, it will slowly fade away... Instead of trying to forget, it is better to keep yourself busy, to make your life full, and to let yourself have no time to miss.

Don't deliberately forget, if you deliberately will only make yourself remember more ... Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possibleTry to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role.

I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of him again, your heart will no longer hurt, and it turns out that unconsciously, he has become "that person".