If Daiyu and Baoyu marry and are defeated in Jiafu, will they be able to support themselves?

I don't think soWhen they get married, they will become a couple for eternity, Although such an ending is very tragic, if you think about it in another way, it is also a residual love. Others say that the two of them are destined to be a tragedy with no good outcome. <>

If the two of them get married, after the defeat of Jiafu, maybe the two of them will be worried about their livelihood to deathBaoyu has been pampered since childhood, Daiyu is another sick seedling, neither of them has the ability to make a living, together it will only make life more embarrassing, in such a day of worrying every day, the love of two people does not know how long it can last? And Baoyu still has the temper of the young master who can't be erased, this can't be changed overnight, sooner or later there will be an accident because of the tantrum, this is self-evident, the conditions are already difficult, if you have to wait until Baoyu grows up and matures, I'm afraid there will be no chance. <>

And the two of them don't know how to do anything, they don't have the real ability to make money, and they won't necessarily be accepted, and the two of them probably won't be able to pull their faces to plead with othersWithout money, without friends, only each other, the days will not lastThe two of them will eventually get bored, and Daiyu has been persuading Baoyu to change her temper before, which shows that Daiyu hopes that Baoyu will grow up and no longer play a child's temper.

In the whole story, we can see that Daiyu has been changing, and later Daiyu has stopped being sarcastic about others, and has learned to think about others, and Baoyu, from beginning to end, his character has not changed, he does nothing all day long, he only knows how to play, his child's heart has not changed at all, as an adult, he does not look like an adult at all, and he does not take the initiative to learn, which is a great conflict between the twoWhether the mature Daiyu can always accept such a stubborn Baoyu, the result is also difficult to say. <>

In fact, such an ending is destined by God although miserable but extremely perfect, after experiencing so much Baoyu, losing so many things, and losing his beloved Daiyu, has he become different, and Daiyu will be very pleased in heaven?

If Daiyu and Baoyu marry and lose Jiafu, they both live in rich and noble families, belong to the flowers of the greenhouse, and their self-feeding ability will definitely be relatively poor.

Although Daiyu has been lonely since she was a child, she has been cared for by Mrs. Jia in Jiafu, and she does not worry about eating and drinking, and Baoyu is the young master of Jiafu, and the stars hold the moon, so they are not very self-reliant.

Of course, they are able to support themselves, as Daiyu and Baoyu are very talented and can teach to make a living.

I don't think so, Baoyu and Daiyu are actually a bit of a person who don't eat the fireworks of the world, they have no ability to make a living, a young master who can only be a young master and a young lady who is sad and sad, do you want them to sell poetry.

After the defeat in Jiafu, the two of them couldn't bear it psychologically. It is even more unbearable in action. I am used to living a life of fine clothes and food, and I can't integrate into the real society. I can't make my own money, and I'm arrogant.

I don't think it's self-sufficient. Because they are all used to living a privileged life. Usually I only write poems and play, and I don't know how to work at all.

First of all, we must know that Lin Daiyu is the head of the twelve hairpins in Jinling, his family is well-off, and he is also educated, Jiafu at that time was very chaotic, their relationship is unacceptable, just by virtue of Lin Daiyu's birth and his education, he should not be able to accept such a place, but he still lives in Jiafu, and wants to marry Jia Baoyu, but Jia Baoyu's grandmother Jia Mu is the ancestor of Jiafu, originally such a granddaughter-in-law is very popular, But Jia's mother prevented Lin Daiyu from marrying Jia Baoyu everywhere, and anyone who has seen Dream of Red Mansions knows that Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are childhood sweethearts, and they have no guesses. If these two people can get married as soon as possible, how good it would be, even if they don't get married so early, first determine the relationship or get engaged first, you can not let Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu get entangled all day long, this is also a happy ending, although we all want to spend a good moon and have lovers to eventually become married, but most of the cases are people have joys and sorrows. First of all, Jia Baoyu, as the most precious person in Jiafu, has been favored by tens of thousands of people, and he himself is relatively handsome, Lin Daiyu was attracted to Jia Baoyu is understandable, Jia Baoyu was a sought-after existence at that time, many women want to marry Jia Baoyu, Lin Daiyu is also one of them, Lin Daiyu is matched with Jia Baoyu in terms of talent and appearance, and the two of them like each other, but many reasons prevent them, resulting in them not getting married, Lovers are also not able to be together. This is the very unfortunate ending.

Storyline arrangement. Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu are the servants of the Zhuzhu Immortal Grass and Shenying, and Lin Daiyu used the tears of his life to repay his irrigation grace. It's a natural fate.

Lin Daiyu's parents died and there was nowhere to go, so she has been living in Jia's house. Although Lin Daiyu is full of poetry and books, but in ancient times, marriages were all the orders of parents and the words of matchmakers, and Lin Daiyu's marriage was destined to be bumpy. But Jia's mother likes Lin Daiyu, and Lin Daiyu is arranged by Jia's mother in Daguanyuan, and she basically can't get in touch with a particularly chaotic relationship.

Jia Baoyu is Lin Daiyu's closest unmarried man. Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu live very close to each other and often play together. Lin Daiyu's personality is very high, and she will not easily talk to other men. Jia Baoyu also likes Lin Daiyu, so Lin Daiyu wants to marry him.

Because both parents died and married someone else may be a concubine, marrying Jia Baoyu knows better, will be a main room, and will be happier.

When we read "Dream of Red Mansions", we always have this feeling, the more beautiful the front, the more cruel the back. Especially those girls, the more beautiful they are, the more pitiful their backgrounds and endings become. So much so that many readers angrily took the case, what is good about this Jia Baoyu who is neither useful nor attentive?

It's a shame that Sister Lin likes him so much, does he have **? Is it worth Sister Lin to die in tears for him?

Why did Sister Lin fall in love with Jia Baoyu. First of all, the relationship between Sister Lin and Jia Baoyu was arranged by God. Because Jia Baoyu's original Shenying waiter used nectar to extend the life of the Zhuzhu grass, so when the Shenying waiter went to the world to experience the calamity, the Zhuzhu Fairy decided to go to the world with him and gave him the tears of his life.

In heaven he watered her with nectar, and when she came to earth she shed tears all her life. When they were in heaven, they were ruthless and desireless, only to repay their kindness, and when they were on earth, they loved each other and finally became each other's confidants.

Clause. Second, Jia Baoyu is good-looking, the original book said that he "has a face like the moon of the Mid-Autumn Festival, a color like a flower of spring dawn, sideburns like a knife, eyebrows like ink paintings, a nose like hanging gall, and eyes like autumn waves." Although he is angry and sometimes laughs, that is, he is blind and affectionate." To sum up, it is a beautiful man.

What about the United States? Even if he looks at you angrily, you still feel that his eyes are full of affection. This is Jia Baoyu in Sister Lin's eyes.

No matter what others think, Sister Lin thinks she looks good.

Clause. Third, Jia Baoyu is very attentive to Sister Lin, and she is careful and careful. Put Sister Lin's preferences above his own preferences, Sister Lin's food, clothing, and everything, big and small, in life, he cares about everything. Baoyu was afraid that it would not be good for Daiyu to take a nap just after lunch, so he made up an allusion to coax Sister Lin.

Although it makes the readers laugh throughout the whole process, they can really see Baoyu's intentions. is handsome and considerate to Daiyu, which is okay.

Everyone knows that Baoyu is a ** air conditioner, and she is considerate to girls. Although everything is a priority for Sister Lin, it is almost meaningless in the end. So in the end, the most important point is that mentally, Jia Baoyu only loves Sister Lin alone.

To say that at the beginning of the book, Baoyu was affectionate and considerate to the women of Jiafu. When it came to the section on understanding the feelings and understanding of the pear incense temple, he understood. He couldn't make every woman love him.

The two met in their past lives and in this life, fell in love at first sight, and they were childhood sweethearts who were each other's bosom friends, so the two fell in love with each other.

In the article, Jia Baoyu blurted out when she saw Lin Daiyu for the first time: "I have seen this sister before." Perhaps it was the guidance of fate in their previous lives, and the two had this fateful familiarity from the moment they met. The two may still be young, and they can't say that this is love, but their affection for each other is certain.

Then there is the ear and sideburns of the two getting along day and night, and the relationship between the two is much deeper than that of others under the relationship between them and their hearts and minds. Lin Daiyu, who is growing up, is outstanding, and her appearance is very much in line with Baoyu's aesthetics, Baoyu likes to discuss poetry with Daiyu, drink and bury flowers together, Daiyu is straightforward, clever and interesting, and Baoyu is always happy with her.

What's more, Baoyu and Daiyu refer to each other as confidants. Baoyu doesn't like sage books and looks down on officialdom, but except for Sister Lin, everyone else will persuade him to study hard and become famous. In the eyes of outsiders, Daiyu generally thinks that she has a bad personality, loves to be petty, and even a little snarky, but Baoyu has always felt that this is Sister Lin's cuteness, and helps Daiyu get along with others.

Both of them have a rebellious spirit in their bones and understand each other, so Sister Lin only has Baoyu in her eyes, and Baoyu loves only Daiyu in her heart.

Looking at the two "Xijiang Moon" that describe Jia Baoyu in reverse, that is the true face of Baoyu's prototype, not the positive description in the book.

Attentive red fans will notice that the description of Xiangyun is a description of the figure, and the description of Baoyu only describes the appearance, but most of us ignore the finishing detail, that is, Jia's mother mistook Xiangyun for Baoyu. This detail proves that Baoyu's appearance is Xiangyun's appearance, Xiangyun's figure is Baoyu's figure, and Baoyu's prototype is a beautiful young man with both morality, talent, and appearance.

Not only that, but the two also have a relationship foundation. As early as the fifth year of Yongzheng, Baoyu prototype entered Beijing with his father, and because Jia Zheng's prototype was detained, Baoyu's aunt in Beijing took him to Pingjun Palace. The so-called "when I was three or four years old, I passed it on orally.""The implication is this matter, when the prototype of Yuan Chun was giving Baoyu a lesson, Daiyu was studying with Baoyu beside him.

Many people read that when Daiyu first came to Rongguo Mansion to meet Baoyu, both parties had a sense of déjà vu, and they would immediately think of what was watered in the previous life. In a few months, Baoyu can know thousands of words, can you not let Daiyu admire! Baoyu is very small about this cousin's clothes, can you not move Daiyu!

Daiyu's character is affection, to put it bluntly, it is to love people who give true feelings to themselves, and Baoyu's subjective and objective conditions are met.

In Jiafu, the relationship is chaotic, but these are not experienced by Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu in the two childhood sweethearts! They have always had a good relationship, they have no guesses, and they fantasize about each other's marriage! They have nothing but love in their eyes and nothing else!

But the feudal family considers more political marriages and interest relationships! Daiyu's family fell and came to her grandmother, and her grandmother would love her, but she would not let Baoyu marry her, and she would not be able to bring benefits to the family! And he is weak and not a good candidate for inheritance!

So it's impossible for Daiyu to marry Baoyu!

The relationship between Jia Fu is indeed very chaotic, but Sister Lin's marriage to Jia Baoyu is also expected. Sister Kai has been frail and sick since the moment she was born, and then she has known Jia Baoyu since then, Brother Jia and the two have known each other for decades and finally got married, I think it is also expected, and the confusion in the relationship between Jiafu can only explain a criticism of feudal etiquette.

This is a critique of feudalism. You don't have the chaos of the relationship caused by feudal sanctions, the relationship between people in ordinary times is very simple, but Jiafu is the representative of feudalism, so you have to criticize him.

Because Daiyu sincerely likes Baoyu from the bottom of her heart, and Baoyu also likes her, it is normal for Daiyu to want to marry Baoyu under the mutual affection between the two.

As for the chaos in Jiafu, this is a fact, but in fact, Lin Daiyu has no better choice.

Although her father was valued by the Son of Heaven and held an important position, he had no choice but to die early, since then Daiyu's parents have died, and there are no brothers and sisters, she is a real orphan girl, although the Lin family has it, but it must be the kind that is not very close to Daiyu, no grandmother Jia Mother anyway.

Therefore, Daiyu's condition is that she is a sick and weak orphan girl, and her mother's family is equal to nothing, which is a very fatal point in Xungui. Without the help of her mother's family, Daiyu's usable value is negligible, and Xungui needs to ensure the long-term development of the family through marriage, and Daiyu has no value of marriage.

What about Baoyu's situation? The eldest son and grandson of Rongguo Mansion (the original eldest son Jia Zhu has passed away). At this time, Jiafu is still a big family, the ancestors are all marquis, Baoyu's father Jia Zheng although the official position is not high, but also inherited the title (although it is not useful and not high), Jiafu is still a traditional noble family, the family is big, and there are many protégés.

So according to the identity, Daiyu marrying Baoyu is really a high marriage, you see that Mrs. Wang picks and chooses Daiyu, it is not that Mother Jia loves her granddaughter, and she and Baoyu will not talk about marriage (although in the end, Sister Lin still passed away).

As for why Sister Lin didn't flee.

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Ancient times are different from modern times, modern women can participate in work, so they can support themselves on their own, and even live well away from the family, but in ancient times it was different.

Ancient people had to be dependent on their families in order to live a normal life.

Here's an example. Scenario 1: Sister Lin couldn't stand it anymore and was about to leave Jiafu, she had just left the gate of Jiafu and left the downtown area, when a group of beggars swarmed up and looted the weak, pitiful and helpless Sister Lin.

Scenario 2: Sister Lin left Jiafu smoothly and wanted to stay in the hotel at night. Where's your disc? Sister Lin: What's that? Well, report to the official, and send him to prison as an outcast.

Scenario 3: Sister Lin successfully left Jiafu and came to the city gate, repeating the process of sending the government to the government in scenario 2. In case she is very unfortunate enough to sneak out of the city......A weak girl's chances of surviving outside the city are equivalent to those of a modern pampered girl airdropped into the Amazon forest without any equipment or knowledge.

Scenario 4: Sister Lin left Jiafu smoothly, successfully mixed up and stayed in the hotel, and after staying for a few days, Sister Lin didn't get any money. Going out to work?

Repeat the plot of Scenario 2. Bring more money? Do you know how much money the girl had in ancient times?

Silver ticket? Congratulations, you're about to be targeted by a bunch of people.

In short, not to mention that Sister Lin is a weak woman, an adult man left the family, and it was difficult to survive in ancient times. So in ancient times, the expulsion of a person from the family was a very severe punishment, such as exile.

Therefore, marrying Baoyu is the best solution for Sister Lin.