If Jia Baoyu marries Daiyu and Qingwen, what kind of life will it be?

Same-sex repulsion. "Sex" here refers not only to gender, but also to character.

There has always been a saying in the red academic circles that "sunny is the shadow". Qingwen and Daiyu are not only similar in appearance, but also similar in personality.

You may say that one is a young lady and the other is a slave of a slave, can their personalities be similar?

Yes. In addition to their status, they also have the most basic similarities: they are all human beings, and they are all young, beautiful, intelligent and flamboyant girls.

They all have a strong sense of self, a strong sense of self-esteem, a strong need for affection (love), and a strength that would rather not bend. Even, in order to maintain their own interests, for their own happiness, they do not hesitate to harm others, they are very similar.

Daiyu loves Baoyu, so she hates Baoyu and other girls, Baoyu occasionally sits at Baochai's place, and she will also say a few sour words. Qingwen and her female companion were angry, so they were angry with the visiting guests, and complained that Baochai "ran to sit when there was nothing to do, and told us not to sleep in the middle of the night!" ", and turned Daiyu away:

Depending on who you are, the second master commanded you, and no one is allowed to come in. ”

There is no need to give more examples, just this one thing, you can guess that if Daiyu and Qingwen are together, they will inevitably quarrel and quarrel or sulk secretly, and there will rarely be a time of harmony and quiet.

Of course, Bao Dai often quarreled before the thirty-fourth round. If the quarrel is controlled within a certain boundary and a certain range, it will not only not hurt feelings, but will become a lubricant for feelings. And to do this, the necessary premise is that both sides of the quarrel have a considerable mutual affection and tacit understanding.

So, Daiyu and Qingwen, do they have a good impression and tacit understanding?

After Qingwen's death, Daiyu did not show any sadness, but started poems and verses with Baoyu with great interest. can't blame Daiyu for being ruthless, it can only show that there is no emotional foundation between her and Qingwen.

As for tacit understanding, not to mention. After sending the old Pa back, Baoyu deliberately attacked people and sent Qingwen because she didn't know anything about their love. So much so that Daiyu "thought about it for a while, and Fang Da came to his senses", and Qingwen also "thought all the way, and didn't understand what it meant".

There is neither mutual liking nor mutual understanding, there is only the similarity of personalities and the conflicts caused by similarities. If Baoyu marries Daiyu as his wife and Na Qingwen as his concubine, his life will definitely be lively, but it is impossible to get along well.

Baoyu is a very romantic and idealistic person. But in his future life plan, he is quite rational and sober: "Find Daiyu to accompany you for a day, and come back or mess with the attacker, only these two or three people, I am afraid that they will die together", and designed Daiyu and Raider, two girls with different and complementary personalities, as their lifelong partners.

If there were no later sudden changes in the wind and clouds, the mountains and rivers were discolored, and the wife and concubine attacked, it would indeed be Baoyu's best life.

I just heard someone bring it up before I noticed it. Qingwen died tragically, why can't she see Daiyu's sadness? Baoyu read the words of Furong's daughter, how sad, but Daiyu came with a smile on her face, and praised the novelty of the sacrifice, and then the two discussed it with great interest, and Daiyu even said, "Wait until my purple juan dies......Even Baoyu was busy saying, "Why bother cursing her again."

is accustomed to Lin Daiyu's sentimentality, and always feels that she should shed tears of sympathy for Qingwen. Daiyu shed tears for Baoyu, but she didn't see her shed tears for others. Qingwen is Baoyu's favorite maid, and Daiyu should be very familiar with her, but she is nothing.

It seems that Miss Qianjin is the master ...... after all

People with too similar tempers can't be together, Qingwen and Daiyu are both masters who can't tolerate sand in their eyes, these two want to be together, who is willing to let whom? As for saying that Daiyu and the attacker have a closer relationship, I don't think so, but Daiyu has a good impression of the attacker, "It's okay to attack the person, your mother will quarrel with her again, it can be seen that the old man regrets it!" This is also the place where many Dai fans are indignant, Sister Lin thinks that you attack people well, you attack people and dare not like Sister Lin, hehe, in fact, this is also a personal heart, who likes who doesn't like who is really reluctant!

Qingwen and Daiyu, there is also a saying in the red academic circles, that is, Qingwen is one of the doppelgangers of Daiyu, this point of view, which has been specifically specified in the text of Dream of Red Mansions, is through the mouth of Mrs. Wang, the original text is"The eyebrows and eyes are a bit like Sister Lin's"This sentence is to point out the relationship between Dai Qing through the mouth of Mrs. Wang.

Daiyu's flower language is hibiscus, but after Jingwen died, she made hibiscus flowers, which has a deep meaning. This is deliberately revealed by the author.

The relationship between Miss and Yahuan Although their identities are different, they have the same fate.

Qingwen wants to be Jia Baoyu's wife, because I feel that her feelings for Jia Baoyu have surpassed the relationship between master and servant, because everything will take into account Baoyu's thoughts, and when she is sick, she does not forget to make clothes for Baoyu, which can be seen to be sincere.

must want to be Jia Baoyu's wife, because Jia Baoyu is so good, and his family background is very good.

Of course she wanted to do this, but her identity was not at all, and Mother Jia would not agree to her as Baoyu's wife.

From the beginning of "refining stones to make up for the sky", he and (Jia) Baoyu have warmed their swaddling clothes together, eaten Aunt Zhou's milk together, and slept in a nest together. Qingwen has long regarded (Jia) Baoyu as her white mother. But these are all the humble origins of Qingwen, the childhood "childhood sweetheart".

It was decided that it was impossible. Aunt Zhou is just (Jia Baoyu)'s nurse.

Because Cao Xueqin wrote this on purpose, after all, Qingwen can be said to be a shadow of Lin Daiyu, and he wrote this to allude to Lin Daiyu's death in the future.

may be because this can highlight Lin Daiyu's pity, and it can highlight Qingwen's status in this family, and at the same time show the character.