Should I be a filial daughter? Or do you want to be a woman who is persistent for love?

Updated on society 2024-04-21
63 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You should really think about it, is he someone you deserve to trust for life? If so, marry him! Don't listen to what others say, only those who wear them on their feet know if they fit well!

    Maybe a few years of affection are not as good as years of nurturing, but parents will always leave us. We should also give ourselves a life that we think will be happy, what do you think yourself? May you be happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Who will live with you in the future? Your parents?

    If you really like this man, and he's worth it, go with him, and your parents will eventually understand.

    They are for your good, and if you are happy, they will be happy for you, not angry.

    Men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, this should be remembered, don't let the illusion of the moment be blinded.

    It's not too late to see that it's not too late to remarry if he's a good man, he'll wait for you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's hard.

    The stepmother is indeed not a messenger of people, she is strict and says that you are bullying, and she is loose and says that you don't care.

    Men are good to you, but when you can get married, you will have a child to make trouble.

    It can be said that there is basically no romance in your future life.

    It's easier said than done, think it through and listen to yourself, and don't blame others even if you regret it then.

    Good luck.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In fact, it is not difficult, learn to empathize, try to think from the other party's point of view when you encounter problems, things may be much easier!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Filial piety is not said. Filial piety is not imaginary. Filial piety lies in action.

    If you want to be a truly filial daughter, then you have to really show your own form. How your parents love you, and you have to add three points to love them. Parents don't need anything in return from their children, they just need their children to be healthy, safe, and always have time to spend with them, so that they feel that you are still as dependent on them as you were when you were young.

    That's enough! I'm a daughter, but my mom has four daughters, and none of them are with her, and we sometimes don't come home once every three months. Mom is home alone, it's really lonely, I know I'm not a filial son, so I don't want you to be the same as me.

    To have time to go home and spend time with them, this is their greatest wish.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When your parents are healthy and self-reliant, you don't have to worry too much, and during this period, you can prepare for their future lives. When your parents are unhealthy and old, it is the time when you need you the most, and this time is the time to really fulfill your filial piety and responsibility, because they can't live without you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Just a suggestion that you can try. Go outside and rent a house for a while, about 3 months.

    This allows both you and your parents to have time and space to think.

    You are now in a situation where you want to be independent and are used to living with your parents, and you are very entangled, and if you don't change the status quo, you can't solve the problems you are facing now.

    A safe period of time alone will definitely help you.

    There is a saying that is out of sight and out of mind. When you leave for a while, your parents should be thinking about you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You are overly dependent on others, lack independence, but are not reconciled, so you live in contradiction all the time.

    The key is that you realize that you have to solve your own problems. You complain about your parents, you complain about others, but what do you do from beginning to end?

    Therefore, first of all, you have to think clearly, you have to deal with this matter yourself, and explain it frankly to your parents.

    Then you have to think about how to do it, you need to increase social activities, focus on potential opposite-sex targets through your own contact. In addition, you can also register and find a target by yourself through an online dating platform, after all, there are many men who have the same needs and limitations as you, which is the easiest and easiest way for you, and the effect will be very good.

    Everyone has their own characteristics, and you are by no means a weird person, but you have not taken a good look at yourself and have not felt the joy of being a free person.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are a lot of such cases! It's best to communicate with your parents! And it's about real life! The years are unforgiving!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's a lot.,But I'm still patient to read it.。。。

    First, I feel that you are a little afraid of marriage, it probably has something to do with your growth environment, you really want to find someone who loves you, and you don't want to settle.

    Second, what's wrong with the blind date, as long as you express it clearly, they are not all going to get married as soon as they come up.

    Third, since you feel that you are older, but what have you done yourself, at least you know the root of the blind date, don't you, besides, there are so many phases, and some of them give up since you are a little willing, we have passed the age of four or five years of love that can be talked about.

    Fourth, I think what you have to do is to open your heart, ask yourself, what kind of man do you need, if you meet someone you like on a blind date, cherish it, explain it to him clearly and guide him to let him chase you and the like, if you meet the kind of person who wants to get married as soon as you come up, and has a strong purpose, don't just say fear, properly guide and make it clear, if not, it means that he is not your dish.

    Fifth, as for your parents and your family, sometimes don't care so much, be more tolerant, follow them more, and besides, you're very close to the day of marriage, aren't you? However, sometimes it is necessary to have a proper tantrum to make it petty, and remember not to make yourself uncomfortable.

    Finally, I wish you happiness ...

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Little girl, don't worry about people! What happened to you is so sympathetic, there are people who are worse than you! These experiences may seem painful to people, but they are valuable.

    At the very least, it can become your vigilance in the future life, and you are not willing to step on the path of failure of your predecessors. Since then, it has aroused your confidence in life to yearn for sunshine! As for the major events of marriage, the traditional view of the Chinese, men should get married, women should get married, and people are in common sense.

    In rural areas, it is understandable that parents always have a sense of marriage yoke for their children. Many people fail to communicate, but modern young people are also naïve! Can human relationships be built in a short period of time?

    Many people still quarrel and break up after a lifetime of love, but people's menstrual period and life span are not enough for you to fight a protracted battle! Therefore, many people choose marriage, which can only be like buying vegetables in the vegetable market, and if it is almost the same, they will get married first and then fall in love! Otherwise, it will be more difficult to choose when you get older!

    A flash of life will be red at sunset! Little girl! Be optimistic, your sorrow will not solve your problems, and your joy will turn war into peace!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think it's really inappropriate for your parents to force their thoughts on you in order to fulfill their own wishes, without taking into account your feelings. You still go to the other half according to your own ideas.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This depends on many aspects, if a man can suppress a woman, then she doesn't dare to be bad to her in-laws. If the in-laws are good to the daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law will do the same. There is also the issue of women's education, and most of the women's family education is good.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's all men's fault ... If a man is in charge of his parents, he will not dare.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Let's get away ...No big deal.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you don't love deep enough, you can love the house.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Not an excessive problem. Others will think you have something wrong ...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's a little too much, delete it after apologizing, be sincere!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Let's apologize! The misunderstanding of the province is getting deeper and deeper.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Tell him to say it's a joke and delete it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Tell him to say it's a joke and delete it. Be sincere.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There is only one daughter in the family. The first thing to consider is the child's marital happiness, not a better choice between recruiting a son-in-law and marrying out. If the daughter's emotional marriage is not happy, what is the difference between recruiting a son-in-law and marrying out, and vice versa.

    I can understand the thoughts of some one-child families, especially the generation born under the family planning policy. This understanding is particularly profound in our generation, where many families are only children. Although everyone says that "having a man and a woman is the same", in practice, the traditional concept of thousands of years will not change, and many families with only daughters want to recruit sons-in-law, on the one hand, I think that some people are old and supportive, and on the other hand, I think that after my daughter's son-in-law gave birth to a child, her and her daughter's surnames are also considered to be the "heirs" of the family.

    She is free to fall in love with a boy who is also from the same hometown. So they decided to be in a relationship for four years. Later, the boy's parents went to the girl's house to propose.

    Boys and girls are happy. They believe that the four-year long-distance running love will eventually come true. But who knows, the girl's parents are confused, whether to marry or not?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Married and born, stay at home, the man's character is good, it's okay, and if the character is bad, no one will be able to do it, which is equivalent to ruining three generations and three families. As I said, as long as the man is filial to you, it is the same there, and the baby born to your daughter is your grandson.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It depends on the age, if you don't have a dating partner, don't rush to get married, now the men are not good things one by one, and there are a lot of juniors, who like to lie and deceive people. So it's best to find a guy to date your daughter for at least a year before deciding.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Staying and marrying is not a problem, the most important thing is what the daughter and son-in-law think, you can't use force, you can analyze with them which option to stay and marry will benefit the most, and the children will also have a pole in their hearts.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If it is inconvenient for the man's family to come to the door, it will be okay to get married, as long as the daughter is filial, it will be the same everywhere. Don't force your daughter.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's up to her own thoughts, parents want their only daughter to stay around, and the key depends on your daughter and her boyfriend.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It depends on whether she is willing to go home, and her daughter still has to get married.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    First of all, it depends on how old she is, and secondly, it depends on what she thinks, and whether she has a favorite object.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It depends on your daughter's filial piety.

    What's the matter, or get married, isn't it a relative?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Of course, it's staying at home, and if she gets married, who will support you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It doesn't matter if you marry or stay, the most important thing is that the family is happy.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Zhao Nuxu can't play tricks for three days and two mornings, so she should get married.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    And then the question arises: Is your daughter a boy or a girl?

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Look at the kids. Sometimes it's not absolute.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Keep it, throw the hydrangea, and recruit a son-in-law!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I can't help it, I still have to look at her.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Marry, for the sake of your children, and for yourself.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's better to get married, just let him himself.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Staying at home, the son-in-law is half a son.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It should be up to your daughter to volunteer.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If there is a suitable one, get married.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    A girl who can't be independent, people want to dump you, not to mention getting older, girls have fewer and fewer rights, until they have nothing.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Nothing to do, how can this work?

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Hey, this year's daughter is a daughter, and when you get old, you will say, it's better to be a daughter.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Why do you have to be accompanied by your son? As the saying goes, a daughter is a caring little padded jacket for her parents.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Congratulations! Do you know how many stitches a boy needs from birth to when he graduates, gets a job, gets married!

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Hey, it's the same as my sister. My sister wanted to have a daughter, but she didn't expect to give birth to a son. The second child is also a son. My sister said that she could only envy others who had daughters. I don't dare to have another son, I'm afraid of another son.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    I love my own daughter, and my daughter is very good, and a filial daughter is much better than a man.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    I'm like this, and my mother-in-law is still called Sheng.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    In my county, there is a family, the first child is a boy, and he wants a girl, but he is a twin boy, and he is unwilling, and he turns out to be a triplet boy. 6 boys. Crying to death.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    The daughter is the mother's intimate little padded jacket.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    It's your husband's problem, not yours

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Are you male or female? The daughter is the mother's intimate little padded jacket, if you are a woman, you are happy, if you are a man, don't have patriarchal thoughts, I am the three sisters and brothers, the son did not come, maybe fate has not arrived, children and parents also have to talk about fate.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Now houses are expensive, cars are expensive, there are many men in China, and boys are under a lot of pressure.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    It is up to the man to decide whether to have a boy or a girl.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    It's only 2, how can you say anything, buy a super machine,

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    I'll ask your daughter and son-in-law about this.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    It's good for a daughter, sometimes a daughter is more painful.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    This is the reason for chromosomes, because of bad luck, but my daughter is also very good, intimate little padded jacket.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    Do you know what chance and necessity are?

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    If you want to open a little boys, girls are the same.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    If you have a son, you have to buy a house, and your daughter is closer.

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