How to write a communication situation with your family

Through this communication with my family, I have a lot of feelings.

As I grew older, I gradually found that I had less and less communication with my parents, almost never at all, and over time I had some small conflicts with my parents. So, after the final exam, my parents talked to me, and I felt that the nagging of my parents is love, and they also have many experiences like mine.

My parents asked me how I felt after the exam, and whether I had improved or regressed compared to my last result. After listening to my parents' questions, I also reflected on it and found that I did a lot of things that were not very good and always made my parents worry about them. I briefly talked about my studies and life at the school in the past year.

My studies have made significant progress in the first half of the semester, but I have regressed a lot in the second half of the semester. My parents asked me why, and before I could ask this question, my father had already preemptively said it. "This is because you think you have a good grasp of what you have learned, but you only understand the surface, and if the difficulty of the problem is deeper, you will not be able to understand it thoroughly.

The second is that you don't have time to study and can't keep up with the pace of time, and it is for these reasons that your academic performance declines. I thought about it, and it was indeed as my father said, and then my mother said, "Actually, your father and I both hope that you can get a good score in the exam and succeed in your studies, so we usually remind you more, but if you remind you more times, it will cause you to be disgusted, in fact, this is not for your good."

After listening to my parents' words, I was thoughtful.

I humbly accepted my parents' words and opened my heart to them: "I also know that you all want me to do well in the exam, and I also hope to face you with a good grade, and I don't want to disappoint you, in addition to my own reasons, there is another factor, that is, you have reminded me too many times, which makes me feel bored from the bottom of my heart, so I will pretend not to listen to you." ”

After opening up my heart, my relationship with my parents became closer, and my parents promised me that they would not always talk about me and put pressure on me, and at the same time, I promised my parents to repay them with an excellent grade.

After this conversation, I have learned a lot, and I also know that in the future, I should communicate more with my parents, so that the other party respects and understands each other, and makes our family more warm.

It is necessary to understand the situation objectively and truthfully. After all, it's a family member who doesn't want to comment too much on your affairs. So you need to face this matter realistically, how to deal with it? Should. How to solve it?