What should I do with him? How do I deal with the people who usually target me.?

You're miserable, you've got a bad man. There are two suggestions:

1.Death will take revenge on him! Find a backer, find out where he is, find a backer and beat him up! And prove that he was wrong to forsake you.

2.Forget about him. Find someone to fall in love again, that person must be reliable, and you must love him. To prove that you will be happier than him.

A word of advice for you: love yourself!

Don't understand. This man owes a beating. I really feel sorry for you, but I have to admit that you are invested a lot in this relationship.

What's the use of revenge, the damage done to you has already been done. I still say the same thing, woman, if you don't love yourself, others won't love you. Now that this is the case, take care of the little ones and work hard to help your mother.

As long as you live a happy life, isn't it a great revenge on him?

I understand that if I were to kill him, but I believe that you are a sane woman, and it's time to use the law, although I don't understand the law, but you consult someone who understands the law, and now you don't want to be soft-hearted, but use the law to protect yourself, you don't sit back at home, but go to some law enforcement and ask how to solve the problem.

Fix him well, you're welcome

Capture him. Remember that you are the key and that he is the lock.

You have to keep him in check.

Who are you dealing with, and what are you for?

You tell me who to deal with.

Hello, I found that the person who usually targets himself, when he encounters a predicament, weigh the pros and cons, you have to think about it, and you can also make a move when it is time to shoot. A lot of the time, it's a matter of consideration. When faced with insurmountable difficulties, our first instinct is usually to ask for help.

But now there is another saying that "when you are at a low point, you should turn yourself into silent mode". What do we do?

I feel that I can ask for help and try to pull myself out of the pit with the help of other people's strength or resources. But there are two caveats:

2. Lower expectations. Human nature is self-interested, and the essence of communication is value exchange. If you are at a low point, sane people will definitely worry that not only will they not save you, but they will be pulled into the pit by you.

To help others, you must have a "fight, but not force" attitude, even if you have helped them before. We must believe that "it is my duty for others not to help me, and it is a favor to help me, and I should repay it with a spring in the future." With such a mindset, you will be able to open your mouth and will not be hit too hard by being rejected.

Then again, even if no one really helps you, that's not necessarily a bad thing.

There is a person who works in other places to buy a lottery ticket and win the jackpot, and the first thing he does after that is to call ** and tell his wife: "I am going to be hospitalized and need a large sum of money, you go to a relative to borrow it." The next day, I asked my wife again:

Did you borrow the money? The wife was about to cry: "I begged my relatives and friends, but no one would borrow it."

The man smiled: "Very good, I see who still has the face to borrow money from me." Have a good life.