I don t want to do it again before marriage, but my boyfriend doesn t agree, should I break up?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You say your parents are against it, so do you want to be with him or not? If you don't plan to be with him, forget it. If you plan to be together, you should also do a good job on your parents' side first.

    Don't do anything for him. A man who is truly responsible and loves you will not ask you for his own selfish desires, but will care more about your feelings. If he always thinks about this thing, he is not a very suitable person.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not small.,You're going to get married.。。 How much longer?

    How long have you been together?

    Then stick to your thoughts, keep this distance from him, and don't go beyond that. Otherwise, you will always be the one who suffers.

    As for the breakup, I don't think it's a factor. Consider something else. This man is like that.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then get married as soon as possible. In fact, every couple of lovers will face this problem, hehe, it's up to you to decide.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Men are like this, if they can't stand it, they will divide it, it's not a big deal.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You are 28 years old, you are in charge of your own affairs, and it is OK to pay attention to protecting your body

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You have to make it clear, don't hold back, if he really loves you you will understand.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Personally, I definitely have something wrong with you, in my heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you want to never get married for the rest of your life, then you should communicate with your boyfriend beforehand, and if he can accept it, you can be together. But if you're only temporary, you'll change later, just without thinking about marriage. If you are still afraid of marriage, then you can communicate with your boyfriend and slowly make adjustments.

    You might get married. But if he wants to get married and have children, and you don't agree, he may break up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You just want to fall in love with your boyfriend and don't get married, and I personally think that it is possible that the other party thinks the same way, so you don't need to have a psychological burden, and it is possible that when you want to get married, the other party may not be willing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then you have to negotiate with your boyfriend, tell him the truth, and see if he will not get married, if your boyfriend plans to get married and wants to have a child, you may make him disagree with it and may choose to break up with you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Personally, I think that when he finds out about your idea, he should choose to break up with you, because he will feel that you don't really like him, you just fall in love for the sake of falling in love and don't give your sincerity.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Looking at your boyfriend's current state, if you just want to fall in love and don't think about getting married, you will naturally not break up with you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you have this kind of thought, then you have to make it clear to your boyfriend to see if he can accept it, if you accept it, you will continue to be together, it is normal not to accept that he wants to break up with you, don't deceive, be frank and say what you think.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is disrespectful to your boyfriend, most of the time your boyfriend will choose to break up, after all, only being in love and not getting married will make your boyfriend not feel your sincerity, and not getting married also means that your concept of love is incorrect, so your boyfriend will still break up with you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This must understand the boy's inner thoughts, whether it is the same as you, but it needs a temporary one, or it needs to be a lifetime.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Yes. Because the other party can't accept a relationship without the protection of marriage, there is a high chance that they will break up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Absolutely. Because you don't have the idea of getting married, the two of you don't have the same mind.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If I don't want to marry you, then there is no need to delay yourself, after all, you yourself are also going to get married.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If your boyfriend is dating you don't want to get married. Then you have to make it clear to your boyfriend. Make it clear, talk about it, and if he doesn't like you, then you break up with him. Don't break the thread.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    My boyfriend doesn't want to marry you, I don't think you should break up with him right away, you should talk to your boyfriend and ask him what the problem is? If he really doesn't love you, then you think about what to do and whether to break up with him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You should break up, since your boyfriend doesn't want to marry you, it means that he doesn't like you at all, so you shouldn't continue to waste time with him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Of course it should, because it can be seen that your boyfriend is very cold to you, so I think you two should break up, because there is no need to force feelings at all.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You should break up with each other immediately, because there will be no result at all for two people, and two people will not get married, so you should leave each other.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    should break up with him immediately, since the boyfriend doesn't want to marry him, it means that he just wants to play hooligan when he falls in love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If a boy is in love with you, but is unwilling to marry you, it means that the boy's love for you is limited, and if his love for you is particularly deep, then he will want to have a good future with you.

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