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What is the reason for disagreement is the determining factor, if it is an economic condition, then you should also consider your own acceptance, if you can accept it, then it is you who live your life, try to convince your parents, if it is not for this reason, you generally don't like this person, then you need to talk sincerely with your parents, why, sometimes parents are more accurate than us to see people, especially when love blinds us, don't think about it if there is a problem with character, divide it.
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It doesn't have to be whether your boyfriend is good or not. My parents didn't agree and it didn't change me to marry him.
The reason for the opposition of the parents is either that the conditions are not good or the character is not good. Not worrying, there is a lot of mess.
We know for ourselves what kind of man we are suitable for, what kind of man is worth our life, respect for our parents, does not mean obey our parents!
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Well, look at the character.
Think about it if you really like it.
If that person is worthy, don't divide it.
Think about it carefully, from many aspects.
Talk to your parents and listen to them.
Don't follow blindly.
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Yes, you think, your parents' fiery eyes have been honed over the years, and they won't harm you. They know all too well what kind of person you're a good fit for.
Girl, don't fall in love with someone who doesn't love the right person.
Youth is precious.
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If the character, temperament, ability and other aspects are good, it depends on whether you really like it, and if so, persevere
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Let's see how he reacts.
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Quite simply, are you independent enough? And what kind of partner do you want, to be with you for a lifetime, think about this question clearly, it's very simple to make a choice. The parents' minds are very simple, you must be able to guess it, who has worked hard all their lives and doesn't want their children to go to the next level on the basis of the present.
If you find a lover, you can't give you a hand, but at least you can't hold you back. What about you? Don't put all the responsibility on your parents or your boyfriend's family background, if you love him enough, you can use your own efforts and abilities to hold up a sky with him, and then ask for your parents' blessings.
But if you're someone who can't survive without your parents' family, end it early, don't waste your time, and don't embarrass yourself at the end!
When the elderly think about their children's marriage, they often take into account their own feelings, thinking about the impact of marriage on their own lives, and they rarely think about the objective reality that young people are so "unproductive". Everything in the world seems to be able to be explained, but there is no way to figure out the relationship between feelings alone. You don't think it's a good match, maybe they are a natural pair.
The old man always thinks of himself as a passerby, but forgets that he was once young. In fact, there are still very few marriages that are really the right family in this society; There aren't many marriages that are really very happy. Most of them are painless and itchy?
It's not sweet or bitter, it's confusing, it's okay, it's okay, it's cashing. Life is inherently uneventful.
Before they met each other, both parties had completely independent and free growth experiences, and these growth experiences destined the two people to be different in the first place. Fate allows everyone to meet, but you also have to take into account the bottom line of your parents, if the gap between the two parties is too big, you will not be happy after marriage, you are full of love before marriage, and you will regret it after marriage Or think twice, whether your parents are from the past, or it is good for you to listen to your parents' opinions. So what are the reasons for the parents' disagreement?
This is important.
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Then you should let your parents see the good in your boyfriend, but you should also consider your parents' opinions.
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It depends on what the reason for the disapproval of the parents is, if you think your boyfriend is a scumbag, you should listen to your parents and break up with him.
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If you have already identified your boyfriend and decided to go with him for the rest of your life, then you should express your inner thoughts to your parents, and you must be firm and brave to love.
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I think it depends on which point the parents disagree with, whether it is because the boyfriend's family is not good, or because the person has a problem with his moral character. Or is it because the parents are not satisfied with their boyfriend's work. If it's just an economic issue, it's still negotiable.
If it's a matter of moral character. I think it's right to listen to your parents.
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A boy whose parents don't like must choose to break up, because the parents' choice is reflected after marriage, and life after marriage will tell you why you don't choose him.
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First of all, you still have to measure this yourself, it is obviously wrong for your parents to do this, but it may also be out of their considerations, but in the end, you still have to bear the emotional matters yourself.
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I think you should stick to it because you know your boyfriend best and there's love between the two of you.
A breakup is not a divorce, and a divorce certificate is required. Just tell him you're done, that's it, it's his business whether he lives or dies
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