Please analyze the following psychological problems in detail.

Based on these presumptions about your personality traits:

1. Perfection tendency.

2. Seeking independence but often having a sense of loneliness and boredom, this is your inner desire to interact with others but afraid of losing your independence and freedom, the contradiction between the two makes you unable to choose, so you will be more obedient to the choice of others, if there is a friend to play with you, you will always play with him, even if you have a lot of things to do at the moment, but you can't refuse to be with your friends. This contradiction can also be seen as a contradiction between your desire to socialize and your "sanity" that is strict with yourself.

3.Numbness. This is a way to escape the pain, and it must be the result of the pain, which means that you usually achieve the superficial effect of solving the problem by ignoring the problem, the problem will always be there, the pressure will increase, and you will become numb over time.

Another aspect is that you control your emotions, you suppress them and try to be sensible about everything, so that you are not easily hurt.

4 plans are difficult to implement. This has to do with your tendency to perfection, you make a plan too difficult to achieve, and if you don't follow it out at once, you have the opportunity to give up on yourself and treat the plan as useless.

5. I don't like failure and can't accept failure, which is difficult for everyone to achieve, because school education has always been a loser.

How to solve it?

Feel! Regardless of pain, self-blame and anxiety, you can achieve the effect of releasing these emotions through feelings, and your numbness is due to the fact that you control your emotions too much, suppress irrational mental activities, and achieve the effect of naturalness by feeling the difficulties you are facing.

How do you feel it?

Close your eyes and reflect on your pain, and then release all the emotions brought by the pain, and if you don't control it, you will be released! Feel your heart beat faster and your blood pressure rise, these are your natural reactions.

Also, your problem is not too serious, but it will last for a long time, which is a characteristic of psychological problems, it takes a long time to adapt, and you should stick to your faith.

When you walk on the road of life, you will meet a lot, tell you a word, I am just a student but have experienced more than you, Tagore's sentence ponder for yourself, when you miss the sun you cry, then you will miss the stars, I want to say, face everything with your happiest side, no matter what happens, don't think too much, just look far away to win everything, please forgive me.

I recommend the first part of this book "The Road Less Traveled" to you, read it three times, and you will be ** yourself. You'll be out of the shadows soon. I really hope that you will get out of this unhealthy state as soon as possible.

I'm not in the mood to analyze your problems, because I'm tired, and so are you, so I need to relax, you know what I mean, get away from everything for a while, let go, or be with your family, or read a book by yourself, and go to a scenic place.

Answer]: C General psychological problems: Bad emotions continue for one month without interruption, and the bad emotions that last for two months cannot be resolved by themselves.

The triggers of adverse emotional reactions are always limited to the initial event, and even other events that are related to the initial event do not cause such adverse emotions, that is, they are not generalized.