What are the bland romances of bland marriages?

In the ordinary married life, the two people are full of romance every day.

Vigorous love will always return to dullness, and if this dullness is a breakup, then the former love will come to naught. If this plainness is marriage, then this love will also reap happiness, and romance will become a protective color in married life, full of daily life.

From love to meals to me pinching your shoulders for you, romance is everywhere in married life. I've been married for more than four years now, and every day from the moment I open my eyes, the romance of life is actually filling the living space. My lover will always prepare breakfast, although it is simple, but it is also a love and a romance.

I often cook stir-fries and prepare dinner, and although I don't light candles, I think it's romantic. When I get home from work and accidentally say that my back hurts, my lover will always come over and help me pinch my shoulders, although it doesn't help, but I still feel warm.

In the process of getting along with the husband and wife, romance is actually everywhere, but you may ignore these romances.

There's so much romance in a bland marriage that I don't know how to give you an example. Every year on my lover's birthday, I give her a gift, and although she says don't want it every year, she will be really happy at this time; The two of us will inevitably go out every month to improve our lives, and we don't have to cook or wash the dishes every day; I helped her buy clothes, she bought shoes for me, and she smiled when her eyes crossed, which is actually a romantic feeling.

In fact, there is no need to deliberately look for romance. There are so many things in married life that can be romantic, but we are all used to it in married life.

Maybe a dull marriage always feels a little boring, but if you experience life with your heart, you will find that all of this is actually beautiful. We are always envious of other people's romance, but the romance in our own lives is always envied by others.

RomanticIt's the good morning on your lips, the meal you cooked in the evening.

In a bland marriage, bland romance is some care and consideration in life, such as preparing a glass of boiled water for each other when you get up in the morning, saying goodnight to each other before going to bed, hugging each other tightly when sleeping in cold weather, and two people often go for a walk in the park together.

In a plain marriage, it is also particularly romantic if two people can live an ordinary life, care for and take care of each other in their married life, and let each other feel their love for him.

For example, in marriage, on some special days, prepare some exquisite gifts for each other, and don't know that the other party feels happy. This is the bland romance that belongs to a bland marriage.

There will be a lot of romance in a dull marriage, and when I come home tired after a long day of work, dinner is set at home, which is a very romantic thing.

Personally, I think that a dull marriage also has a bland romance, for example, there will be some very interesting stories in a bland marriage, and it will also give each other a very good feeling.

It should be that after being together for a long time, he will get used to the other person's lifestyle, and then he will naturally cook what he likes to eat.

Ordinary marriage actually has a very bland romance, for example, two people talk about love together, cook a table of delicious meals, and talk about their hearts together, which is all bland romance.

often accompany his wife to go shopping, watch movies and the like, this kind of life is also what women want.

I think it will be happy, most couples are like this, at the beginning of the vigorous and slowly will live a dull life is true.

This kind of marriage is also happy, because two people will feel happy together, although it is plain, it can also make each other feel happy.

It will be very happy, which means that two people are particularly harmonious in life, and the personalities of two people will be particularly suitable for each other.

Analyze how the dull period of their marriage is caused, many people will feel bored and disgusted once they enter the dull period of marriage, the love they once had is slowly gone, and the only thing left is to complain and blame. When you feel this way, it's time to adjust your mindset, unless you really don't want to live it. So how to adjust your mentality, then you have to check the boredom to see what causes you to feel that life is dull, because the life after marriage is repeated over and over again, if you feel bored, you can try to change this dull life, think about how long you haven't calmed down with your other half to chat with your partner, and then recall that before marriage, two people were together, and they didn't talk every day, shouldn't it.

Maybe it's because of some contrasts between before and after marriage that I feel too bland. If it's because you don't talk much after marriage, try to get yourself and your partner to talk more.

Don't underestimate chatting, chat is a kind of communication, which is quite important for the marriage relationship, if there is a lack of communication in the marriage, two people will gradually become mature, and even forget their thoughts after a long time, which is a terrible thing, because if the marriage becomes raw and mature, no one knows who, isn't it the same passerby, then can it still be called marriage, then how can it be called husband and wife. If you figure this out, you can understand how important communication after marriage is for two people.

After three years of marriage, we start to get tired of it, and I think that generally about three or four years, especially after having children, everyone will quickly get tired of married life and get tired of each other. Not long after we got married, I conceived a baby, due to malnutrition, and because I didn't know how to cook, my husband didn't have time to take care of me, so I could only go to my mother-in-law's place for a while to go to my mother's house, at that time I felt that I was slowly beginning to be estranged from my husband, I told him many times, his mother is not my mother, it is impossible to treat me like my mother, but he doesn't listen, he always says that his parents are very good, how is it, but I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law plays mahjong every day, cooks not on time, my father-in-law smokes at home every day, it is useless to say, and at this time, he always said that I am not sensible and so on, slowly found that he was reluctant to call him ** to talk about these things. Later, I went back to my parents' house, and my mother took care of me, she had a lot of things to do, but she was also dedicated to taking care of me, because I was too pregnant and vomited, my appetite was really not good, and I was very picky, so I could feel the distress of my parents, and then after giving birth, my in-laws did not say to help take care of the confinement, nor did they say to help take care of the child, in short, my confinement was taken care of by my mother, and he felt that his mother's waist was not good, and I should understand if he could not come.

Later, we couldn't take the baby alone, and it was true that a person would not take care of it, so I took the baby back to my parents' house, and his parents didn't hit one, at first I and he would be a rough blind **, and then slowly I didn't want to pick him up**, and I didn't want to talk to him too much, we were separated for about ten months, and I went back to the first empty space, I felt that the two of them could not feel like when they were in love, when we were married for just three years, and the feeling at that time was that I wanted to return to a person's life.

There is no mountain alliance and sea oath in the TV series, there is no mountain without edges, heaven and earth are combined, Lu Yin dared to be with the king early, some tea and rice have salt, trivial things in life, Lu Yan is just an ordinary life depends on how the husband and wife live without being bored, living happily and happily, then only rely on themselves, there is no same family in the world, every family is different.

There are many reasons why a marriage is dull. With the passage of time, it will always slowly become dull. You can change the position of the ornaments in the house every once in a while to create some surprises.

After being married for a period of time, many people will feel that their marriage seems to be becoming more and more dull, and even doubt whether they are married. What is the main reason why marriages are becoming more and more dull. Why does marriage have to be dull?

1.Neither partner is attractive Attractiveness is arguably the key factor that makes a marriage active. No matter how long it takes to get married, as long as both spouses are still attractive, the marriage can go smoothly.

However, in real life, when couples have been married for a while, their attraction will gradually wane if they are too familiar with each other. In this process, one party may not hesitate to change itself and please the other, but the other party does not care at all and does not cherish the other. Their attitude towards each other is getting worse and worse, and they gradually become familiar strangers.

2.Distraction in couples after marriage After marriage, the roles of couples will change and they will take on more responsibilities. At this time, as wives, they are more focused on their children and family, while men are more focused on work and careers because they are responsible for providing for their families.

When two people's attention is divided, how to maintain their relationship is neglected, so their feelings disappear. In fact, for the most part, women and men still love each other, but they both put each other in a deeper position. The way to express love is not superficial, but to warm each other with actions.

3.There is no freshness Why does marriage have to be dull? After a period of marriage, the deep understanding between husband and wife has also entered the run-in stage from the imagination of virtual love.

At this time, the flaws hidden in the other side of the state pants will be exposed, and they will also find themselves inconsistent with each other in terms of values. At this time, if the run-in is not good, it is easy to lose the freshness of the other party and produce contradictions.