It s almost the New Year, and my girlfriend wants to go back to her hometown with me

You can't take her back.

First of all, your father disagrees, and what a lot of pressure it must cause you.

You can talk to your girlfriend first and hope she understands.

And seriously, I regret doing things when I was too young.

I look back now at the days that have passed, love, and I really regret the things of my youth.

There is also a sentence "classics, classics, classics" and "classics" is also a conclusion drawn from practical experience.

It's just that if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer a loss in front of you.

Think about it yourself, if you still don't understand, I advise you to listen to everyone's advice.

This will avoid detours on your own.

So you don't say much, then your girlfriend seems to be a little too anxious, parents are very talkative, you can talk to your dad well, have the courage to admit it, of course, you have to make the confession funny, for example, dad I want to tell you a bad news, and a good news, the bad news is that I grew up and stiffened my wings and didn't listen to you to fall in love, the good news is that I found you a good daughter-in-law. Haha, you can talk to your girlfriend, she shouldn't be the kind of person who is unreasonable.

Since that's all ... If you can run, the monk can't run the temple. The raw rice is cooked and the rice is ripe... Take it home, your father will also look at the face of his daughter-in-law, and he won't give you a hard time.

Well, it's a headache, but it depends on whether the two of you really love each other, if that way she will be different when she goes back to your house, he is good to your parents, and whether he is a person that your parents hate, I think most parents want their children to live well, as long as you insist, your parents will definitely understand you.

No, intellectually. But depending on your situation, the pros and cons are familiar. What's more important is that something has a hundred benefits and only one harm, and think about what situation this harm will put you in.

They say so, but they'll accept it when you bring it back.

So how old are you now? Still in school?

Is your current job very good, you are reluctant to give up, and the employment conditions in your hometown are not as good as they are now? In this way, you have to weigh whether your relationship is important or your work is important, and sometimes you can't have both, so you can only give up one.

If you love her, go back to your hometown with her to develop. There's nothing wrong with going back to your hometown, it's nice to get a good job, build a stable family, and honor your parents.

First of all, we must see what the development prospects are there, and if possible, go back with her.

If your relationship is particularly good and your work is not very good, choose to go with her.

If it is long, will it be in the morning and twilight? The most important thing in separating is that the two people trust each other.

If you are sincere, distance is not a problem, you can also develop with her four old families.

True love is tested, and mutual trust is the most important thing.

Think about what you want, whether it's with her or with her!

Then it depends on whether you are sincere or not? If you are truly in love, accompany her back to her hometown.

If you really like her, then respect her choice and accompany her to start a business.

If you fight her, go with her. The success of the business is eternal.

Then you can go back too, how good it is to be together, better than a man and a north.

If the two really love each other, they will go back to her hometown together to develop together.

You should trust her because one day she will succeed.

If you go together, you may be together, if you don't go, you may be separated later.

If this cause has a future. You can go with her.

People who love each other can have a career and love together.

If you love her, go with him, she will be very touched.

You can go back to your hometown with her.

Summary. Is there something going on with my girlfriend going back to her hometown? Or are you reluctant to let her go back to her hometown?

Because once he returns to his hometown, you will be reluctant to face a long distance? Will he go back to his hometown for a while, or will he prepare to go back to his hometown to work and develop in his hometown? If he just goes back to his hometown for a while, you can keep in touch, but she wants to go back to his hometown to develop, so did you communicate about the long distance before he went home?

Girlfriend goes back to her hometown.

Is there something going on with my girlfriend going back to her hometown? Or are you reluctant to let her go back to her hometown? Because once he returns to his hometown, you will be reluctant to face a long distance?

Will he go back to his hometown for a while, or will he prepare to go back to his hometown to work and develop in his hometown? If he just goes back to his hometown for a while, you can keep in touch, but she wants to go back to his hometown to develop, so did you communicate about the long distance before he went home?

Here's a question for you.

Whose new swallow pecks the spring mud, what does the daughter-in-law mean by the sentence "Picking her nose".

This sentence has no special meaning, the first half of the sentence is quoted from an ancient poem, but the second half of the sentence should be adapted, describing his girlfriend's little habits <>

Oh, and let me explain to you, we have a round limit for this chat, so you can post a little more every time you post content, or if you want to solve something specifically, you can make this matter clear, okay? ⊙▽

After reading all your descriptions, your girlfriend will immediately delete WeChat because of the small friction and small contradictions between the two, which causes you to be thousands of miles apart and cannot effectively solve and eliminate the contradictions, which will only deepen the contradictions and misunderstandings, and eventually lead to a breakup.

The biggest problem is not you, because you have shown the initiative to solve the problem, and her resolute refusal may be due to the following two reasons.

A person's mind is related to his mental age, life experience, and family education concept.

Younger + pampered girls at home, who have no ability to empathize, take it for granted that it is natural for boys to be good to girls, don't you know that a healthy relationship situation should be for both men and women to get along with each other equally, be considerate of each other, and give in to each other.

There are also some immature girls who have no experience in love, and they mostly listen to the advice of their classmates and girlfriends on how to deal with the conflicts between boyfriends and girlfriends, which causes deeper misunderstandings between each other. In the final analysis, the mind is still not mature enough.

There is another possibility (unlikely) that she has a crush and interest in other men, and takes this opportunity to break up with you and resume being single and start a new relationship.

This is just a possibility, according to your description, I think your girlfriend is more immature in the direction of mental immaturity, and you didn't introduce her age, they should all be young people, and they haven't been in a few relationships, because the distance is insecure, so make a small fuss, and it also corresponds to what she said before "Let you have a long memory" reply.

My advice: young girls crave that kind of sweet romantic love, you might as well find a suitable time to go back to your hometown, prepare a gift to surprise her, and take the opportunity to talk to her heartily. Tell her that your hard work is to give her a certain future.

A girl with a pure heart will definitely move + understand you, and you can work with peace of mind; On the contrary, if she is still lukewarm or quarrels and deletes WeChat after a short reconciliation, you should also recognize the fact that she is not a suitable person to go down with you.

For this situation, the main thing is that your girlfriend is very angry, because she has deleted you once before, and now she has deleted you again, and he does this to make you remember it thoroughly, don't make her angry again, otherwise the consequences are very serious.

In this case, we can not add him to WeChat for the time being, and after his anger subsides, if you add him again and he still disagrees, then it means that he is not suitable for you. There is no need to dwell on it.

I don't want to associate with you, and there's no need to continue dating.

Yes, she is in her hometown, for your mother-in-law in the Holy Land.

Then you ignore him for now, and the iron itself is hard.

In November 09, Tingting and I met on the Internet, and then gradually got acquainted, and slowly, we fell in love.

Tingting was very good to me, and on Christmas Eve, she bought me a set of thermal underwear, which was the first time I received such a gift, and I felt very warm in my heart. I thought to myself, I must treat Tingting well in the future.

Subsequently, Tingting's mother came to Hangzhou for two days, 3 people had a meal together, and then accompanied them to go to the supermarket, and had a very pleasant time. (Woman's private talk sifanghua).

February 14, 10 years, is the first Valentine's Day since I met Tingting, and it also happens to be the first day of the Lunar New Year. I attach great importance to this day, this year's Chinese New Year's Eve, there was a heavy snowfall, I told Tingting that I want to spend Valentine's Day with you, specially ordered a bouquet of roses. Due to the weather, many shuttles have stopped, I took the car to Haiyan, Haiyan to Haining shuttle bus stopped, as long as you take a taxi to Haining, it was good to live together in Haining, but Tingting's home to Haining shuttle bus also stopped, and Tingting said that I will take a taxi directly to your house.

But Tingting's mother doesn't seem to agree, which means that we haven't known each other for a long time, and she doesn't want me to pass the first day of the new year. But I still didn't listen to Tingting's mother's opinion, so I bought cigarettes and some other gifts from the supermarket and took a taxi. Just this time, to Tingting's mother, I was very stubborn and didn't listen to persuasion.

When two people are together, the first problem is the house. Missed the trough of the housing market in 08, began to recover after 09, began to look at the house in March of 10, the house price rubbed to **, at that time it was quite hot, the optimistic house was not settled today, it was bought tomorrow, and a few sets were also fancied during the period, but because of the relationship between the ** did not close, and then the more you look at it, the more expensive it is, and the heart of death is there. I didn't settle down on the house even after looking at it for a few months, which also buried a hidden danger for later changes.

Tingting was very nice to me, really nice. She saves money very much, every time she accompanies her to the mall, she can't let me buy the clothes she likes, and she still doesn't want to buy them back for her, so she tells me to buy them in the clothes store, save some money and save more money, in order to buy a house in the future. I usually eat, and I basically don't go to a small restaurant, try to solve it at home, and sometimes I ask my company canteen to bring food back, which can also save some money.

Speaking of houses, Tingting's requirements are not high, no matter how big or small, whether you buy in Hangzhou, or Jiaxing, or Haining, you can, but the most hopeful is Haining, I think Haining's future development will be very good, and ** is much lower, but the only requirement is to let me buy alone. But because of my machismo, I don't agree to buy a house in Haining, and I feel that buying a house in Haining is like being a son-in-law in the past, but buying a house in Hangzhou because of the real estate policy of the first ** later, I have bought a house now.

This problem seems to be a very common problem, and I haven't reached the stage where I have experienced this problem so far, but I have had similar problems with my parents and friends, and my own parents are married, and they always consider going to my grandma's house or grandma's house on the eve of the Chinese New Year, because they are married and have their own homeSo this problem is also very simple, that is, to spend the New Year at your own home, in the second year of junior high school or at what time to go to both parties' homes, this problem is solved.

My pair of good friends are still in love, the girl wants her boyfriend to go home with her for the New Year, but the boy also wants to go back to his home, and the New Year will feel inappropriate, the New Year is obviously a very happy festival and a reunion festival, the boy is busy for a year and the New Year before he has time to go home to take a look, so the two people are unhappy because of this matter, and the boy does not want to quarrel because of this matter,But he didn't want to go to his girlfriend's house at this time, so in the end, the boy compromised and told his parents that he would not go home for the New Year, and decided to go to his girlfriend's house.

In fact, I think that married people can choose a time to go to both parties' homes after the New Year or after the New Year's Day, after all, they are married and form a family, you can choose this way, but the boyfriend and girlfriend are not married, whether it is a boy or a girl, I think everyone should go back to their own homes to celebrate the New Year to reunite, after all, the Spring Festival is a reunion, and I personally think that I should go back to my home for the New Year.

Whether it is a boy or a girl, whether it is at work or studying, you should go back to your home during the Spring Festival, work and study outside for a year, whether it is your parents or yourself, you must miss your parents very much, everyone is looking forward to the day of reunion after a busy year, but if you go to your boyfriend's house or your girlfriend's house, there will be one parent who is lonely for this Spring Festival, so you may wish to think more about each other when discussing this issue.

If you don't get married, I still suggest going back to your own family for the New Year, because after all, if you don't have a marriage contract, she is not your family, and you are not their family, so it is more appropriate to go back to your own family for the New Year.