Do we lose a lot when we grow up, and what do we lose when we grow up?

No, growing up is something that everyone has to experience, and you will get a lot when you grow up, and your future life will be very beautiful.

Grow up. In order to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard.

Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live.

If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because that's how life is.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Independence + responsibility + ability to bear + mature physiology = grow up, when you have the above conditions, you can say that you are mature from psychology to physiology, a mature person has to face a lot of things alone, no longer like children when there are many things to face by parents, we will have a sense of responsibility, more often to be responsible for their own behavior, to face and bear a lot of things alone, because those who have borne for you are old, and you will also bear some for your own children, Until they mature or you can't handle it, then there's a lot of pressure, and that's what a full life has to endure.

Growth is a natural law. At the same time, it is also for a complete life, otherwise the incomplete life is meaningless, because each stage of life has its own joys, sorrows, and sorrows, once it is missing, it will not be able to comprehend the true meaning of life, so as long as we cherish each stage with our hearts, we can understand the meaning of life.

Yes, when people grow up, a lot of things change, and they will gain a lot, and there will be gains and losses.

My first loss was when I was in elementary school, and I was very sad when I was no longer with a lot of my classmates.

Maybe it's true, I really don't want to lose, I'd rather never grow up.

With the passage of time, we grew up, understood more about life, understood more truths, and then stopped Huizhen and gave me a chance to go back to my childhood, I have a lot of things to say to that little self.

Take advantage of a naïve, timid, and dependent mentality, and make a few more good friends. Because in the future, Jian Ru, both physically and mentally, will become more and more autonomous and independent, and in the face of danger or new things, you will get used to relying on yourself and not asking for others. And as a child, you were still the one who occasionally wanted to be naïve and weak.

This is actually a valuable ability.

The second, intimate and practical life guidance:

Let's exercise every day from that time. Let your body get used to the feeling of sweating and breathing, because in the future, when you read books you don't like, take stiff tests, and numbly do something that you are not interested in, your body will bear with you. You may gain weight or become sub-healthy, making you lose your liking for yourself in life and in the mirror.

If you get used to exercise early on, perhaps in the rush and confusion of day after day, it will make you decide one of the few things that a person can decide on their own - your body, and help you build the habit of self-confidence and self-discipline in the simplest way.

The third, some funny jokes:

Back in the past, I want to tell you that when you like a girl as a child, don't spray her with a toy water gun, don't pull her hair, don't say that her clothes are ugly, and don't complain about her to the teacher behind your back.

It is true, but 100% pampering when you are a child means 100% responsibility when you grow up, and many only children have not yet adapted to society, and they are coerced into middle age.

In the current fast-paced life, each of the only children struggles to move forward despite obstacles, and sometimes they want to stop and rest, but when they think of their families behind them and the responsibilities on their shoulders, they have to grit their teeth and run with all their might, and dare not relax.

Many times, I long for someone to be able to read the pain behind me and help wipe away the tears from the corners of my eyes, however, when I look around, I often find that there is no one to complain to, and there is no one to rely on, even if you are grief-stricken, it is only your business.

When we were children, we always longed to grow up quickly, and we wanted to be able to go to any city alone and make any decision alone, just like our parents.

Therefore, whenever I encounter a small setback, I always feel that it is good to grow up quickly, and I can easily solve the rent of Liang Sui.

However, when we really entered the adult world, put on a decent suit and put on exquisite makeup, we found that the difficulties will not become easier to solve because we grow up, on the contrary, they will be more difficult.

Sometimes it's even hard just to be an ordinary person.

If I were given a chance to go back to my childhood, I would say to myself when I was a child, don't be in a hurry to grow up, study hard, knowledge changes destiny, always pay attention to the health of your parents, learn culture well, and know how to seize opportunities!

There are some things that you don't know until you grow up. Such as family affection, such as friendship. When you were a child, you always wanted to escape from the home is the warmest harbor when you grow up, no matter what you do wrong, no matter how much you have been wronged, home will always be there, as long as you return home, all your troubles can be forgotten.

The friends who were together when I was a child are more pure than the friends I met after entering society, without utilitarianism and without care. So, don't rush to grow up, it's better to have more time like this.

Maybe we have also walked in the noisy city alone, but looking at the brilliant lights of this city, which one is lit for ourselves? I have also been to places with beautiful mountains and rivers, but no matter how beautiful the scenery is, who will enjoy it? I have also stood in a high-rise building and looked at the traffic outside, thinking about those people who are glamorous on the surface, who can understand the hardships and loneliness behind them?

When we are young, we like to be adventurous, eager for romance, like to pursue temporary possession, only to find out when we grow up that adventure also has concerns about prosperity, romance also has to face reality, compared to temporary possession, we are more eager for a long stream.

We always can't wait to grow up, can't wait to get rid of the shackles of our families, can't wait to meet new friends, and can't wait to go to the prosperity of the world. For this impatience, we may have missed a lot of beautiful scenery along the way, and missed the subtle touches along the way.

So, my dear, don't worry, we will all grow up slowly, until then, calm down and enjoy the time that belongs only to you. You will find that all the experiences you are experiencing now will become the most beautiful memories of your memories.

In our childhood, we look forward to growing up quickly every day, but when we grow up, we find that growing up and playing is not as easy as we think, many people will say that growing up is destined to be a gradual loss process, so growing up is really a loss process? Why? Today, I will give you a brief talk about whether growing up is a process of loss.

In our life, growth is indeed constantly losing, but we are not just urban areas, we also will gain a lot of knowledge and experience in the process of growth, we are not only losing, but also getting a harvest, we will gain love and friendship in this process, but at the same time, we will gradually find that there are fewer and fewer people around us after we grow up, but they are also more and more precious, they can do it, so that we have fewer and fewer things to fluctuate emotionally, But what can affect ourselves is the most precious, in the process of growing up, we will lose the kind of innocence at the beginning, lose the simplicity at the beginning, this is the price of growth, but we are losing at the same time.

Growth will also get what is needed to adapt to this society, and we will also get a person who can accompany us, although we can accompany ourselves in the process of growing up, and there will be fewer and fewer people who love ourselves, but these fewer and fewer people are the most precious for us, so in the process of growing up, although we have lost a lot, but we will also have a lot of precious things, and growth is destined to lose something. But sometimes we feel that we have lost more, but sometimes we feel that we have gained more, but we always have to experience growth, and at the same time we will gain something, either as a gift, or as a lesson, it is also a very important experience for us, and each of us has to go through the process of growth.

The above content only represents my personal opinion, if there is any error, please understand.

The process of growing up is constantly losing, losing our favorite blind Li people, losing the friends around us, and losing the feeling of being heartbeat. Because people are constantly growing up, constantly seeing more scenery, and constantly adjusting themselves.

Yes, we grew up with a lost process; Because in this process, we will lose a lot of things that we have prepared, including some immaturity before, and some memories.

We must acknowledge that much of the growth in life is often accompanied by loss. Lost youth and became mature; lost his support and became strong; Lost affection and became more independent.

From an ignorant child to an adult, from the greenhouse of the family to the wind and rain of society. We have lost the superficial immaturity and the simple cognition of food, which makes us mature and able to gain a foothold in a complex society, and we have gained the ability to be independent but gradually forget the vision for the future, lose our ideals, and gradually become an ordinary person who is content with life.

I used to like to buy all kinds of beautiful notebooks and pens to extract sentences that I thought were very poignant. When I was packing up, I decided to throw away the notebook, and I flipped through the excerpts in it at random, and what moved me at the time is the same now, so let's write it down and throw it away.

1. Young love is a self-care and perseverance. You must have done irrational things for him, you must have talked to him about grand dreams, and you must have firmly believed that he was the second half of your life. That boy, he may not be handsome, but in your eyes, he is better than all the light.

2. If you are still excited, angry, and sad now, please rejoice secretly. Because, you're still young. When you can no longer be moved, you can no longer be provoked, you will no longer shed tears, you will know what you have lost in order to grow up.

3. Every invulnerable person has been slaughtered, and I am too, at the age when I don't know how to love, the best 17 years old in my life, I really want to be slaughtered, 17 years old is a good age, I will love someone to the bone for a little bit of brilliance, I will not think too much, and pay with a balance. I don't miss the guy I was used to when I was 17, but I do miss who I was, how brave I was, how simple I was, and how much sincerity I had to splurge.

4. As you grow older, it is difficult for you to keep your face on a person, and you will not be as low as the first time you lost your love.

7. I accidentally graduated, I felt like a kite with a broken string, free and lonely along the way. At the graduation party, I thought it would be easy to say goodbye, and I was even puzzled why so many people cried.

8. You know your stubbornness, your loneliness, your pride, your fragility, you have been confused, try your best, Zen Nayan has sweated, swallowed tears, fought with your heart to the point of blood, and simply escaped death, only to finally get here, you are finally much calmer, let go of a lot, but why do you still have to go far away?

9. How beautiful youth is, how cruel it is. I had a little bit of youth, and I felt like I had been eaten by a dog, and it hurt violently when I mentioned it.

10. We always fantasize about being able to skip a class and be a bad boy, but we are afraid that the teacher will tell our parents that we like to secretly talk about the world in politics class, and then be hit in the head by the teacher's chalk head. But now, I can only add one word "once" to He Yu. Growing up is such an abrupt and hurtful thing, but we have no choice.