Why do young people refuse to mention it to their families when they are under pressure?

The young man's reluctance to mention it to his family must be the result of a combination of subjective and objective factors.

Subjectively, young and vigorous, still sharp, subjectively I would rather carry it myself than lose face in front of my family, and I want to continue to maintain the image of the pillar who carries half the sky alone.

On the other hand, some empathetic young people worry that taking the initiative to confide in them will cause their family members to worry, resulting in sleepless sleep and restlessness day and night.

In addition, young people are less patient, and if they are vulnerable for a while, they will lead to long lectures and exhortations, which can sometimes increase irritability.

In addition, in terms of personal personality, some young people are more silent and introverted, not good at expressing themselves, and they don't know how to talk even if they are stressed.

Objectively speaking, the pressure is more than daily work and study, and confiding in the family cannot essentially solve these problems, then the pressure will always exist.

Second, no matter how intimate, the generation gap will always exist. People of different generations have different pressures and need different comforts. Compared with family members, they will have more common language with their peers and communicate more smoothly, so they are more willing to choose friends as the person to talk to.

Compared with the cheerful and unrestrained of the West, the Chinese are more restrained and reserved, ashamed to express too many emotions, and have more to digest silently. Or drink a little stuffy wine by yourself, stay at home to watch dramas and variety shows, or watch writing and hone your mind, listen to songs, paintings, and practice guitar. They are more willing to constantly optimize and regulate themselves than words.

In the fast-paced modern society, everyone has invisible constraints, and it is normal to be stressed. No matter what kind of stress relief method you take, the key is to be efficient and suitable for yourself, and you can't keep standing still and be crushed by pressure, then all your efforts will be wasted.

Because I don't want my family to worry. Telling the family will only make the family worry but will not solve the actual problem, so it is better to carry it yourself.

Because these young people don't want their families to worry about themselves, they feel that they are out to struggle, no matter how much pressure they have, they have to bear it themselves, and they must not worry about their own affairs.

Mentioning this to your family will not relieve stress, but it will bring bad feelings to your parents.

The pressure of young people is an objective problem that should not be underestimated or ignored. Many young people face pressures from school, employment, family and other aspects, which may have a negative impact on their physical and mental health, and need to be taken seriously and concerned.

There is nothing wrong with the idea of the elderly complaining about the stress of the youngsters, but the hail that needs to be noted is that it does not mean that the young people should be under more pressure or that the elderly can turn a blind eye to the situation of the young people. On the contrary, the elderly can help young people relieve stress and encourage them to face difficulties and challenges positively through understanding, support and encouragement.

In addition, the elderly can also use their own experience and wisdom to teach young people some problem-solving methods and mindsets, so as to help them better cope with pressure and challenges and achieve self-worth. Therefore, the elderly should respect the feelings and situations of the young people, rather than simply complaining about the stress of the young people.

The pressure should not be too great, and people are happy in the world.

Of course it should. Appropriate help can relieve the pressure of the young couple's life.

Yes, we will help them mentally and financially, but we also hope that they can be independent on their own, because the future is their own way.

No, but let them develop alone, only in this way will they become more independent, more assertive, and able to solve problems on their own.

Appropriate help is necessary, and it can be taught through experience and interpersonal guidance to help them relieve stress, rather than being a big deal.