How to choose when faced with an invitation to the wedding of your ex?

Updated on vogue 2024-04-24
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I would choose to refuse. Because I feel like my ex is separated, there shouldn't be too much life to do.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you participate, you can let him know that you are doing well and put him down completely.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should go generously, since you have received the wedding invitation, you can't pretend not to see it, and you have to pay for it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If it were me, I would definitely not go in the face of my ex's wedding invitation, after all, the two of them once loved each other, and seeing him so happy, there was still some sourness in my heart.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I will politely decline, after all, I have nothing to do with the other party, and I personally feel that there is no need to continue to be together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since he invited me to go, I would go. Although our relationship is a little awkward, after all, the two of us have been together and experienced many good things together, and we still hope to see him happy. <>

    Anyway, I'm completely out of it now, so even if I go to his wedding, I won't feel any discomfort in my heartSo I'm going to give him my most sincere blessings, and that's the last thing I'll do for him, but also to completely draw an end to the relationship he once had with him.

    Besides, I didn't break up with him because of something wrong, is because it is not suitable for two people to be together, they naturally separate, to put it bluntly, it can actually be regarded as a peaceful breakup, and there is no deep grudge in itself, people invite themselves, but they don't participate in it, which will inevitably make others think more. And I think that I went to his wedding to show that I am very open-minded. <>

    Of course, this is my opinion on this matter, and some people will feel that there is no need to attend the wedding of their ex, because they are just unhappy for themselves!Although there is no relationship between the two people now, the relationship is real, and some people are extremely possessive, even if they have broken up for a long time, but when they see each other living happily with others, they will feel uncomfortable, so it is better not to go, out of sight. <>

    Anyway, I think it's okay to participate or notI didn't really feel much about my ex's marriage, and the reason why I went to their wedding was because he invited me, so I went. If he hadn't invited me, I would never have attended. After all, we all have a past, and it is impossible to keep holding on to the past and not letting go, and my ability to go means that I have completely let go of the past, and I also want him to see that my current life is also very happy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Definitely not inviting an ex to a wedding. There's no need for that. Exe means something that has already passed, and don't want it in the past. Tangled up again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This is a very embarrassing thing and you shouldn't ask your ex to attend your wedding, but it's not impossible if you get along well.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, the ex is not an ordinary friend, but someone who has had a relationship with him, in this case, if you invite the other party to the wedding, will you feel very embarrassed? In addition, you should also consider your partner's thoughts, whether it is very disrespectful to your partner to invite your ex to the wedding during the wedding, so there is no need to invite your ex to the wedding when you get married.

    Everyone is well. Maybe some netizens think that their ex can get along well after breaking up, but such friends are actually unnecessary. Maybe two people are good to get together and disperse, so after a good gathering and good dispersion, they should be okay with each other, and there is no need to appear in each other's lives again.

    There was once a strange guest who said that a qualified ex should be like dead, and there is no need to appear under normal circumstances.

    I care about my ex very much.

    Many partners care a lot about each other's exes because each other's exes have left a very deep impression on each other. In such a situation, of course, your partner does not want to see the other party's ex in the scene of marriage. The ex is indeed the most ordinary person, and after the breakup, there is no relationship between the two parties, there is no intersection, and in this case, there is no need to invite the other party to the wedding.

    There should be no intersection.

    It can be seen through some ** TV series, but anyone who goes to the wedding of their ex will basically make a little trouble, and it also means that they have not completely let go, so why provide such worries to their partners? Now that you have chosen to marry your partner and your ex is already your ex, there is no need for any intersection between the three of you, and even attending a wedding should not happen.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In this case, there is no need to contact the ex. First of all, the first one should disconnect from his ex, in this case, it seems crisp. In addition, it is very good for the stability of the family now.

    Also, if you invite someone to come over now, if you're very open-minded, that's fine. If something happens, it will be even more than worth the loss.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course, you shouldn't invite your ex, because you and your lover have broken up, you have nothing to do with each other, and if you invite your ex at this time, your other half will definitely not be happy, and you will feel uncomfortable, so I don't recommend inviting your ex.

    Now when many people get married, they will invite their exes and let them witness their happiness, but I think this approach is very inappropriate, although everyone says they don't mind, but there will be some discomfort in their hearts, so it's best not to invite your ex, let it pass the past, there is no need to touch, and there is no need to have too much involvement with each other, so that you can live a happier life, and you are now married and have your own lover, What you should do is to make your lover happier, and not have too much to do with someone you have an old love for.

    I'm a very indifferent person, for this kind of thing, I will never invite my ex, because I think the ex is the ex after all, he is not our trust, what we should do is to make our current one happier, happier, and also give him a memorable classification, so I will never invite my ex to my wedding.

    Wedding is the most important thing in our lives, we must take it seriously, so that it can become the most beautiful memories of each other, if you invite the ex, your current will feel particularly unhappy, and he will also have a knot in his heart, which is not conducive to the relationship between the two of you at all, as a result, he will not say anything at the time, but he will feel uncomfortable when he thinks about it in the future, therefore, more is better than less things, don't invite your ex, and don't think about your ex, you are married, It's time to look forward, not always look back.

    Every marriage needs to be managed and treated with heart, whether it is before or after marriage, you must show your greatest sincerity, so when you get married, don't do something that is not conducive to the relationship between the two, and don't invite your ex, just grasp your present and show your greatest sincerity to love each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course I won't invite, I think men and women after a breakup should never get along, everyone should treat each other as the strangers they are most familiar with, although the friend list may be reluctant to delete, but there is no need to deal with each other for the rest of their lives. 1. The wedding invitation ex is looking for unhappiness If your current person knows the person before you recognize it, then when he sees the most "threatening" person at the wedding scene, guess what he feels in his heart. Even if the current one doesn't know who the predecessor is, but the way you look at the ex must be different from others, your current one can feel that there is something wrong as long as you are a little sensitive, and you can quickly guess the identity of this person.

    Guess what he should do in the future, is he pretending to be stupid, or is he pretending to be generous? It seems that these two are quite embarrassing, and the big day makes him so awkward, can you bear it? Let's take a step back, the current doesn't know about the existence of your ex at all, but when you are an ordinary guest to entertain you, isn't there an embarrassment between you and your ex?

    When two people who once loved each other meet on such an occasion, should he bless you? 2. The ex may not be willing to accept your invitationThe ex is a very magical existence, and the two people who are obviously okay have been the closest lovers, and this kind of role change is actually very difficult. Isn't it cruel to let someone who once loved you look at you and everyone else as husband and wife?

    But anyone who still has a trace of affection for his ex, he will not want to watch the person he once loved marry someone else or marry someone else, and they are not willing to go at all on this occasion. However, when you fell in love with each other and you invited him to your wedding, even if he didn't want to go, he could only endure his unwillingness to be there, although he couldn't give you sincere blessings, but he could only watch you marry others like this. If you don't invite your ex, then he won't have to face this kind of torment, isn't it good to let each other live, why make the relationship so awkward.

    Wouldn't it be nice to leave a little memory for each other, so that he can really forget the fact that he once loved each other. I think it's best not to invite your ex when you get married, it's useless not to say anything, and it makes each other embarrassed and uncomfortable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Netizen 1: Yes! I even invited relatives and friends who I don't know very well, but it's someone who has been close to him, and there will definitely be no less red envelopes for him....

    Netizen 2: I will invite, at the beginning he broke up with me because he was poor and unworthy, and now that I am married, I will invite him and let him contribute money.

    Netizen 3: I got married and invited my ex, and his family disliked me for being too short and asked him to break up with me. Now I've found someone with higher conditions than him and better than him, and I'm mad at him!

    I cited the thoughts of some netizens, from which you can see why they invite their exes? Mostly for these two reasons:

    1: For an extra share of money.

    2: To slap your ex in the face.

    Netizen 4: I won't, I don't lack that share of money, and I don't lack that blessing. Inviting your ex to a wedding is simply uncomfortable with each other!

    Netizen 5: No, did you invite your ex to participate because you wanted him to smash the field?

    Netizen 6: If the ex comes to attend the wedding, the current one must be uncomfortable. And so many relatives and friends, why embarrass each other, I won't invite.

    1: It's good to get together and disperse, and I don't want to have anything to do with my ex.

    2: It is also a sign of respect and scruples for the current and their families.

    3: Avoid embarrassing and unnecessary situations.

    In a romantic comedy "Love Apartment" that I like very much, there is a plot where Zhang Wei's ex-girlfriend Xiaoli sends Zhang Wei a wedding card and invites him to her wedding.

    Xiaoli was going to marry Zhang Wei at the beginning, but on the wedding day, she ran away with her childhood sweetheart Qiangzi, leaving Zhang Wei alone at the wedding scene. And when Xiaoli and Qiangzi decided to get married, she invited Zhang Wei out of guilt, hoping that he could attend her wedding.

    Zhang Wei was devastated after receiving the invitation, he pretended not to care on the surface, but in fact, he was very reluctant to go, he didn't care about the money, and he didn't want to face the person who was going to be his wife in person, but now he is married, but the groom is not him. Later, in order not to think of anything, Zhang Wei even deliberately ate crayfish and went to the hospital with severe allergies.

    Although it is only a comedy plot, in real life, many people do resist the wedding invitation of their ex. No matter what you want to invite your ex to your wedding, it's just a dilemma.

    All in all, my idea is: since we are separated, we should keep each other at a distance and with decency. Marriage is not a one-person affair, you have to consider the emotions and feelings of the current one.

    Besides, for your ex, if you are a scumbag, why should you bother with the contacts. If you break up peacefully, then keep the beauty of the past, be the strangers you are most familiar with each other, say goodbye and be happy!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Will invite will not invite, more inclined not to invite, the specific situation is treated, if there is no love, there is friendship, you can invite. If there is neither love nor friendship, but hurts each other, then you should never invite him to your wedding, in fact, if you invite him, he will not come, if he comes, it will be embarrassing, and both of them will not feel good, so why invite him? In general, the relationship between the ex and the person is not very good, so in most cases, the ex is not invited to his wedding.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's not good to invite your ex to a wedding, whether it's your own wedding or someone else's. Inviting an ex will only make the situation unmanageable and embarrassing.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't invite it. It's embarrassing to come. It's better not to meet.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If it were me getting married, I would definitely not invite my ex, because after all, I have already broken up with my ex, and there is no need to invite them because of marriage, because I don't think it makes any sense, and it will make the atmosphere very embarrassing, so if it were me, I would definitely not invite my ex.

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