Hello everyone, A relationship problem has been bothering me for a long time

Do you like her? It feels like you're here to teach others how to be someone you like, everyone has their own good, and you don't have the need or right to change others. Maybe one day you will find that you like her unenlightened.

Hehe, take advantage of it. There is such a good and simple girl, why not cherish it? Do you want her to be a very mature person who knows how to make a boy happy, but doesn't necessarily love you, don't you?

You should first find out if people like you? If you treat a girl like this for a long time, she may become dependent on you, and if she has a good impression of you, if not, I advise you to give up!

If you like him, let him rely on you, and if you don't like to feel hated and uncomfortable, you will give up... How nice such a girl is, provided that he is not a fool, hehe.

It mainly depends on whether you like her or not, if you don't like it, give up as soon as possible, my girlfriend is a bit like that

Guide slowly, and he will rely on you.

There are so few girls like this now, and if she says she likes you, she really likes you...Cherish it

Abandon? Give up on you and you're stupid!

Such a girl is not an unpolished diamond at all!

Very promising!

I see you have these feelings.

One. You're used to doing this to her.

Two. She's used to doing this to you.

Three. It is impossible for the two of you to be together, you have no fate, if there is fate, it is impossible for nine years without results and no feelings.

Solution: one. treat her as an old friend, not as a future wife, and continue to care about her, but the relationship will always be an old friend.

Two. Start your own life, you can also tell your wife about this situation, let your wife be friends with her, and you can care for her together in the future.

All in all, it is best to have a third party in contact with her in the future, and you can also listen to her, but the relationship is different, as long as you are so determined, she will no longer affect you, you are also a kind heart to her, and you can listen to her just like a friend of the same sex as hers.

Give me a suggestion, keep it simple.

When I go out to travel or go to a random place for two months, my original mobile phone is stopped, and I don't take the initiative to contact her, and I am isolated from the outside world for a while, and I should be able to see it.

This kind of thing can only be solved by oneself, and others can't help it.

Don't take care of this kind of person, don't care about your feelings at all, the cold weather will treat you as a cotton clothes, you have no status in your heart, why bother to put her in your heart! Truth be told, she's cheap! Actually, I don't think you like her very much, it's just that she's a goal you haven't reached, people, you will always have expectations for things that are not your own!

If you have such a good temper, find your true happiness!

You can treat her as a friend, it's normal for your friends of the opposite sex to talk to you about something, don't think too much and there will be no psychological burden.

1. Relying on civil servants is for your own future, and if you think it is good to be a civil servant, you should take the exam, not for others.

2. The so-called right door to door is an unchanging truth. Because family differences will affect the personalities of two people, they will have different views and understandings of things, and their living habits will be different. In the future, when there are children, there will be a big difference in the method of education.

Both of you need to know this.

It is said that love can overcome everything, but in fact, love is also composed of bits and pieces of life. The word "love" cannot solve any problems. So if you can't leave him, be prepared to accept everything with peace of mind and endure everything.

Since his parents have such an idea, even if you are admitted to the civil service, they will still look down on you. Think about it yourself, if I could, I would still choose to break up. Because his parents seem to be quite difficult to serve.

I can't stand to get married in the future and be wronged. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very important.

You're right, if you enter his house in this way, even if you are admitted, but the reason for everything is that they look down on you, and there is a "distance" between the two families, even if you are together, there will definitely be similar things in the future. And you have to ask yourself about your feelings for him, you have been away from the clutch many times, are you really suitable? Feelings are really not just a matter of two people, but also involve two families, if you are not ready for this, I hope you can think clearly, for your happiness.

Personally, I think that you should all start a new relationship, there has been no new one, so the old one has not been able to let go, and in this situation, if you can't pass the civil service exam, you will definitely not be together, he listens to his parents so much. There is no way, if you are admitted, will you feel that your love is exchanged for civil servants?

I think that the right people will be happy together, suitable does not mean that everything is good, but suitable, suitable, even if the family background is not good, it is the best.

If you really love each other, you can take the test, and this question mainly depends on whether you want to believe him.