Why is she like this? Keep somebody at arm s length? How to continue .

There are two types of cases.

One: Do you think it's possible for her to say yes to you? Or you test out what your success rate is first.

Don't get me wrong. I'll give you an example: I like Korean movie star Hyun Bin, but I know it's impossible.

Maybe the metaphor is too different. But I'm just going to give you a little bit of what kind of situation you're in. I mean she's not worth your love.

Or maybe you're wondering if there's a chance she'll go to see you. Then you decide whether you want to go for your chase or not. Sometimes I think it's a mistake to blindly chase someone you like.

Two: You don't think there's anything impossible. There are many aspects of the two people and so on, there is the motivation to move you forward, and my advice, you have to go and chase bravely.

Because a word, a good word, action is the best way to express it. Love is useless only in the heart. I mean you give yourself a few points in your heart, and if you are confident enough that she just rejected you once, it doesn't mean that she won't agree to you in the future.

So you can rest assured to chase boldly. The reason why I tell you the previous point is because I don't want you to be a kind of love that is not possible together"Burial goods".But judging from your tone analysis, the two of you should have a drama.

Hehe, because I'm a girl, and I'm sensitive.

Let me give you two examples of me. It's never too late for you to make a decision.

When I was eighteen years old, a boy chased me and looked for me a few times, but I didn't say yes. It's not that he's not handsome, it's not that he's not motivated. Not for any reason, just because my feelings for him will always be a brother and sister relationship.

And no matter how much he pays, I won't agree to associate with him. That's why I'm afraid you're chasing that girl. Like my first point.

That is, if she rejects you, it does not mean that you are bad, but that her feelings for you are not feelings of love. Do you understand?

Now I'm twenty-four years old and I have a boyfriend whom we met three years ago. He was three years younger than me. When he chased me, I rejected him like most girls.

But then he bravely expressed his love and tried his best to be nice to me. I can say that he touched me, and I happen to like his type of boy. So it didn't take long for us to start dating.

Until now. I've talked so much nonsense, I don't know if you're annoyed. Just for your reference, your current situation corresponds to that situation. It's never too late to try hard.

Don't miss your love because of face problems. Maybe you're a good couple.

I sincerely wish you success in chasing her.

I think she's deliberately trying to make you hungry, waiting for you to confess your attitude first. Because I'm a girl, I think a girl, if you ask her, "I asked her if she has a boyfriend, and she said no, she will never admit it!"

That shows that she's still a little interesting to you. However, she is always hot and cold, on the one hand, just to prove her charm, and on the other hand, to show that she is not 100% satisfied with you, she is still looking for opportunities, but she does not want to give up on you as a candidate. If you are bold and proactive, you can still win opportunities.

You can ask her out alone, and then confess to her, oh be subtle when you confess, so that it doesn't scare her, and it also leaves room for yourself.

This kind of girl is not simple, I like simplicity. She is not simple, but her appearance makes you think that she is very simple, which shows that she is not simple. I don't want to communicate with this kind of girl.,If you're away from playing tricks, stay with me.,If you like it, you like it.,What kind of tricky love master to play.。

It is recommended that you sing Wilber Pan's love master to relieve boredom, "You are a love master, I am a novice in love" Hehe, this kind of girl is less suffered, and it will make my heart very unhappy. Really, I'm from the past, and I know this kind of girl is not easy to deal with. If you must "not marry her", then you should be determined to leave her, and play with her as if you were leaving, only in this way will she feel that you are different and accept you psychologically unconsciously.

I'm not here for 200 percent, I just want to express my disgust and boredom with this kind of woman, it doesn't matter whether you give points or not, the important thing is to make you mentally prepared.

Men and women are different, although you say that you care about her in obscurity. But it can be revealed on certain occasions, and if a woman wants to understand a woman, she must start from the people around her.

1.Regardless of whether she has a boyfriend or not, she must show her concern little by little, because women need care and care.

2.You need to try to please the woman around her who speaks with weight, but this needs to be hidden, especially this girl and your rival. (Don't be stingy).

3.Be thick-skinned, this is the basic principle of chasing girls, stand out with things, and do everything possible to let him know that you are strong, it depends on the mind (women always like people who can protect themselves).

4.Dress yourself up, add her from the bottom of your heart to know that you are a romantic person, and then increase her good impression of you.

4.If you want to "inadvertently" reveal the information that you like her, or you don't leak some information, she may think that your concern for her is only the concern between colleagues. That's trouble.

It's better to choose the timing than to be lucky. But don't ask others to be flower messengers before you. Hehe.

Hehe. There are a lot of people with this post, and I'm also having a good time!

In fact, this kind of thing can't be taught by others, but what some friends say is quite reasonable. I know that maybe it is because she is so interested in her if she leaves you, if one day you really catch up, the two of you are together every day, I think you will probably be like what was said upstairs, you will be very tired, or you may no longer have the patience and enthusiasm to help her often, and even a little annoying. So you must think about it carefully, if you are determined to chase her, you must be mentally prepared, and be brave and firm.

The most important thing is that no matter what decision you make, don't regret it later, because no one knows what will happen later.

Good luck!

poured. Personally, I feel like you're too careful. Who doesn't have a busy time. Who doesn't have a bad mood. Do you have people texting you back when they're busy? When you're in a bad mood, you pretend to be smiling and chat with you?

Women have a crush on men. At first, there was the expectation period. If you had told her, she would have said yes.

Then there's the waiting period. Due to the expiration of the expectant period. At this time, you say that women will hang your appetite.

It can be regarded as a punishment for not confessing sooner. Then there is the cooling period. This period is very short.

It's women who have less and less affection for you. But there is no other goal. If she has the next goal, it will be your end - the period of apathy.

At this time, if you want to confess to him, he will forcefully reject you. Because she's lost interest in you.

If you like him, confess it to her first. If he agrees, then it will be a fair and bright relationship. If he is a little hesitant or tactfully refuses.

Then you have to work harder to treat her better. If he refuses you strongly. For example.

We don't fit. I already have a boyfriend. and so on proves that you have no drama.

I can only take care of her more and be an ordinary friend. But if you don't say it, you miss the period when she has a good impression of you. You can cry with regret.

Landlord, I can understand your feelings.

Here are my personal opinions:

I think it's better to say it (preferably hinting) if you're happy alone, so as not to regret it later.

Say it, even if she doesn't say yes. Even if you can't be a couple, you're still a good colleague. Guys, let go!

To like someone and to love someone doesn't have to have her. Just keep her in mind. If she finds a more suitable one, just bless her silently.

Of course, if you wait for you to get old, you will be relieved! It can also be recalled. Maybe you'll smile!

If you have someone you can like, you should try it. You're already happy. Go after it.

Of course, you have to pay attention to the method. Tell you a secret, when a person slowly gets used to you, they will be inseparable from you. It's easy and hard to make yourself like you.

You already have a superior condition over others, that is, you can contact her every day.

Landlord: I'm in a similar situation to you!! But I confessed that the result was in my hands, hehe, the opportunity lies in my own hands! But I'm also very annoyed by the fact that there are a lot of friends chasing my girlfriend, and my girlfriend always fights with them**, and a dozen is a few hours, and the text messages from others are still the same, although I show it to me in person, but my heart is still a little sour!

I don't know what she's thinking, how she doesn't know how to avoid suspicion, at least in front of me. And often tell me who came to see her shopping and didn't tell her friends that she had a boyfriend, annoying!

If it means to be away: like approaching, like leaving. Describe the attitude towards people to maintain a certain measure, neither far nor close. It also describes the relationship between two things as unclear and elusive.

1. Ruo is a Chinese idiom, pronounced ruò jí ruò lí, which means as if it is close and as if it is estranged. Describes not having a very close relationship with people.

2. Source of idioms: Chapter 16 of the second volume of Yao Xueyin's "Li Zicheng": "The latter follows behind, and if you leave, you don't speak." ”

3. Idiom usage: joint; as a predicate, a definite, an adverbial; The attitude is unclear.

"If that is, if you leave" to form a sentence:1. The relationship between them is inseparable.

2. The relationship between the two is no longer as inseparable as before.

3. Her personality is relatively withdrawn, she is inseparable from others, and she does not have a close friend.

4. They have known each other for nearly two years, but her attitude towards him is like a separation, which makes him very distressed.

if: as if; Namely: proximity. It seems to be close, but it doesn't seem to be close. Describe keeping a certain distance from people. Describe things vaguely.

Source: Yao Xueyin's "Li Zicheng", Volume II, Chapter 16: "The descendants follow behind, and if they leave, they do not speak." ”

Usage: combined; as a predicate, a definite, an adverbial; The attitude is unclear.

Idiom If you are leaving.

Pinyin ruò jí ruò lí

Interpretation if: as if; Namely: proximity. It seems to be near, and it seems to be leaving.

Describe the attitude towards people as if they are close and sparse, and maintain a certain degree of proportion and distance. It is also described as ambiguous.

Source: Qing Wenkang's "The Biography of Children's Heroes": "The two newcomers here come and go in the new house, like butterflies wearing flowers; If it is leaving, it is like a dragonfly dotting water. ”

synonyms respectful and distant, look like detached.

Antonyms are intimate, intimate like flesh and blood.

When we are together, it seems to be very close, but sometimes it seems to be deliberately distant, deliberately ignoring your existence.

Feeling close There is a feeling of absence.

Explanation]: if: as if; Namely: proximity. It seems to be close, but it is not as if it is not close. Describe keeping a certain distance from people. Describe things vaguely.

From] the afterlife follows behind, if it is about to leave, and does not speak.

synonyms respectful and distant, look like detached.

Antonyms are intimate, intimate like flesh and blood.

It is to describe the cold and hot of people, and the distance and proximity make people incomprehensible.

Description: Keeping a certain distance from people and being vague about things.

Hello! Keep somebody at arm's length?

The harder it is to chase, the more you want to chase.

Explain that he or she wants you to deepen the impression of him (her) in your heart.

Rest assured to chase it.

Because he or she loves you so much.

There is a kind of avocado called Ruoli, and weak chickens like to eat Ruoli.

Idiom If you are leaving.

Pinyin ruò jí ruò lí

Interpretation if: as if; Namely: proximity. It seems to be near, and it seems to be leaving. Describe the attitude towards people as if they are close and sparse, and maintain a certain degree of proportion and distance. It is also described as ambiguous.

Explanation]: if: as if; Namely: proximity. It seems to be close, but it is not as if it is not close. Describe keeping a certain distance from people. Describe things vaguely.

From] the afterlife follows behind, if it is if it is away, and does not say [synonyms]: respect and distance, look in harmony with God.

Antonyms are intimate, intimate like flesh and blood.

It is generally believed that if that is, if it is far away, it means to keep a distance, but in fact, this interpretation is too broad. If it is a kind of artistic conception, it can better express a relationship between people, a state that seems to have no distance and seems to have distance.

It seems to be close, and it seems to be close, describing the relationship between people is light and ambiguous.

It's just a desire to get away with it.

If you want to refuse and welcome. The enemy advances and I retreat.

The enemy retreats and disturbs us.

If the meaning of the separation is to refer to, as if very close, but also seem to be very distant, to describe the attitude towards people as if close to the sparse, to maintain a certain degree of proportion and distance, but also to describe ambiguity, can also describe the distance and approach.

The meaning of if it is to leave is as if it were approaching, and as if it were leaving. It refers to keeping a certain distance from people.

Pinyin ruò jí ruò lí

Source: Qing Wenkang's "The Biography of Children's Heroes": "The two newcomers here come and go in the new house, like butterflies wearing flowers, if they leave, like dragonflies dotting water. ”

Example: Their relationship is no longer as dissociative as it used to be.

Usage: combined; as a predicate, a definite, an adverbial; The attitude is unclear.

synonyms

半推半就 [ bàn tuī bàn jiù ]

Interpretation: push: prevarication. Just: Close. While prevaricating, accept at the same time. Describe the appearance of being willing in the heart but pretending to excuse on the surface.

Source: Yuan Wang Shifu's "The Legend of the West Chamber" The fourth book is folded: "Half push, half on, surprised and loved, sandalwood cheeks." ”

Example: When she accepts bribes from others, she always pushes them off and pretends to excuse herself.

Usage: combined; make adjectives, adverbials; Describe the willingness in the heart, and shirk on the surface.