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If it is a love that I regret, I have fought for it and am indifferent, as long as I can fight for the lost feelings, no matter what percentage I have to fight, no matter what method I use, dignity or good, even if there is only a very slim hope, I will fight for it, even if I have lost, I will fight for it in this life, as long as I work hard and give up everything to fight, it is enough!!
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There is a good saying, if others laugh at you, you will not lose a piece of meat, and when others say hello, you will not have an extra piece of meat. If you care about what others think of you, you have to change your original goals and directions because of others, so are you living your life or someone else's? The dignity you are talking about, in fact, has never been lost, you care about it, you lose it, if you don't care, no one will dare to fight with you.
The philosopher Schopenhauer said that dignity is born and died by the opinions of others, and it is a person's multiple tragedies.
Because you will spend all the time in pain, sadness, dissatisfaction, and none of these emotions are positive.
You are very capable, and you can be in the top 100 in the whole district, which is very powerful! Are you happy to hear people say that?
In fact, you just need the approval of others, but at the same time that others recognize you, you also have to think, am I like this? Is he right?
You are really capable, concentrate on doing your own thing, enhance your strength, be the person you know best, and don't listen to other people's gossip, which will make people respect you!!
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Dignity doesn't have to be felt by others.
It's good to have self-confidence.
The grades have improved so much, do you say they have been redeemed??
Why do people still laugh at you?
Have faith in yourself.
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Your grades are declining, maybe it's not that your teachers and classmates are laughing at you, it's just that you have low self-esteem, and it's the same if your grades are good, be confident.
I've experienced the same thing as you, but it's not like this, I should say that the relationship has changed about the same.
I was in the best class in primary school, and my grades were always mediocre, and I always felt that others looked down on me. Later, when I came to junior high school, I went to a class that was not too good, and my grades in the class were better, but I want to ask you, when your grades are good, do you laugh at those poor students, no, no, it's just your own psychology, but I don't have self-confidence because of elementary school, I believe you are the same, always suffering from gains and losses, I remember what my junior high school teacher said to me at that time, he made me confident and believe that I was great.
It's not that everyone can't defeat others, they just can't defeat themselves.
Be confident and think differently.
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What is dignity? Dignity is face, if someone hits you in the face, and you fight it back, it will be considered to have restored your dignity. They laughed at you for your bad grades, and now it's your turn to laugh at them!
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First of all, I think the teacher and classmates are laughing at you, it's too exaggerated, the teacher should use the method of agitation, and the classmates won't do that.
Could it be that you are thinking too much.
And secondly, if you want to restore your dignity, as you say, you should let them know.
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At least you're doing the right thing is to turn your grief into strength, whirl, even if the motive isn't quite right, but it's okay. One by one, they say that their dignity is their own, but who doesn't consider their status in the eyes of others?
However, your disadvantage is that you pay too much attention to your status in the eyes of others, which is a bit too much, and it will be very tiring, so it is important to adjust your mentality to be ruthless.
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I don't think there is any need for teachers and students to mind like this. Even if your grades have dropped badly, if they laugh at you because of it, they have a problem with their RP. It's not your fault, it's not that you've lost your dignity.
You're doing a great job. Study hard. If you have to mind, there is no dignity restored.
Then you are successful. Prove that you have a lot of backbone. Your dignity has never been lost.
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Don't hide your inferiority complex by standing on high ground. A confident person doesn't need to care about being ridiculed by others.
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You are a very competitive person, at least you have the capital to "fight back" when they laugh at you, I think you have redeemed it. Come on, go and bask them again during the class reunion, they will be impressed.
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Thinking too much ... Dignity is something you come up with ... Don't take that waste seriously ...
Set a goal--- study hard --- make a lot of money.
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They see your inadequacy, they don't see your success.
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Do they know? You are living for yourself, not for them.
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The tighter the love is clutched by you, the easier it is to run away.
Listening to your description, I think he is a person who is both sensible and ambitious. High school is supposed to put your studies first, and he said that there is nothing wrong with studying hard for the future of both of you! At the same time, I understand your emotions right now.
Girls are just afraid that their boyfriends will be indifferent to them and don't value them anymore. I want to remind you that the more insistent and overwhelming you try to occupy him, the more you will push him away. Girls who are too active will also feel too easy for boys.
At this stage, you have to learn to be reserved, don't always take the initiative to contact him, doubt him, and don't get angry with him. Instead, you have to be reluctant to shift your attention to your own studies, do your own thing, and appear to be more independent. And hurry up and improve yourself.
If the gap between yourself and him is too big, when he is admitted to a key university in the future, he will be surrounded by excellent girls, how can you compete with them.
So make it your current goal to get into the same university or a nearby university as him! You have your own goals, you can do your own things independently, and after giving him some space, you will naturally have dignity as such a girl!
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Caring is chaotic, and you have lost yourself in front of him.
Be yourself, if you want to attract him, you should have the charm of a woman, not always pestering him like this, which is not good for you and for him.
In high school, studying hard is the most important thing.
When you get to college, you are exposed to more things, and you don't think like you do now.
LoveSometimes the more you value him, the less you get him. Nothing can be forced.
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Love is dignified, the more active you are, the more passive he is, you have to learn to be hot and cold, and you want to indulge. I have a slightly different opinion from you upstairs.,I think this guy should be a little bit dislike the heroine's over-initiative.,A little tired.,He's looking for an excuse to let the heroine not bother him.。
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Those who want to hurry will not reach it. The more active you are, the more presumptuous he feels that you can't live without him! You can try to snub him for a while.
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