Why do you live a life of mourning?

There are two kinds of people who feel tired in life: one is that they can only do physical work and can't think before they feel physically tired every day and can't achieve the life they want! The other is people who can only brainstorm and are lazy to give and work hard or people who only fantasize about pie in the sky, such people think a lot of good things but are difficult to achieve because of laziness, so they feel tired!

I used to like a girl, a colleague, and I was a very direct person, and I told her that I liked her and wanted to be in a relationship with her. I never gave it to me, but I invited her to eat and watch a movie. It's been almost a year, and I'm quite confused.

Friends all said that it would be a showdown, and the result was that she said she didn't want to fall in love. It didn't take long for a new group of colleagues to come, twenty or thirty people, and she was with one person. I felt stupid, and I was really sad during that time.

Life is inherently tiring, can it be life if you are not tired? If life is not tired, life will be boring. No matter what generation you are, whether you are poor or rich, you will feel tired of life.

This is my personal experience, from the life of the encounter with a lot of helplessness, hardships and so on. Along the way, looking back on the past, although it was difficult, but the heart is more gratifying. It's really sad to be tired, and there are grievances in laughter.

But it's all gone, and the sky is so clear.

The taste of life is to go back and forth between tiredness and relaxation. Doing something easy and idle is called idleness, and being bored for a long time will give birth to boredom, and when it comes to feelings, it is called loneliness, and there is something to do but fulfilling. Tired body tired and tired and physically and mentally tired are called physical and mental exhaustion, the body is tired and sleeps to recover the physical strength, the heart is tired to open the heart knot is relaxed, and physical and mental exhaustion is the most tired, is the necessity of life, the necessity of life, the necessity of growth, the necessity of maturity, and the certainty of success.

If you don't experience physical and mental exhaustion, you won't cherish the ease of life, and if you cherish the hard-won, you will keep your happiness.

I often tell myself, don't mourn, don't mourn, just like today, the sun is rare and bright, walking on the road, looking at the friends around me, there is an inexplicable feeling of mourning. I think, maybe it's because I repeat the same life every day, the circle of friends is too narrow, and I only socialize with three or two friends around me, and the friendship is not shallow or deep. Sometimes you feel like you're in a whirlpool, desperately trying to struggle but having to be devoured.

Although there are many mourning moments in life, I still hope that everyone can spend every day happily!

Please take a closer look at Bei Xian Chi:

It describes the person as having a negative attitude, depressed mood, and a state of more negative energy, which means "depressed".

Mourning culture refers to the fact that some young people born in the 90s, in real life, have lost their goals and hopes, fallen into decadence and despair, and are unable to extricate themselves, they have lost their minds, are aimless, staggering, have no emotion, no consciousness, no constraints, and can only survive numbly like the walking dead.

Mourning culture is a state that arises when young people re-establish their own "imitation Li Sanguan" (outlook on life, world view, and values). It is one of the inevitable conditions for the improvement of the existing values of the whole society. In addition to the virtual rock Ge You lying, the representatives of the mourning culture also have the Internet celebrity frog pepe, the salted fish with limbs, and the image of imported lazy eggs.

All of them are delivering a self-deprecating message of "I'm already a piece of waste."

Mourning culture refers to a cultural trend formed by some young people who express or show their frustration on the Internet and in life because of unsatisfactory life, study, career, emotion, etc.

"Mourning culture" refers to the language, words or pictures of the youth group with emotions and colors such as decadence, despair, and pessimism, and it is a new form of youth subculture. The emergence and popularity of "mourning culture" represented by "waste wood" and "Ge You lying" is a microcosm of youth subculture in the new era, which reflects the spiritual characteristics and collective anxiety of the current youth, and to a certain extent, is a representation of the social mentality and social psychology of young people in the new era.

1. The society has become more realistic, all revolving around monetary interests, and people's hearts are not as simple and kind as before. Materialization is getting more and more serious, and it's really not okay to have no money, and people are looking at money.

2. What you said about mourning should mean a lack of positive energy, and the whole person's mental state is relatively depressed, lacking, and empty. Emotional emptiness and loneliness, lack of positive energy, being blinded by all kinds of overwhelming entertainment information, all kinds of endless fresh entertainment, blinding the heart, distorting and corrupting the values of correctly distinguishing right from wrong, and adults will do the same, let alone minors.

Third, because people have a deep understanding of reality, they think that there is no point in pursuing their dreams, and they are becoming more and more distrustful of people. He gradually lost the pursuit of ideals in his heart, the loss of faith and will, and was willing to run around for three meals a day in a mediocre life, tired of running for ......Seeing reality too early is also the main reason why people become depressed.

One is character, people with upright and introverted personalities are generally "mourning", which is what people call "strong"; Another situation is that people's lives are stressful, so "mourning" is related to the situation. In short, it's just that the mood is not satisfactory.

Because society is realistic, the gap between the rich and the poor is large, and the relationship between people is profitable, and in many cases, no matter how hard you put in, there is no return.

Because of the high pressure, the pay is not proportional to the gain, the morality is degraded, and good people may not be rewarded.

Life is compelled not to think about the meaning of life, read more books, thinking is too limited.

The pace of life is too fast, and people are under a lot of pressure, so there are all kinds of mourning.

Maybe the people you come into contact with are more mournful, try to improve yourself. Exercise more.

Because life is fast-paced and stressful.

Because of the pressure, I matured early, understood more, and became more uncomfortable.

Moral decay, human nature is distorted.

Because a lot of things are too realistic.

Work and life are too stressful.

Because society is too impetuous, people are smart, and they are realistic.

There are many reasons for being sad, but one thing they all have in common is that they all trigger frustration and make you feel like you're a useless person or can't succeed in anything, no matter how hard you try.

In response to this situation, you must first correct your mentality, don't feel too sorry for yourself, and think about what makes you feel very unfulfilled. Whether it's setting too big goals, or taking success for granted, etc.

It's not a very unusual thing to be very sad, most people have felt this way, but everyone's adjustment method is different, the following is a few for you, I hope it can help you.

1.Writing, buying a copybook, practicing calligraphy at home.

2.Order flowers for yourself Collect flowers once a week Flower arrangement at home every Saturday night (very **).

3.I used to go to werewolf on Saturdays and have fun with a lot of people.

4.Running, yoga, etc. (but I didn't stick to it, so I thought I should pick it up).

5.Accept the feeling of mourning psychologically, but don't indulge yourself and continue to mourn, find a direction, and then work hard with sadness, and live a while.

Because, again, you have a lot of frustration. What you do, others are opposed, and you can't stop scolding, you don't care on the surface, but the tears are about to fall.

The trough is not hopeless, but there is no hope. Self-regulating. Get out and about.

Because you are indeed mourning, who does not have a time of mourning?

In order to depict a strong hope, it is necessary to depict the deep darkness.

It's that you're not satisfied with your current lifestyle, but you're too lazy to change it, or you don't know which direction to start changing.

I don't have a real plan for my future life, and I may have some visions, but because I can't even change the current reality, I am in a state of being in a very casual mess, so I have an unknown fear ......of the future in my heart

The person who says this does not have a detailed plan for his future. There are no prospects for the future in sight. There is not much confidence in the future.

Quite simply, don't work hard.