When did you find out that your parents were more decadent than you thought?

When our family suffered a major change, I found that my parents were depressed and could not be motivated, they were even more decadent than I thought, I thought my parents would be very strong and brave, but I didn't expect their performance to disappoint me.

Last year, my younger brother didn't do well in college, and I found that my parents didn't have any energy, and they were confused every day, and they weren't so motivated to do things.

One time I accompanied my parents to withdraw money, because there were no people at the time, I leaned on the ATM to watch them withdraw money, and then I found that our family bank card can be said to have a very small deposit, and then I thought that they are usually not very frugal, and I feel that they are not the same as I imagined.

Sometimes parents earn money to give their children a better life, but if their children are not angry, parents will be very decadent and have no motivation to earn money again.

Every time I have nothing to do at home and don't go out to look for a job, it's a completely broken jar and broken rhythm, and I always feel that when I grow up, it's time to go out and earn money to support them.

Since my parents failed in business, they have been very decadent, crying and mourning every day, and their mood is also very low, staying at home every day, and they don't know what to do.

When Grandma was sick, and the family couldn't come up with a lot of money at this time, Mom and Dad sighed one after another in front of the ward, and Dad kept walking around.

I don't think parents will have this side, and if they do, it should be at the moment when they feel that they can't help their children, and they don't have a certain amount of help for their children's work and life.

When the family's economy can be taken to the next level, they don't make efforts because they don't believe it, they feel that there is a risk, and they just want to live by holding on to what they already have.

All in all, I think it's because of my parents and my most familiar relatives that I have such a good sense of security. will make yourself more decadent。Parents are the first teachers of children, and children will show that they will not do many things in front of their parents, and because parents dote on their children, they will often come out to help him, which also makes children more and more decadent.

Because when I get to my parents, I become very secure, and the whole person is very relaxed, and after a long time, I look decadent. People who don't have their parents behind them have to work hard.

Because they have lived under the protection of their parents since they were young, once they return to their parents, they are more accustomed to relying on their parents, and they always have their parents come forward to solve things, and over time they become less willing to work hard and become more and more decadent.

Parents have food and drink coaxing, they are lazy a lot, this kind of want to gnaw the old, they don't want to work hard, they can get food and drink anyway, why be bitter.

Because you can be your own little princess by your parents' side, your parents can help you solve a lot of problems, and then you will choose to be lazy and become particularly decadent and lazy!