Is the road of life really that hard?

Oh, yes. Life is never forever smooth sailing, there are thorns and bumps, there are troubles, sorrows, life and death, heartache, unbearable, powerlessness, and regrets. All kinds of unsatisfactory.

But it is precisely because of such imperfections that our lives are more interesting, because the injuries and losses of the past have made us understand the value of life, the meaning of life, and let us learn to cherish and cherish our lives, family, friendship, and love. I understand what should really be pursued, not fame and fortune, not glory and wealth, but gratitude, gratitude for everything. Maybe you are facing some pain now, maybe it is the emotion of life, I don't know, but as long as you believe, believe in yourself, believe in your ability, have ideals, have goals, and look like flowers and brilliance on the difficult road, sometimes you will be very hesitant and doubt the value of your existence, but since the world has you, there is the value of your existence, ups and downs, everything has been experienced, and it is not in vain, isn't it also fun.

The road of life is inherently difficult to walk, and not everyone is born to take Rolls-Royce. 90% of people need to rely on their own struggle and hard work to succeed, the road is uneven, the important thing is to persevere.

Go on with faith.

Lu Xun said: There was no road originally.

When there are more people walking, it becomes a road.

This can also be understood as a dead end that some people say.

In fact, it doesn't have to be a dead end.

It's just that no one has walked through it!

Life is like a play, the difficulty is small, and it is not interesting to play.

It's difficult, and it's not fun to play.

In fact, it's not difficult to walk, it depends on whether you can persevere.

See if you can adjust your mindset.

See if you can look at it from a different perspective.

It's really hard to walk, it's bumpy, and sometimes it's very helpless. But be strong.

People will always sigh at the sky when they are frustrated, but what I want to say is that "a thousand miles of pursuit begins with a single step" There will always be Keke bumps on the road you are pursuing

In life, there is always a road that is particularly difficult to walk.

It's useless to complain, because time won't stand still for you; It's useless to cry, because others can't bear it for you. You can only grit your teeth and move forward, fighting alone all the way, and slowly growing up along the way.

How many people, broken down late at night, smiling during the day. When you are wronged, you curl up in the corner and comfort yourself alone; When I was tired, I hid under the covers, and I don't know how many pillows were wet with tears.

In the adult world, no one is not tired, but is just used to patience. Slowly understand that no matter life or feelings, others are difficult to understand, and they know themselves warmly and coldly.

So you see, the more people who have stories, the more they like to be quiet; The bigger the heart, the more low-key people like to keep a low profile.

Yang Jiang wrote: "Everyone will have an extremely difficult time, the pressure of life, the frustration of work, the pressure of study, the panic of love can not end, and if you survive, life will suddenly open up;

If you can't stand it, time will teach you how to shake hands with them, so don't be afraid. ”

Time will tell what to pick up and what to put down.

So sometimes it is not necessarily a good thing to bow your head, no matter what, you have to pay a little love, and it will not be good for anyone to take 10,000 steps back to quarrel, but you must think about each other, whether it is a husband and wife, family, relatives and friends, or friends must pay a little love.

Feelings need to be run in firewood, rice, oil and salt, and naturally contradictions and conflicts are indispensable.

The one who will give in to the quarrel is not weak, not because he has no self-esteem, but because he knows how to love you better and is more afraid that you will be sad.

In love, you want happiness rather than winning or losing. For the sake of a little contradiction, they fought to the death with each other, and in the end both sides lost. If you win the truth, if you lose the love, it's too worthless.

Some people say that whether a man loves you or not, you will know it after a fight. Some people say that quarrels see character. I want to say that after a quarrel, a man who is willing to give in must love you very much.

A person who truly loves you will make you feel loved even if there are conflicts with you.

May you meet a person as gorgeous as a rainbow who is willing to be patient with you after a quarrel and coax you softly. From then on, the others were just floating clouds.

Because with him, you don't have to envy anyone anymore.

Life is a journey, and everyone is exploring their own path. However, we are often faced with the question: is the path down the road more difficult, or the path in the heart more difficult?

First, let's take a look at the "down path". This road is what we have walked, what we have experienced, and what we have worked hard and sweated for. It can be full of ups and downs and challenges, or it can be full of laughter and tears.

However, this road is something we have actually walked, we can clearly see our footprints, and we can feel every step we have taken. Therefore, although the road we have taken down has its difficulties and challenges, it is also a testimony to our growth and a symbol of our perseverance.

Then, let's take a look at "The Road in My Heart" Gao You. It is a path deep within us, our dreams, our hopes, and our beliefs. The road may be full of unknowns and uncertainties, and it may be full of confusion and doubt.

We may lose our way on this path, we may feel lonely and helpless on this road. However, it is this path that gives us a pursuit, a goal, and a meaning in life. Therefore, although the road in our hearts has its difficulties and challenges, it is also the sustenance of our spirit and the driving force of our life.

So, is it the road that is more difficult to walk down, or the road in the heart that is more difficult? In my opinion, there is no absolute answer to this. Because everyone's life is unique, and everyone's experiences and feelings are different.

Some people may feel that the path down is more difficult because they need to face the pressures and challenges of reality; Some people may feel that the path in their hearts is more difficult, because they need to face the confusion and confusion in their hearts.

In general, whether it is the road down or the road in our hearts, we need to have the courage to face it and have the determination to persevere. Only in this way can we continue to move forward and grow in the journey of life, and finally find our own piece of sky.

It's simply a question of purely personal subjective feelings, asking others if there is something serious about it?

Su Shi said, life is like a reverse journey, and I am also a pedestrian. Congratulations.

In his opinion, life is a difficult journey for him, and you and I are all passers-by in a hurry like him, walking and stopping in different inns, perhaps, life is a life practice for everyone and him.

In Su Shi's life, he wrote about the hardships and open-mindedness that were the most difficult in life.

Someone asks, what is life?

I said that life is practice, suffering is practice, happiness is practice, walking, sitting, lying, sleeping, all are practice.

No matter where you are or what you are doing, you are practicing, and what you practice is a heart.

Some people say, perhaps, the most difficult road in life is the heart road, the most difficult lock in life is the heart lock, the most difficult door to open in life is the heart door, and the saddest hurdle in life is the heart road. The most difficult disease in life to treat is heart disease.

In this life, there will always be many ditches and bumps, and there will be bumps and bumps.

When the mountain road is bent, there is always a time when it is smooth, and when the moon is missing, there is always a time when it is round.

There is spring and summer in the four seasons, and autumn and winter in life.

In this life, the years of growth are the process of cultivating the mind.

Whether it's happy, painful, confused, or lost, it's all about the state of mind.

Only when the mind is calm can we see the world and ourselves clearly.

Listen to the voice of the heart. Only when you learn to listen to the voice of your heart, can you do whatever you want, say whatever you want, and then it will be all exquisite, and then it will be top-notch.

Just listening to the voice of the heart, listening to the voice of your own heart, will make you feel the glitz and precipitation of your heart, and you will be happy if you can unload everything for the rest of your life.

Only after experiencing hardship will you understand that the rest of your life is a vacation.

There used to be a boss who had a big business, but he always did something illegal.

He sells fake cigarettes, fake liquor, tax evasion, and tax evasion.

However, every year, I go to the temple to burn incense and pray for blessings.

Later, he was arrested.

When others interrogated him, he said something like this, I go to worship the Buddha and burn incense every year, but why doesn't the Buddha bless me?

In life, no matter where you are, it is very important to cultivate the mind, and if your heart is deviated, no matter how good you do on the surface, your heart is still flashy and irritable.

Therefore, let yourself have a calm and compact life, and be a person who is in the process of cultivating the mind.

Mind training will bring about a change in your words and heart.

Pay, don't regret, lose, don't regret.

No one's life is perfect;

No one's life can be smooth sailing.

In the real society, the real people's hearts, there are many people who hurt you, and few people who help you;

There are many people who laugh at you, but few people who love you.

There are very few people who understand you and understand you;

There are very few people who tolerate you and help you.

In your life, you have met countless people, met too many people, too many people in front of you, too few people who depend on each other, too few and too few, many people who can accompany you for a while, and few people who can accompany you to the end.

If there are tears, wipe them off by yourself;

If there is suffering, swallow it yourself, don't expect anyone to understand, don't rely on anyone to help.

There is no perfect life, there is no smooth thing, the road, no matter how difficult, you have to walk alone, not that you cry, someone will coax, not that you hurt, someone will hurt.

Tired or not, their feet know;

Whether it hurts or not, your heart is the clearest.

Your grievances, no one wants to listen;

No one cares about your scars, and you don't have to tell anyone about it.

The so-called empathy is just a short-term tenderness.

The comfort of others is only temporary;

Only by figuring it out on your own can you let go.

The road of life, no matter how difficult it is, you have to walk by yourself;

The hardships of life must be borne by oneself.

Only through experience will you become strong;

Only by surviving can you really succeed.