What are the reasons for the homesickness of the puppeteers?

From ancient times to the present, there are many wanderers, which can be seen from many poems in ancient times.

Sometimes, people have to leave their homes in order to earn a living or for other reasons. After being away for a long time, I can't return to my hometown for a long time, I see a certain scene outside, or I miss my relatives in my distant hometown during the holidays.

Home is a kind of fetters that are tired of staying for a long time, parting and reluctant. The wanderer who is far away from home is always concerned about ...... heart

Because hometown is a seedWhen you were young, it was quietly planted in your heart, at this time, you are not aware of it, and when she takes root, you will find that she has been entangled with you, and she will release some kind of signal, so that you can deepen your thoughts and yearning for her from time to time.

As the saying goes, think of your relatives every festive seasonWhen it's time for the holidays, do you experience the feeling of a strong desire to come home when you're away from home, and this feeling grows little by little as you get older, until it swallows you up?

Homesickness is a complex, but also a kind of nostalgia。No reason, no reason, in a moment, a picture, a sentence of country voice is ignited.

No matter where you are, how far or how long you goHome is the only place where you can have peace of mind.

Home is a warm harbor where you can rest when you are tired; Home is a ray of sunshine that gives warmth when it is cold; Home is still a ship that shelters us from the wind and rain, gives us hope, and guides us forward, so that we will not lose our way in the dark night. Perhaps it is the experience of tradition and history from ancient times to the present that makes us miss our hometown and home.

In traditional Chinese culture, leaving home is a "wanderer", and leaving home has an extra kind of concern and lacks the foundation of life. Wandering thoughts of returning, falling leaves returning to their roots, and returning to their hometowns are always the deepest, richest, and most persistent psychological complexes in the bones of Chinese. No matter how far we go, home will always be the bright moon in our hearts.

The reason is that there are many unpleasant things about going out to work.

The reason for the homesickness of the puppet is that we are all puppets.

What does a puppet mean? Do you miss your relatives during the festive season?

I don't know, I don't know much about this.

People miss someone.

Place, something, a certain period of time or a certain person, often because, those things have brought him happiness and good feelings, or this person was in a good state at the time, there is a good saying - "nostalgia for the past is not because that era was good, but because you were young at that time", this sentence shows that the reason why the person is nostalgic for the past is because he was in a better psychological state at that time, for example, he did not have so much pressure and worries at that time, and he could do everything according to his heart.

Some people are not particularly nostalgic for the past, which means that they are living better now than before, on the contrary, some people are very nostalgic for the past, which means that these people may not be very happy now, or although they are good now, they are not as good as in the past, or they lack something that can bring them good feelings in the past.

The homesickness complex is very easy to explain, I also said above, at that time you were still a child, carefree, and now that you have grown up, stress and concerns follow, you are not as free as before, more importantly, your parents are not around, childhood playmates are no longer innocent, people are natural people, a natural person transitioning to a society is bound to be painful, except for some people, their childhood is not so happy, even dark and cold, Parents did not provide them with a free and happy environment to grow up, but they were in their prime, and these people would certainly not be homesick.

First of all, I'm not a mental expert, I just share my own views on problems. Homesickness has both physical and spiritual dimensions. In reality, there may indeed be fear and discomfort with the existing environment, as you say.

It's an instinctive avoidance. In addition, the feeling of returning to the roots of fallen leaves has existed since ancient times, and homesickness has become a spiritual return. That is to say, life has reached a certain level, and suddenly I don't know where I am, I can't find a place to stay, and I have no foundation, so it's like going back to the past, back to the beginning of the Yuan.

It's like stacking a house, stacking it too high, and one day it will return to the earth.

That's a good question, it can be used as a subject study. Ha ha. It would be a pity that the questioner did not study psychology.

It makes sense for you to explain homesickness in terms of instinct, maladaptation to a new environment, fear, and so on. I don't have any new ideas, I just want to ask some more questions. First, in fact, many people who adapt well to the new environment will also miss their hometown; Second, even if the new environment is better than the material conditions of their hometown, they will still feel homesick.

How to explain these imaginations? But suddenly thinking about it, this seems to be explained from instinct, just like the attachment relationship between a mother and a child, no matter how far away the child is, he will still miss his mother.

Hehe, you raised a good question, and I'd love to see some good points as well.

According to a survey in the American "Psychological Science", homesickness can reduce loneliness, make people get social support, and is studying homesickness** to alleviate people's anxiety We all encounter difficulties that we think cannot be solved before we fall into homesickness, in order to escape from various problems in reality, it may be in the face of interpersonal relationships that have not been handled well in college, missing the scene of mutual support and encouragement from friends who used to get along day and night in high school; Or maybe it's an unsatisfactory thing to deal with by yourself, remembering your own glory and outstanding ability in the past, or a meal that is not so delicious, and recalling the aroma wafting from the kitchen at home far away.

Nostalgia is the "stamps", "ship tickets", "graves", "straits" in the afterglow, or "I used to go back in the past, and the willows are still there" in the "Book of Songs"; Now I come to think, the rain and snow are falling", all of which record the poet's homesickness.

Everyone has a sense of homesickness, and I'm no exception.

Every time I go home, I have to eat a bowl of fragrant dumplings, as if this bowl of dumplings can replace all my homesickness.

After getting off the train, the exit was still bustling, there were small three-wheeled coaches, free buses, and some people shouted in a thick voice: "Huashan, Huashan, ten, ten." "Squeezing through the crowd and walking alone on the 100-meter avenue, the Qinling Mountains shrouded in clouds and mist loomed, I couldn't help but pick up my mobile phone and take a picture.

I suddenly remembered that a friend once said that the clouds and mist we saw on the road made us feel particularly beautiful, but when we climbed Mount Hua, those clouds and mist were much more beautiful than this, which made people feel like they were driving the clouds and fog, and they wanted to jump off the mountain ......I laugh at the thought of this.

Walked less than ten minutes away, the street side of the store has a family of Lao Tong Guan meat sandwich buns, the mouth can't help but be greedy, into the store there is a striking word, this is undoubtedly the best description of Lao Tongguan meat sandwich buns: "thin and crispy skin, slag hot mouth, fat but not greasy, thin but not firewood." After talking and laughing with the boss, he came to the dumpling shop, and the boss beckoned him to sit down and asked, "Big bowl and small bowl?"

How much spicy is it? "Small bowls, spicy general, more kimchi. The short conversation will reveal the straightforwardness of the Shaanxi people, the boss served the old bowl of dumplings, that layer of oil and spicy seeds made me salivate, the meat sandwich bun with the dumpling is a perfect match for me, a mouthful of meat sandwich bun and a mouthful of dumplings, although the oil and spicy seeds are all over the mouth, it is also happy.

Drink soup? Let Auntie bring you a bowl of soup. The boss smiled and said to me, this is a Shaanxi woman's loud voice, but she feels very kind, "No, thank you, aunt."

I handed the boss five dollars, wiped my mouth and walked in the direction of home.

For me, dumplings are not only a delicacy, but also a complex that I can't let go. Although it has risen from one dollar a bowl when I was a child to five dollars a bowl now, the mellow taste still retains the taste of my childhood, and no matter where I am, I want to eat a bowl beautifully.

I am often blamed for not coming home early every time I love to wander the streets, but I don't know that my homesickness is also related to a bowl of dumplings and a meat sandwich bun.