My girlfriend said that she was tired from arguing every day and didn t want to fall in love, what s

Updated on psychology 2024-04-17
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, when the woman is soft-hearted, you have been with him for so long, it is impossible to break up and throw away all the memories These words are deceitful You can quarrel for 1 Don't call him for two days You have to send a text message from time to time On the third day, find an excuse to call him ** and then chat slowly Remember In these days, you have to keep an eye on his QQ mood or his words and deeds So that you can prescribe the right medicine Fate is 3 copies and 7 copies will rely on yourself to work hard.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you really love her, use your actions, your sincerity to wake her up, as long as he loves you, he will definitely turn back. As for quarrels, the following can be avoided later. The so-called "no talking, no laughing, no fun".

    Don't be so noisy. Otherwise, even the best relationship will break down.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't fall in love, then get married.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If your girlfriend says she doesn't want to be in a relationship or doesn't want to complicate the relationship too much, it could be because she is feeling stressed or anxious, or she needs more time and space to think about her relationship needs and goals. In this case, you can respect her decisions and feelings, and don't insist on or pester. At the same time, it is also important to communicate openly with her and understand her thoughts and feelings in order to better understand each other.

    You can ask her if she has any special needs or requirements to better support her and try to find solutions to better maintain the relationship. The most important thing is to be understanding and supportive of her feelings and situation, and not to let her emotional needs or expectations affect her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you care about her, it is recommended that you cherish her more and care more about her, according to your description, she is really a very good person, and she can live happily and sweetly for a lifetime.

    Judging from her attitude, she still has deep feelings for you, and she is reluctant to let go like this, I think there is a lack of feelings and warmth between you, probably caused by poor communication, of course, you can't blame yourself or her, after getting along for a long time, you often forget how much you put each other in your heart, and your attitude is also casual, which is easy to contradict, especially when you encounter something unpleasant.

    Probably you haven't been expressing your feelings for a while, just because the Chinese Valentine's Day is coming soon, you can have a reason to repair your feelings, of course, you don't have to send anything valuable, just make a porridge, add red beans, longan, lotus seeds and other materials, and then give it to her early the next morning (just for example, this also requires you to be not too far apart). Or take half a day off, go to her in the afternoon, and wait for her to do something together after work that can relive the old dream. I think with your description of your girlfriend's temperament, she will definitely be moved, anyway, how to arrange yourself at will, but be polite, gentle, nothing can talk about the old happy things, it depends on your play.

    If the cost is not very large, it is recommended to go to it, a lot of text messages, ** things that are not clear in the meeting will be much better, the camera moves, if she is still cold, you don't dwell on anything, do your heart, point to the end, leave in time, she will naturally know that it is not easy for you to come to a trip.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Discover your shortcomings, recognize your mistakes and apologize!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The time is almost the same brother, it's been 5 years, and I can still do this to you, each of you will make up 4 and 5! Got things done.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your question is not easy to say, long-distance relationship is really hard, brother, I have also experienced long-distance relationship, I love her very much, but I have never been able to enter her heart, so after talking for a year, she sent me away with a text message, break up, pain is inevitable, if you can't keep it, break it, as long as you do it affectionately and righteously, do your duty, one day she will know what she should cherish.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hehe, I've also encountered it, you said you love her, that's right, but remember, love is for 2 people to work together, since she has said that she broke up, it means that she doesn't love you anymore, it's good to get together and disperse, don't go to her again, it's over, get out early, long pain is better than short pain. Come on.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Damn, I don't know. Such a complex issue!! Is it really complicated?

    Yu Minhong said: "Everything is complicated by yourself, but in fact, if you do it, you will find: it is so simple?

    Hehe, go straight to her and tell all your true thoughts!! She's going to break up? So buddy, she really doesn't like you anymore, men sometimes have to bear sadness!!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you don't look for him for at least two months, I guess you won't be able to find the north if someone like you coaxes you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Buy a little gift (the loving kind) and go to her and tell her that you miss her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Coax her! Coax a few more days, if it doesn't work, forget it! If she still does this, it proves that she doesn't love you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's similar to what I used to be! At that time, I always thought that my girlfriend and I were on good terms, and we were planning for the future together. But one time I had a fight with my girlfriend, and the argument was so bad that she stopped paying attention to me.

    I coaxed her and she didn't reconcile, and listening to her tone, she was very determined to break up. I think it's just a small thing, why is it like this? I've been trying to make it back, but nothing has improved.

    After a few days of stalemate, it was finally separated.

    It seems that they quarreled and broke up because of a trivial matter, but in fact, it was just a fuse, and there may have been a big contradiction or loophole all along, and the crisis has existed for a long time. Even if you don't have this birthday fight, there will still be a lot of inadvertent little things that will make you quarrel in the future.

    Don't be too good to a person in the future, you can't be good without a bottom line, you will spoil her, and it's not good for you or her.

    So I'll tell you from the experience of those who have come before, let's divide it!

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