What do guys who don t cherish being together, and then turn back to show you favor after separation

I want to say, in fact, such a boy is also quite cheap, he doesn't cherish himself when he is together, but after separation, he looks back and wants to show favor to himself, maybe it's a little inappropriate to say this, but a good horse doesn't eat back grass, how can she say that, this kind of boy is really shameless.

In fact, if this situation occurs in a boy, I think there will probably be two ideas. The first is that when he falls in love with you, he is sure of you and thinks that you will not leave him, so it is not good to cherish you, and the second situation is that he wants to find a better one, but he didn't find it after separation, and he feels that he is not as good as you, so he finds you again. No matter what the situation is, it's very excessive to do that, and it's a disservice to the girls, and I hope they don't do it again.

If it's the first case, when you're in love, he thinks he has a lot of influence on yourself, thinks that you can't do without him, and you won't break up with him, so he has an unscrupulous mood, so he won't cherish you well when he's together, and you won't leave anyway, that's probably the idea. But when you actually leave him, he is a little flustered again, so he has to be with you again when he is separated, when he wants you to turn back, he wants to be with you again.

The second situation is that after you break up, he doesn't find a more suitable person to be his girlfriend than you, thinks you are better, says that he wants to come back, and wants you to throw yourself into his arms. If that's really the case, our boy is very excessive, don't promise him at this time, it's just a scumbag.

There is a similar one around me, there is a boy who has been with his girlfriend for four years, and then they have reached the point of talking about marriage, but the two of them have not talked about marriage because of the bride price, so they have been dragging on not getting married, and at that time, the two of them still maintained a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

Life passed like this without pain, very plain, and there were no waves, until later there was a girl who liked this boy, and the boy also liked that girl very much, and this girl was very young and beautiful, so this boy gave up his original girlfriend and went to pursue the better-looking girl.

He thought that he would definitely be able to marry this girl, as long as he put in all his efforts and be good to her. But I didn't expect that this girl didn't want to marry him, it was just a simple relationship that she liked, and in the end she abandoned him, and the boy was very disappointed.

At this time, he felt that all people were the same, and the relationship needed to be managed, and the original girl was really good to her, willing to marry him, and took care of him meticulously. <>

So he turned around and was kind to his original girlfriend again, and spent a lot of effort hoping to get his girlfriend's heart back.

Maybe people always find the preciousness of the people around them after experiencing some things, and in the daily ordinary life, they do not feel the preciousness of this ordinary true feelings.

After experiencing some things, I will come back to show you goodwill, but I will understand your value more and cherish you more in the future.

The boy I was talking about was reluctant to give a bride price of 100,000 yuan before, but after experiencing this incident, he felt that the bride price was not a problem, and only then did he understand the value of his girlfriend who got along with him day and night.

After falling out of love, in fact, many people's first reaction is to want to get back together with each other as soon as possible, but some people don't actually love each other, but have other reasons. For example, if you are not used to it psychologically, you will analyze the feelings in your heart and analyze with you what the reason is why you want to get back together after a breakup.

1. Emotional dependence. Still others are actually used to being dependent on each other. When you are together, the other person may take care of you and may help you prepare a strategy for the big trip, which will be a great inconvenience if you have to do a lot of things by yourself now.

Most of the time they are familiar with each other, and there is a shadow of each other in every corner of life. 2. Unwillingness. When some people redeem it, it's not out of the psychology of "I still love him", but they just can't stand it, how can he get rid of such a thing as me.

If I want to break up, I think I should mention it first. Why is he qualified to propose a breakup first, saying that he doesn't want me. They will be unwilling to salvage the relationship.

What they are trying to save is not wanting to stay with this person, but hoping to have an advantage in the relationship between the two in the next few hours.

3. There are many people who are not familiar with it and go to redeem it. Being with someone all the time can become a habit. Even if this person is poisonous, they don't find out because they have been together all the time, so they are used to it.

At the moment of the breakup, they panic that they will have to live alone for a while in the future and begin to redeem themselves. For such friends, as long as they divert their attention appropriately, they will find that their own life can actually be very good, and they will meet other better people in the future. 4. I couldn't find a better one.

Sometimes the recovery is not just after the breakup, but long after the breakup. Men and women often break up. They looked nasty for half a year.

No matter how much a woman asks, she doesn't want to get back together. But after half a year and two years, they realized that they couldn't find a good woman and began to look for their ex, hoping to get back together with their ex.

Whether the reunited relationship can last for a long time after a breakup and the stability mainly depends on the investment and management of the relationship by both parties. After getting back together, if both parties can increase their input, such as spending more time together, using some emotional business strategies, being honest with each other in the relationship, sharing responsibilities, etc., satisfaction with the relationship will increase. On the contrary, if both parties are still reluctant to commit after getting back together, or regard the "reunited" relationship as their "spare tire" and constantly try to socialize with others, both parties may be disappointed or dissatisfied, and eventually the relationship will break down completely.

In other words, there is no absolute certainty whether it can be reunited, and ultimately it is up to the people themselves. There are no feelings that are not well managed, only people who are not well managed.

You don't care what kind of psychology he is. If you really want to break up, then you will be two separate individuals in the future. Do you call it valuable? If you don't want to break up with him, then you have to move to such a person. Do you know that his heart will accommodate his ......?

What you really need to think about is what you are going to do in the future.

Ignore these people, they don't care about you.

In fact, it is also eventful, don't get back together if you are separated.

I think women should be kind to themselves, don't die for a man, don't hang themselves from a tree, men have it, don't think about getting back together with him, there will be better ones in the future.

1. Directly block after breaking up, which is probably not very possible. 2. Saying that he already has a girlfriend is either perfunctory to you, or seamless. 3. Love becomes friendship.

After the breakup, if the man still behaves before, there is no need to get back together. Because even if they are compounded, the problems of the past will still exist.

This is indeed the case, because even if you wait any longer, you will not have a good result, but you will fall into a more painful state.

A man who is dead set on you will no longer pay attention to your situation and will not want to talk to you. If he doesn't pay attention to your daily routine and doesn't contact you anymore, then you don't have to wait any longer.

After the breakup, he has these three manifestations of you, and you must not get back together, otherwise it will be too late to regret it.