When did you find out that your parents were old?

Birth, old age, sickness and death are natural laws of development, and we can't change anything, in fact, in the eyes of our parents, we have always been children, and I thought so before. I feel like my parents have always been young. I don't feel like they're getting old.

But we have to accept the fact that we're growing up. Our parents are getting older.

First of all, let's talk about my father, my father is the pillar of the family, everything in the family is managed by him, our family is farming, farming must work often, I still remember when I was a child to help my father go to the field to raise fertilizer, I can only take half a bag, and my father does not need me to help him to carry a whole bag and resist ten times without resting. But when I went back to help my father this summer, I found that my father could no longer carry it, and now I had to hire someone else to help, and I could carry a big bag. My father could only take a hand or direct from the side.

Sometimes I do some work, and when I get home, I have to take a break to recover. I found out at this time that my father was old. I've grown up.

I found out that my mother is getting older, I found that my mother is not willing to wear those bright clothes before, and now her legs and feet have become inconvenient, my mother's wardrobe used to have a lot of beautiful and bright clothes, and now I find that my mother wears most of the clothes in cold colors, I bought her a gaudy dress at that time, she said how old am I can I still wear this dress, let me go to change the color. And my mother's legs and feet have become inconvenient now. After sitting for a long time, my legs became numb.

Mother is really getting old, too.

In fact, I used to be a very careless daughter, and finding out that my father was old was also an unintentional sentence from my mother, which reminded me to pay attention to their age.

That summer, I met a teacher, who was about the same age as my dad, and his hair was gray, but when I thought about my dad's black hair, I felt that they would not be so old at this age, so I went home and complained to my mother about our teacher, so young and all white, I really don't know what I went through, but I didn't expect my mother to say: Your dad's hair is also a lot grayer, and he usually relies on dyeing, do you think your dad has no gray hair at 20! Speaking of which, you may not believe it, I still don't believe what I said, I came back stunned to see my dad's roots, but there are only a few, or not credible!

I know that once, I went to cut my hair with my dad, and after cutting it, the white hair under him was all exposed, and the whole looked like a gray old man, my God, I was stunned, and then I gradually realized that my father was old, and I don't know why I saw my dad's hair that day, and tears came out in an instant, and I felt that time was terrible!

Later, I often go to observe my dad, he is still the same Lotte, the same good to me, but there are more and more gray hairs, the figure is not as tall as before, sometimes the temper is still the same childish, and even sometimes I think he is funny, and my grandfather is together to discuss some super funny questions, just like a big old man and a little old man chatting, once they were actually arguing about which day the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl met and which day separated, and the quarrel was in full swing, When my brother and I came out, we found that he was discussing this issue, and I was both drunk, and I was almost laughing crazy!

I really want time to slow down a little more, and I don't want my burly father to grow old!

When I became a parent myself, I really felt that my parents were getting old. Also, when I see more and more gray hairs on my parents' heads, I can feel that my parents are getting older.

When I went home for the Chinese New Year, my parents stood at the exit of the station and looked forward to seeing me in front of their eyes! When I saw you, the smile on my face and the wrinkles at the corners of my eyes that I hadn't seen for many years, and then I realized that my parents were old!

From the time I stood next to my father and found myself as tall as my father, I felt that my parents were old.

When I was a child, my father was my god, at that time, I felt that my father's shoulders were particularly broad, and I felt that my father's height was particularly tall, and his father was about 1.75 meters when he was young, and he kept doing rough work and hard work from a young age, so how to say it, the hall may be because of these heavy work, he slowly became shorter.

Maybe my father is old, maybe my height will shrink when I get old, but it won't lose so much, and then because it's summer, sometimes my father will eat hot and bare after returning from work, at this time I saw the callus on my father's shoulder peeling, a big piece of skin, I asked him if it hurts, he said he doesn't feel it, because it often peels.

At that time, I realized that my father was old, because his fingers could not be straightened because of years of hard work, he walked bent over, and his hair changed from the original jet black to gradually gray gray, but I had never looked at it carefully, and I never thought that he would grow old.

At that time, I looked at my father's back and felt that they were old and it was time for us to repay them, so I worked hard at that time to give my brother some living expenses every month, just so that my father could have less pressure and so that he could not do so much heavy work.

Sometimes the aging of parents is slow, and sometimes it may really be old overnight, so when you have time, you can really go home to spend time with your parents.

When I came home from college vacation, my father carried my luggage, and when he bent down, he found that his temples were gray, and it turned out that he was already old.

When I saw that my parents had gray hair, they were sleepy.

I myself have always been a heartless character, whether it is to go to the field to study or to work in the field, I feel that it is a rare experience in my life.

When I returned to my hometown after my job was stable, I was able to see my parents every day, but at one point I suddenly saw that my parents already had a lot of gray hairs on their heads.

At that moment, I really had mixed feelings, and the impression of my parents' ruler bridge in my heart instantly collapsed, and it became a different picture.

In my memory, my mother has always been a very hard-working woman, not only cooking and shopping every day, but also taking care of all kinds of housework, and my father has also dedicated all his abilities to the family, always working outside the home, in order to bring about the improvement of the family's economic situation.

The image of these two people has always been full of vitality in my heart, and the word aging seems to have nothing to do with my parents at all, but when they reach this age, although it is inevitable that they will always be there.

We should communicate and contact with our parents more in a limited number of days, and we must not know regret when our children want to support but our parents are not there.

When did you start to find out that Mom and Dad were old?

Probably. It's from before I waited for them to get off work.

It became when they waited for me to get off work.

Wear short sleeves from the previous dog days.

When it became a long coat and trousers.

It was when I accidentally caught a glimpse.

When they have age spots on their faces.

It was when I taught them new features of the phone.

When I finished teaching in the morning and forgot about it in the afternoon.

It was when I had a disagreement with them.

They don't keep looking at me and arguing with me again.

but when you listen to me.