I don t want to talk to my boyfriend when I m sad, I m afraid of exposing my vulnerability in front

Generally, when a girl is sad, she always thinks of her boyfriend for the first time, and she wants to be coquettish with her boyfriend, and by the way, she asks for comfort, and regards her boyfriend as her inner support. I want to share everything with my boyfriend, whether I am happy or sad, I want to tell my boyfriend, maybe this is the meaning of love, we have each other in our hearts, and we don't dislike each other, and we are not afraid of gaffes when we are sad, because we are the truest selves in front of them, and we are not afraid that he will say that we are fragile, nor afraid that he will say that we are too hypocritical, because since we are all together, we must not care about each other's weaknesses.

I don't know why you are afraid to expose your vulnerability in front of your boyfriend, maybe you care too much about your boyfriend, you just want to show your boyfriend the most perfect side of yourself, your sadness in your heart, you are afraid that your sadness will be contagious to your boyfriend, and he will not be happy then. In fact, you just think too much, if you are sad and sad and you don't want your boyfriend to accompany you, then what else do you need your boyfriend to do, just want to watch your boyfriend be happy every day? You don't really rely on your boyfriend in your heart, you are too unconfident in yourself, and you are afraid that exposing your vulnerability will make your boyfriend look down on you.

I always have something to say in front of my boyfriend, happy is happy, sad I occasionally look to him to cry, I'm not afraid of what he says about me, of course he never said anything, I think this may be the real mutual support, in love and in the future, we need to understand each other, take care of each other, and tolerate each other, so that we can go on forever.

Every girl wants to look good in front of her boyfriend. I hope that I will always be like a beautiful little fairy in front of my boyfriend, dignified and elegant lady.

Maybe you just want to be strong in front of your boyfriend, you don't want him to see you vulnerable, and you want your boyfriend to always be a strong girl in his eyes. Maybe you don't want him to feel sorry for you, you don't want him to worry about you, you don't want him to worry about you, you don't want him to worry about you. It doesn't matter what you think, the result is the same.

You don't want to show your boyfriend that year when you weren't strong.

It's the same with some guys, they have things, they get into trouble, they have tough problems, and they don't want their girlfriends to know about it. Their starting point is the same as the girl's thoughts, that is, they don't want to expose their vulnerability in front of each other, and they don't want the other party to worry about themselves. Maybe both boys and girls think the same thing.

So the way to express it is the same, it's all hiding from your boyfriend and girlfriend.

But in the end, you will still know, maybe you haven't solved the problem, and they found out, maybe you solved it, and they found out afterwards. Take my own boyfriend, for example, last semester he and his group of friends played a game of big and small bets, of course, for money. In the beginning, there was no big mess, sometimes he won some money and sometimes lost a little, but the amount was not large.

I also told him and reminded him that he always laughed and laughed with me, saying that it was okay, he would take care of the proportions himself.

Who knows, there was a problem at the end of the last semester, and once I was lucky, I won more than 10,000 at one time, and then I also lost it. He had no choice but to go to the platform and borrow a few thousand yuan to make up for it. Later, when the platform urged him to pay back the money, he confessed to me.

I was very angry and anxious for him. I've told him before that it's not a good thing to be involved with gambling. He always didn't believe it, but now that something happened, he knew that he regretted it.

Later, after a long time, he didn't dare to tell his family at first, and finally he was forced to confess to his family. His family helped him fill the gap.

In short, he doesn't want to expose his vulnerability and invulnerability in front of me, he hopes that in front of me, he will always be so good that nothing will happen. It's just what he thinks, I don't think so.

Because you're too independent, you don't want people to see your independent side, so you'd rather be a little wronged by yourself, and you don't want others to know how hard you are in the process, people always say that girls are too independent if no one likes them, so ah, some things really don't have to be carried by yourself, otherwise what is your boyfriend here for, should it be ornamented, if you really want to do this, it's better not to talk about it, don't you say?

If you feel that the result of saying it is the same as not saying it, then don't be afraid, what's wrong with exposing vulnerability, we girls are delicate flowers, they are used for care, he can tolerate you in front of your boyfriend, maybe each of us stands from a different angle, and the way of looking at things is not the same, but in this matter I don't think it really has to be like this, if you really don't say anything to your boyfriend, he will think that you don't trust him enough, So I'd rather endure everything by myself than express my feelings by talking to him.

If you really want to do this, how tired you are, if you don't say one and don't understand, there will really be more and more contradictions, so no matter what you encounter, you have to tell your boyfriend what you can't solve or you can't understand, because you have decided to be together, and the days will be very long, and there will be more and more things encountered, and he will also shelter you from the wind and rain in the future!

You have to know that no matter what you encounter, you have to learn to tell, let others understand your own thoughts, you can't always support yourself, people have shortcomings, not everyone is perfect, but because you expose your vulnerability in front of your boyfriend, he will feel that he still has a sense of worth.

It shows that you are a kind and strong person who doesn't want your boyfriend to know your fragility and don't want your boyfriend to worry about his own affairs. In fact, you have to correct your thinking, because lovers are meant to share happiness and hardship.

Because I want to pretend to be a stronger person in front of my boyfriend, I don't want to show my most vulnerable side to others.

This shows that you are a person with strong self-esteem and self-improvement, in fact, you don't have to hide it like this, as long as your boyfriend likes you, then he will not look down on you, and he will encourage you.

I feel that you haven't faced your boyfriend sincerely, and you should still have some scruples in your heart, so you don't dare to be honest.

Cherish it.

Feelings need to be created by two people.

Giving is the true meaning of feelings.

Whatever the reason.

Don't miss out.

All kinds of regrets.

Waiting for a high score bounty, no one can still giggle when they are in a bad mood, it is better to be silent than to quarrel. I'm afraid that your boyfriend will misunderstand you, in fact, you cherish your boyfriend very much, at least you are a girl with a good temper, and your boyfriend will feel it when the days go by, don't worry. If you are really unhappy, it is caused by special things, so you can say it and solve it together, there is a famous saying that when happiness is shared, happiness will be doubled.

If difficulties and unhappiness are shared, the unhappiness will be halved, at least without one person being distressed. If you're stressed, go to the movies once in a while, and you'll feel much better.

If you don't want to talk about it, just stay quiet, empty yourself, and when your boyfriend talks to you, you say that you have something to do, or that you are busy with work. That way he thinks you're busy, not that he doesn't want to pay attention to him.

Tell him that he has a headache and needs a quiet rest. Tell him not to worry, get a good night's sleep and be fine every day.

There are many people who hide their unhappiness in their psychology, and they don't necessarily have to show it, you can hide it in front of your boyfriend, and you are sad when no one is around.

Would it be nice if you didn't say it? If you won't be affected, then you don't have to say it, if it affects your life, you should say it, don't hold it back

Then just tell him, you don't want to talk to anyone, and you're sad. Then look at him on the shoulder or hold him, then he will only feel sorry for you, and he will not feel that you hate him.

This person is so cute, and I am afraid that he will think that he doesn't like him, so adjust his psychology so that he will not be misunderstood.

Then you tell him. I'm not happy.

Then you just say that when you are in a bad mood, you want to be alone, but it doesn't prove that you don't like him or don't love him, so that he understands.

It seems that you're feeling down, your boyfriend doesn't know what to do, and you're refusing to confide in him, with all due respect, you're only going to drive a gap between you.

Then don't take the initiative to look for him, wait for him to find you, just be quiet for a while, if he looks for you and your attitude is as usual.

Your happiness and unhappiness directly affect him, let him accept it with you, so that you will be in a better mood.

I can be the object of your confiding.

You can say it to an empty place.

It would be better to do what you are happy about.

It seems that you still love him a lot, and with such a beloved person to accompany you, what are you not satisfied with.

You should communicate with your boyfriend.

Tell her to look at your face and act

Do you like him, are you a goddess?

Men and women in love don't have high IQs Wash your face with tears every day I dare say that you are strong on the outside After all, you are still with a fragile little woman Not in the same boat Why bind each other.

Why can't you talk to him if you're unhappy?

If you're not happy, you have to tell him! He is your boyfriend, so he has the right to know that you are unhappy and happy. If you don't tell him, he will think that you don't treat him as a boyfriend, and of course he will be sad.

It's just that I'm used to enduring it alone.

You don't have to say it, just talk to him, as long as he's by your side.

Men love face, give him enough face in front of outsiders, and in private he will be more obedient to you.

Normal, if you want to save face, just give him some face.

You can have face in front of his friends.

Be brave, it seems that you can't express your demands in love, girl, you can't take off your pretense and be yourself in front of your own boyfriend, won't it be very tiring?

Standing in your boyfriend's shoes, if you have difficulties, but don't turn to him, are you going to turn to outsiders to give others a chance? You know, it is a great sense of accomplishment for a man to be able to help his woman solve troubles, don't you want him to have these fulfillments?

Coquettishness is a woman's prerogative, I'm afraid no man will not like to see his woman coquettish himself, you don't coquettish him, not only waste his privilege, but also make him less fun to be a man, and make himself very entangled, why bother.

You can't laugh freely in front of him, scold, scold and cry sadly, you are so "reserved", so pretending to be "mature and strong", and you are reluctant to trouble him when you are in difficulty, are you scrupling about something?

Are you afraid that he will not like you who will be fragile and who needs to rely on him? Are you afraid that he will leave you after revealing your true self?

You know, your boyfriend has the obligation to accept your joys, sorrows, and even vexatiousness, and has the obligation to try his best to solve any of your needs, if he can't do this, he is not competent at all, there are so many men in the world, why not find a man who really likes you and is willing to give everything for you?

Also, will you always be used to being a strong woman, so you don't want to trouble others and resist everything, if so, you have to reflect, you can live a good life yourself, what is the purpose of finding a boyfriend?

Isn't it to find someone to rely on, to find someone who can spoil yourself and coax yourself, why can't you give yourself completely to him, are you afraid of disappointment and injury, if that means that you have found the wrong person, if you can't change it, why bother yourself.

Men don't like insincere women, the subject might as well let go and be true to himself, so that he will not be so tired of living, and he can find the other half that best matches him. Being true to yourself is the source of happiness.

You can act frustrated, get your boyfriend's attention, and then he will come over and ask you what the hell is going on.

When you're unhappy, tell your boyfriend about the confusion in your heart and ask him to think about it with you.

If you're not happy, just tell your boyfriend, don't hold it in your heart, you can talk to him when you're eating.

Just tell my boyfriend directly that I'm unhappy and what the reason for my unhappiness is, and at the same time talk in a coquettish tone.

You can take the initiative to express your feelings, don't hold your dissatisfaction in your heart, and vent it appropriately.

When you are unhappy, you should say to your boyfriend, "What should I do if I'm a little sad and sad these days?" ”

Take the initiative to tell him, let him comfort you, don't ignore him at every turn, cold and violent him, and not good for feelings.

Tell him directly, and let him accompany you to the movies, or go on a trip to relax.

I usually don't talk at that time, and then my boyfriend finds out and he'll come over and ask me what's wrong.

If he loves you, it's annoying. He's a man, so of course you have to talk to him if you have something sad.