What is the psychology of college students in love?

1. The criteria for choosing a mate are unrealistic, the choice of objects is idealistic, and the vanity is strong.

2. Unrequited love and the illusion of love.

Unrequited love refers to the one-sided "love" in which one partner in a heterosexual relationship falls in love with the other but does not receive anything in return from the other person.

The illusion of love refers to the fact that in a relationship between people of the opposite sex, one party mistakenly believes that the other party is "interested" with him, or mistakes the normal interaction and friendship between the two parties for the coming of love.

The illusion of love is another form of unrequited love, which often makes the person concerned want to be emotional and self-inflicted.

Unrequited love and the illusion of love are both cognitive and emotional mistakes in the psychology of love. Unrequited love leaves some students in a painful situation, in emptiness, trouble, and even despair. Poor handling will have a negative impact on future love and married life, so college students who fall into unrequited love should stop as soon as possible and make another choice.

If you want to overcome unrequited love and the illusion of love, it is important to correctly understand the profound meaning of love, and at the same time use reason to control emotions, respect the other person's choice, and not be emotional.

3. Falling out of love. A broken relationship is an interruption in the process of falling in love. The sadness, pain, despair, melancholy, anxiety, nothingness and other emotions brought about by the loss of love hurt the person concerned.

It is one of the most serious psychological setbacks in life. If the negative emotions caused by a broken love are not resolved in time, it can lead to physical and mental suffering.

4. Improper motives for love.

Some college students' motivation for falling in love is not out of love itself, but to make up for the emptiness in their hearts, loneliness or to follow the herd mentality. Such students seldom consider love behavior and marriage when choosing a mate, and lack a sense of responsibility. There are also a very small number of students who, in order to show their charm, socialize with several classmates of the opposite sex at the same time, engage in polyamorous relationships, and are not even sure of their relationship with anyone.

Unethical polyamorous relationships are prone to strife, misfortune and disaster, as well as conflicts, tragedy, and ultimately negative consequences for all involved.

5. Emotional entanglements in love.

Love triangles, parental opposition, or criticism from those around you, conflicts, misunderstandings, and suspicions between lovers.

According to the current love status of college students, it can be roughly divided into the following types:

1. I am an adult, away from the control of my parents, and now I want to get back all that I lacked in high school, and the easiest and most fashionable way is to find a boyfriend (girl).

2. Falling in love is a compulsory course in college, so you must try it anyway.

3. Boys want to find a beautiful girl to have a long face, and girls want to find a free meal ticket.

4. I heard the advice of the seniors that it is necessary to fall in love early, or it is not too late, or the love after graduation is too practical, and it is not a love at all, but simply looking for a partner.

5. The more positive idea is to find a person of the opposite sex who can make progress and promote each other, and gradually establish a relationship.

6. College life is too boring, and in order to get rid of loneliness, he needs an object of recreation, of course, it is best to be of the opposite sex.

7, influenced by those idol dramas, I hope that I can also meet the true son of heaven or the real girl.

I'm a freshman this year and just ended an online relationship. I was in the same city as him, at a different university, but I had never met. We are both poor people with little experience in love, from the beginning when he chatted with me from time to time, we found that we could talk to each other very well, we talked from high school to the current university, major, and yearning for the future.

We went through the period of ambiguity, the period of love, the period of coldness that all couples have, and then it ended with him experiencing some major changes, becoming sensitive, and proposing to me to break up.

I think the love of college students may be more idealistic, there are no social rules, because they are attracted by the other party's interesting thoughts or moving appearances, and they are blessed by the budding feelings of adolescence, which is the result of curiosity and hormonal blessing, which is relatively pure.

This relationship lasted for more than three months, and I didn't expect to experience so much for more than three months, but it would be wonderful to be able to realize the future we had hoped for each other and meet again in a foreign country.

1.The environment is suitable for love:College is relatively less academically stressful, there is no pressure at work, there is more free time, it will be relatively light, and there are many opposite sexes in college, and it is easy to contact them.

Once you spend more time together, feelings will arise. (This is also the reason why college love is generally more memorable, because you can devote yourself to it and the love of young people in society may feel imperfect because of various reasons when people have those defects in the love process). 2.

Vanity: Some people feel jealous and envious when they see that their dormitory classmates have partners together, can spend Valentine's Day, have someone to take care of, etc., so they are determined to find one for themselves as soon as possible.

1.The environment is suitable for love:College is relatively less academically stressful, there is no pressure at work, there is more free time, it will be relatively light, and there are many opposite sexes in college, and it is easy to contact them.

Once you spend more time together, feelings will arise. (This is also the reason why college love is generally more memorable, because you can devote yourself to it and the love of young people in society may feel imperfect because of various reasons when people have those defects in the love process). 2.

Vanity: Some people feel jealous and envious when they see that their dormitory classmates have partners together, can spend Valentine's Day, have someone to take care of, etc., so they are determined to find one for themselves as soon as possible.

To correctly understand falling in love, college students are in their youth, and it is very normal for them to begin to pursue the opposite sex, which is a very common phenomenon, and the love psychology of college students can be divided into several types. The first is to really like each other and pursue, this kind of person really likes each other, not because of other external factors and fall in love, generally this kind of love can be long-lasting, they can change their own shortcomings for the other party. The second is blind love, this kind of people they see friends or classmates in love, so that they also want to talk, do not talk about it and feel that they are inferior to others, so they may hastily find someone to fall in love, or do not like each other at all, and even deceive each other's feelings to cheat money, and this kind of person to pay attention to falling in love, to know how to distinguish between right and wrong.

There are advantages and disadvantages to college students falling in love, the advantage is that two people encourage each other to make progress, recognize their own shortcomings and make progress together. The disadvantage is that two people may be too obsessed with love, resulting in not studying seriously and wasting time, so it is necessary to have a correct understanding of love.

Most of the love psychology of college students is herd psychology, because early love is not allowed in high school, so it is natural to think that you should start a relationship when you go to college, plus the classmates around you have their own boyfriends and girlfriends, and there is inevitably a gap in psychology, thinking that it is a phenomenon of not falling in love that you don't fit in, so it is likely to start a relationship casually in order to be gregarious;

Another reason is vanity, some people may think that gaining the affection of others will show their personal charm. In the love of college students, they often only focus on immediate happiness and try to meet each other's material needs, but as everyone knows, a long-term love is two people who support each other and understand each other.

There is no standard answer in the love heart of college students. You have to look at the object of your love to determine what kind of heart.

Most college students have experienced several times in junior high and high school, this kind of person's love heart will generally be more mature, in the process of love will weigh the pros and cons of love will consider more comprehensively, and the romance and sweetness of falling in love with this kind of person may be relatively light, but in this relationship, you will be very comfortable. It won't feel so tiring to talk about, and it won't make you feel too upset.

There is also a kind of heart that is in love for the first time, and the heart is full of longing for love, planning and fantasizing all kinds of romance and sweetness. They'll have a lot of weird little thought and love that kind of surprise. It will be tiring to talk about, you need to protect and satisfy his fantasies and details, otherwise conflicts with his fantasies will make him lose and there will be conflicts.

The love psychology of college students should be mostly positive, free from the shackles of various aspects of high school, free and reasonable time period, will be more willing to accept a relationship, and to some extent also satisfies the fantasy of campus love, love is beautiful and troublesome at the same time, and naturally some people choose to go to the good.

There are also some people who have a Buddhist view of love, and pay more attention to improving self-centeredness in college, being at peace with what they encounter, and will not take the initiative to pursue love, preferring to go with the flow and meet a partner with a soul.

There are also a small number of non-lovers, and now is a new era of freedom and enlightenment, where personal choice should be respected, and independent thought should not be discussed. Everyone's definition of a partner is different, and if you can live your life well, it will not be in vain.

I hope that every college student will be happy with the concept of love in their hearts!

The psychology of college students' love is quite complicated, and some people may just want to fall in love, so they fall in love for the sake of falling in love.

College students' love psychology, whether male or female, has such a heart, I want to find someone who will always be with you all my life and take care of each other in my future career. And can build a very happy, enterprising person to be a partner. :

When college students fall in love, most of them are attracted by each other's looks or talents, so it is easy to have feelings.

At first, it was full of expectations.

Idealized.

Very few will take into account some realistic situations.

College students are in love with pure and more sensual love.

I only like him and she only likes me.

Most college students are "giants in theory and dwarf vertical pins in action" for Yu Jiyou's love. When you see handsome guys and beauties, you will scream to chase people, and you will discuss it with your friends, but when it comes to practice, you will be very cowardly.

State wild.

Positive and optimistic attitude, the psychology of two people being happy together.

There are many tragedies on college campuses because of the failure of love, and such immature love psychology affects the surrounding classmates. For a little thing, quarrel and contradict. Please correct the attitude of both parties in love.

When two people are together, it's like building the Great Wall, it's not that simple. In addition to love, there are many important things in our lives that we need to discover.

2.The two get along with each other, which is the process of understanding each other. Promote each other, encourage each other, love should be the spice of learning, and love in college is more sincere and simple.

In this material age, college love is also relatively romantic. When the love after work is much less simple, more material and conditional. Correct the relationship between love and career, and academics are the main pillars of college students' sense of value.

If you spend too much time on the simple inspection of love, it is a manifestation of irresponsibility, not only irresponsible to your parents, but also irresponsible to yourself.

3.Love is an intimate relationship between people, and this relationship quickly reveals the shortcomings of both parties. It is difficult to make changes for the other person in a relationship and learn to be tolerant.

It is said that love makes people more confident, and love can also make both parties know how to be tolerant and considerate. Meeting the right person at the right time can last a long time, and these two points are too difficult.