I m desperate, who can help me, I m about to despair, I hope someone will help me

Don't regret the decision you made, just know that it was wrong and know why it was wrong. Try not to do it again in the future. Don't despair at any time, there are people who are worse than you, remember that the time of adversity may also be the time to exercise you, and this time is the time to exercise your confidence in life.

I can't give you a specific solution, but I hope to give you a spiritual enlightenment, as long as your active heart is still there, God will always take the bad things away from you, because he thinks that he can't beat you, then you will realize the meaning of the time to work, not a kind of luck, but your own persistence and creation.

I don't know what your specific situation looks like, but don't you have nothing when you first graduate? The new year has also begun, let's start from scratch, first find a job, solve the problem of survival, as for the future, let's find a better job when the conditions are ripe.

No matter how difficult it is, people still have to live their lives, don't they?

Go for it, don't be discouraged, and start all over again. You will cherish everything you have in your hands even more in the future.

It seems that my experience will be a little better than yours, I also resigned in August last year, the company is Qingdao Haier, and then wandered until November 29 to have a new job, during which I owe more than 3,000 more than you! Big guy, the Yijia financial crisis has not passed, and before the Chinese New Year, everything has to be done! As long as you can eat enough!

Everything is difficult at the beginning, but tomorrow will be better. You can go to the construction site and find some work first, and then do other things when you have money.

It's better to go back to the original company. They have beaten you to keep you, which means that they need you, and you don't have to be embarrassed to go.

Keep looking. Salesmen don't sell things right the first time.

Even if you are desperate, life still goes on, everything is still business as usual, the sun still rises, and the night comes. You still have to live it day in and day out.

Your despair can be alleviated by asking others for help, then it is also the luck of despair, we are all tortured and experienced by life. Life is always accompanied by luck and misfortune. Come on! Maybe it's sunshine in the past, and it shouldn't be worse than now.

Hopefully we can all be treated well.

When I was desperate, I hugged myself and cried, and after crying, I slept well, and the next day was not the same life.

After crying, it will be fine after that.

I've also met girls who rejected me. Whether I have a family, my own ability, or my appearance, I am good or above, and I generally reject each other on blind dates. But once on a blind date, a girl rejected me.

After thinking about it, I finally found a reason: I wore slippers when I met her that day, and she had a good friend of hers next to her. Maybe she thinks I don't respect her enough, but I did it on purpose.

I want to know if this woman's eyes are more important than serious, and then whether they will be influenced by others. After this incident, we quickly ended the blind date. Many people are superficial, especially little girls who are ignorant of the world.

There are few people who can see through Puyu and have insight into people's hearts.

Male talent and female appearance, as a man, ability is the first place, the rich second generation official second generation with a high starting point can easily succeed in his career, compared with civilians of the same level, it is much harder. That's why so many women are so attracted to them. First, to pick up ready-made enjoyment, and secondly, it is relatively easy to struggle, and the ability requirements are reduced, and it is easy to succeed.

If you are a poor class with no funds and no connections, the only thing you can rely on is your ability, which is the cost of your food and the foundation of your family. And a handsome appearance may bring a little advantage, but it is not obvious. If you're acting in a career, you might be able to make a big difference.

The real world values your intelligence more. Work hard to do a good job in the industry, and when you focus on your own career, and then develop achievements, there will be discerning people. Ancient people liked women to be beautiful for enjoyment, but times are changing, and I think smart women are a better choice.

She can give you intelligent offspring. Physical appearance is generally inherited from the father, and intelligence comes from the mother. For the sake of the next generation, you should find a smart woman, and for the sake of living a good life in the future, you must also find a smart and virtuous helper.

A smart woman can perceive your thoughts, is smart and resolute, has a gentle personality, and generally has a higher education.

But in any case, you have to fight for yourself. A man is 30 a flower, and men have enough time to improve their abilities and find a better match for them. When you come out in your early 20s to find a woman, it is a woman who picks a man, and when you are close to 30, you have a successful career, and when your ability is good, it is a man who picks a woman.

There is still time for no hurry.