How to Successfully Raise a Good Child 5

Family: Children are susceptible to external factors, and a good family environment will be an important factor in the success of children.

No matter what the internal environment of the family is, parents need to smile more at their children, and they will give you something in return;

However, at the same time, parents should not spoil their children too much, if you let your child feel that no matter what he does, you will be biased towards him, and he will go down the wrong path;

In general, there are clear rewards and punishments, and a stick is given to a piece of candy.

School: It is important to choose a school with a good environment for your child, but at the same time, no matter what kind of school, there are good children and bad children, it doesn't matter, you let your children go for it. You just have to tell him what is good and what is bad, what to do and what not to do.

Interest: When a child is praised in a certain aspect, he or she will become more confident, so that he has more potential for development. It's true.

Gaming: Most children like to play games, but adults feel that it is not a proper job and is strongly forbidden, which makes it difficult for children to concentrate. At the same time, there will be a lack of conversation with his classmates, which makes him feel disappointed.

Here's a method that I really like: watch your child's homework and make sure you have some playtime each day if it's not doing much. On the weekend, it is also an hour, and the child will feel that it is not enough to play, so you can agree with him that the game time on the weekend is determined by the performance of the week, and that there is a little time to do housework or a little time to be praised by the teacher, and there is extra time to do well in the exam, but it should be controlled within a reasonable range.

Going out: It is best for children to have a few close playmates, if not, you can find a family team with children of similar age, and you can take your children out for travel or playgrounds, which are good training.

Learning: What exactly is the use of learning? This is a question, and there are many different answers to this question.

My answer is that learning can improve a person's IQ, and having a relatively good environment to grow up in is always easiest to communicate with peers. Ensure the child's learning time and quality, so that he can go as long as possible on the road of learning.

For the time being, there is only these things that can be thought of, the road to raising a child is very long, and there is a long way to go!

Set an example for your children. At the same time, don't be too strict with him, respect his personality, and don't feel like a wall between him and his parents. If you want him to be smart, you need to let him think hard and use his brain more.

Do things to encourage him more. Have more heart-to-heart communication with your child, and if you want to exercise him, let him go out and exercise more. Don't stay at home all day, and at the same time, communicate with others more is the best way to develop your child's social adaptability.

I think what the ancestors said must be right, I personally agree with stick education, that is, you can't pet, remember not to spoil.

In addition, parents take the lead. For example, honor your elders.

Check it on the Internet, and there are specific methods for each aspect. However, the key depends on the characteristics of your child.

1 Spend half an hour a day talking to your child.

2 Also use civilized language at home with children, such as "good morning, please, thank you, good night", etc.

3. Let children develop good habits of hygiene.

4 Listen to your child's voice! ——With patience, love, and happiness, the heart has eyes!

5 Don't always reveal your child's scars in order to remind them.

6 Seriously point out your child's mistakes!

7 Don't always be serious with your children, but laugh with them more: because laughter can make children love life more; Guide your child to look at things positively, easily and happily.

8 Be patient when telling stories to your children, as they have educational significance.

9 Don't impose on your children the ideals that you didn't realize in the past, and want them to achieve them.

10 Care for the child, but appropriate punishment at the right time is also needed, do not protect the child's shortcomings.

11 Education does not have to be just reasoning, and sometimes it is appropriate to take some strong measures.

12 Think about at least one question about your child's development every day in light of your child's performance.

13. It is very beneficial to carry out art education for children, cultivate children's elegant aesthetic taste, pay attention to guide and enrich children's perceptual understanding, and deepen children's emotional experience in nature.

14 For children in early childhood, do not allow them to live with their parents for long periods of time, as it is not conducive to education. Maybe there is no scientific reason, but it definitely applies.

15 Pay attention to nurturing kindness in your children. The ancients said: Don't take evil as small, don't take good as small.

16 Teach your children to smile, to smile at everything in life, to smile at life.

17 Do not make random wishes to your children, and do everything you can to fulfill your promises.

18 Always put yourself in their shoes! Parents should always empathize with what their children do and think, if I were a child, what would happen to me?

19 Give your child a certain amount of space and freedom, and at the same time give a certain amount of pressure and responsibility!

20 Explain to your child that he is already lovely and that he does not need to express himself.

21 Never say that a child is worse than another child.

22 Never punish a child with verbal abuse.

23 In what your child does, keep looking for something to be praised.

24 Don't scare your child. So as not to cause the child to be too timid and afraid.

25 Do not criticize and ridicule your child in public, so as not to cause psychological deformities, loss of self-confidence, etc.

26 Don't be overly your children. lest children be afraid and shy to express their own opinions, and develop a character of good and evil.

27 Don't praise your child too much. lest children develop the bad habit of "selling fame and reputation".

28 Don't suggest that your child is doing something undesirable. For example, you must fight back, don't give your own things to eat, don't buy tickets for the bus, etc.

1. Take yourself as an example and have good quality and upbringing, in fact, in many cases, parents will only keep preaching to their children, and there is not much constraint on themselves at all, which often does not play a good educational role. You might as well think of your child as a small sapling, and repair the branches and leaves of the young sapling, as long as the young sapling can grow upward, it will be considered a relatively successful work. For this reason, parents have to set an example, strictly regulate their own quality and upbringing, and set a good example for their children, so that their children can feel convinced, which is much better than nagging thousands of times.

2. There is no need to keep buying books for children, the most important thing is to read one by one, some parents keep buying books for their children in order to let their children develop good reading habits, resulting in children not reading a book and reading another book, which often does not have a good effect. Therefore, when buying a book for your child, you may wish to choose carefully, buy one first, and wait for the child to understand the meaning of the book after reading it, and then buy a new one. Of course, it is also necessary to create a good reading environment for children, and parents can accompany their children to read together, so that children can better integrate into the book, and at the same time help cultivate parent-child relationship.

3. Parents should be harmonious and affectionate, not as an excuse with their children, husband and wife love is the basic guarantee of family harmony, but in reality, some husbands and wives often quarrel with each other, and even fight, at this time, they always use their children as an excuse, and keep saying that everything is just for their children. In fact, it is the existence of feelings that gives rise to children, not the existence of children, that keeps feelings going.

4. For children, there are many ways to pay attention to in the education process, parents must lead by example, have time to read with their children, and maintain harmony between families, so that children will become better and better, more and more grateful, and grow up to be more filial.

Many people envy the children of their teachers, thinking that they will have the best educational resources and that they will easily excel in the best educational resources, but only the teachers themselves know that there are not many children who are full of peaches and plums around them. For example, my child is very good, but I did not train her, when she was in elementary school, she assisted her in her homework, and she was used to getting along with students in school, and she was unconsciously very strict with her children. Thinking about it, I am very sorry for the child, but the two teachers at home did not help her in her studies, so what is the reason for this, I think there are the following points:

1. Confusion of Roles Children are often treated as students, and the psychological roles of children at home are completely different from those at school. Teachers are also as strict with their children as they are with their students, demanding that their words and deeds be in a proper manner, that they treat their parents with an attitude toward their teachers, and that they should be obedient to their words and rules, and that they should not behave excessively. In the long run, children will eventually lose the space for personal thinking, and will always be in a subservient state of mind, making it extremely difficult to develop a creative personality.

Second, families with excellent professional habits can pay attention to cultivating children's sense of independence, especially pay attention to early education, let children read a lot of books in primary school, not only score theory, dare to let children try out the field outside the classroom. These kids ended up doing very well. However, most front-line teachers have lost their sense of new knowledge due to their professional habits, and are generally caught up in tedious and complex tasks, and their daily time is crowded with teaching tasks.

More teachers are struggling to cope with the day-to-day teaching and simply have no time for re-education. The impact on one's own children is also fatal. Third, social interaction is too simple, and the life circle of primary and secondary school teachers is relatively narrow, and the contact with society is relatively small.

Although facing parents from all walks of life, after all, there is a sense of distance, and most of them stop at superficial communication. The long-term single-minded and closed school life has made teachers generally simple and unsociable. This kind of living environment may be accustomed to the teachers themselves, and they will not find it a big problem, but for the children of teachers, especially the children of urban primary and secondary school teachers, there will be great constraints.

The lack of parental network resources and the svery little content of social activities invisibly limit the children's activity space, and the children's field of vision will be relatively narrow. Therefore, most children who grow up in ordinary teacher families are cautious in personality and lack the morale to dare to fight.

First of all, there must be excellent parents, who must be strong and big, and they must also be able to cultivate children. Lead by example and cultivate the study habit of early orange in learning.