If you break up, do you seem to be friends? Is it really okay?

It's best to be friends after a breakup

But now there are very few such results

You've heard the saying:

You can't be friends after a breakup.

Because they have hurt each other

You can't be enemies after a breakup.

Because they loved each other deeply

After a breakup, you can only do the most familiar strangers!

This sentence seems really sad

Now young people can still be friends after breaking up, and there is no fate to be with him, so bless it!

It can only be a familiar stranger

The earthlings are not dead, why not continue to be friends with him, think about the friends you will talk about in the future, you are not living for yourself, the story of how you want to do will not exist after the end of the feudal imperial system of the Qing Dynasty.

It varies from person to person, but it is possible to be friends after a breakup.

However, it is rare to be friends, even friends may only be ordinary friends, because if they are separated, they will have their own lives and partners, and it is not excluded that there is a kind of breakup that is very good and reconciled.

If you have loved each other deeply, at least one party will feel deeply hurt, he may be reluctant to contact again, he may be more hurt when he sees each other again, and it is better for the other party not to force it.

It seems that after the breakup, everyone must understand the reasons for the breakup, learn a lesson, and recover as soon as possible in the next time.

It depends on what you broke up for.

If one party is ethically wrong, it is usually not allowed. Even if you can, it's not sincere.

If you want to be separated by chance or something, or everyone says it's not suitable, then you can do a very normal friendship relationship, unless two people repel each other to the point where they can't even be friends.

No, it's all superficial to say yes, if you really love each other, no one can really be friends after breaking up

If you really love, you can't be friends.

Personal opinion.

If it's divided, it's divided, why do you still find an excuse to contact again, if that's the case, it's not good to divide it?

OK. As long as you want.

Being friends after a breakup, that's all nonsense. It's better to break up completely.

No! It's impossible to be friends!

Experience.

Yes, as long as you can let go of each other and treat this matter with a good attitude, it's okay

It's okay to get in touch once in a while, but it's never going back to the way it used to be, and it's not going to be as good as it used to be.

There's nothing you can't do.

But it's not necessary.

The breakup is all broken, why bother to be friends?

If you find your other half in the future, then shouldn't you think about your future relationship, such a "friend" is too disconnected, and it will definitely affect the future relationship.

No. Really broke up, I hope you choose to let go and not be friends. There is a line in "Me and the Altar of Earth": "I haven't forgotten anything, but there are some things that are suitable for collection." ”

It's really hard to forget the past, and it's really hard to let go of people who have loved deeply, but time will tell you that the original inappropriate person is destined to separate, and it turns out that if you really let go, it will slowly pass. The more you hold on to the past, the more you embarrass each other, you obviously want to love, why do you have to end up stalking in the end.

After a breakup, it is impossible for people who have loved to be friends, because seeing each other is a kind of harm to themselves, and people who have not loved have no value of being friends, and they are not even responsible for love, how can they be responsible for friendship. So, if you really break up, don't look back, let alone think about whether you can be friends.

Many people like to use their friendship status to reduce the pain of breaking up, and it seems that there are two reasons

1. I don't want to cut off contact, I want to leave some hope for myself.

People in relationships always like to deceive themselves, especially after a breakup, they seem to hypnotize themselves, and they really don't feel pain.

is like a friend Yiyi, after breaking up, begging the other party not to black, begging the other party to be friends with him, and asking her why she is so bad for herself, Yiyi cried and said: "I really can't hold it alone, my heart hurts too much." ”

She thinks that as long as the two are still friends and have the opportunity to connect, the other party will always find out that they are good. But love comes to an end, not because you are not good enough for him to leave, but because he doesn't love you anymore, no matter what you do, you can't change this ending.

2. Treat each other as spare tires.

The existence of this mentality is actually a proof that they have never loved, two people become friends, meet occasionally, chat occasionally, without being unnatural, and even continue dating.

No longer responsible for each other, no longer need to give promises, one drags the other. Many people think that this is called breaking the thread, but this is called using the ex as a spare tire, a spare tire that knows oneself and knows the other, and once owned.

So after a breakup, people who become friends will not be real friends, and what they represent is not love, because this kind of relationship is either to take advantage or to give themselves an excuse to stay, but both reasons are actually very stupid.

You can't be friends after a breakup because you've hurt each other.

You can't be enemies after a breakup, because you have loved each other.

So you can only do the most familiar stranger ......After breaking up, don't be friends again, if you can still be friends, it can only mean that you haven't loved deeply.

If it's a friend, it needs care, and if that's the case, then why choose to break up?

A relationship, a journey, a journey together, too much joy and touching, too much helplessness, heartache, from true love to hurt each other, to the moment of breakup, can you still be friends?

If you can, you must not have really loved, or it is the result of a person's grievances and desire for perfection, and there is no floodgate in the relationship, and it is not a ...... that can be closed with a pull

It is difficult for two people to love each other at the same time, and it is even harder to not love each other at the same time......

There is no love or hatred in the heart, and only when the throbbing in the heart is indifferent can we become friends.

Lovers are so close, friends are so far away......

If you can't be a lover, maybe he will say that he will be friends, but the car obviously drove away, even if he returns to the original point again, it will be a different time......

Different characters, different landscapes.

We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back?

It's better to keep moving forward and keep going ......

Until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

Don't love him her.

Let it go, don't make excuses for your selfishness.

Don't keep if you still love her, don't expect her to turn back ......

Therefore, when you break up, you can't continue to be friends or enemies, and you can only be the stranger you know most ......

After a breakup, you can't be friends because we have all hurt each other. After a breakup, you can't be enemies, because you have loved each other.

Do you have a fever again?

What kind of nerves are you doing here?

What's wrong with Xiao Xu?

Choose us, let's top you.

Maybe it still depends on two people.

Are they all letting go of each other?

Even as friends.

The distance should also be the distance of friends.

Don't get too close.

Walked too close. For you and for her, it will once again shine as an invisible injury.

I just broke up.

I thought I could be friends very well.

But then I found out that there seemed to be a situation that didn't work.

If you both have no feelings for each other.

I think I can be friends.

Remember Shakespeare said.

After the breakup. Don't be friends.

Because they hurt each other, they have been hurting each other.

But you can't be an enemy of debate.

Because they have loved one another.

The former companion orange traveler, Yongzhiqiao is far from becoming the current fierce friend.

Lovers who were originally in love with each other, in the face of a breakup, may have unavoidable reasons, or have unspeakable reasons and still want to be a pair of friends after the breakup, don't they bring everything in the past back to their lives? Why bother? Of course, I'm not in favor of becoming after a breakup.

enemies and enemies, slander each other, and want to kill each other.

When you see your former lover living happier than you, will you be jealous? When the former lover excitedly brings the new lover to make an introduction, even if you pretend not to care, but the taste in your heart ......

Why do you bother to find a yellow lotus to chew yourself? If the life of your former lover is not happy, your old love plus compassion will definitely think a lot ......After all, you used to be lovers in love, and you also used to have a good love life, in the face of the frustration and confusion of your former lovers, will you lend a helping hand? Will you fall into that emotional vortex again?

In the end, everyone has a new half, you continue to be friends with the old love, what will the new lover think in his heart, the connection will be broken? The new love must be dissatisfied, and what is even more terrifying is that in the suspicion and justification, a geometric relationship is generated. Of course, there are some successes, but it always sounds like there is a slight embarrassment.

It has never been unforgettable, how easy is it to be friends after a breakup? Look at your former lover, kiss me and me with others, and rejoice, you will definitely have a ......Why bother making your own drama for yourself and for them? has broken up, why do you want to deliberately maintain a relationship that is close to going beyond friendship?

It's better to seal it in your heart, miss it, or throw it away, and welcome a new life.

If you break up, why bother to be friends again?

Otherwise, how to break up?

Breaking up is just no love anymore, as long as you want to be friends, it's still okay. Because my ex-girlfriend and I became friends.

You can still be friends after a breakup, because you once loved each other, and if you think about it later, you will be happier.

You can also talk to each other about your heart, you can't be lovers but you can be buddies.

Breaking up and being friends is hard, but it's not impossible.

I'm in a similar situation to you, I've been friends for 5 years, and then because of external reasons, we broke up, and we've been separated for about 5 years, we've always been good friends, and the relationship has always been very harmonious, we actually still love each other, but for some reason, we're not very suitable, so we're all very sensible, just like relatives. Although it's a little sad to be together sometimes reminisce about the past, it's worth it.

I believe that since you can still be together, it means that she still has feelings for you, but she is still a little melancholy, I don't know the reason for your breakup, but if you still want to reconcile with her, then analyze the problem, correct the shortcomings, and believe that she will return to you.

Maybe everyone broke up on the spur of the moment.

It is important to realize that the other person is important later.

In the end, they will become good friends.