Please listen to my troubles Listen to my troubles?

I read it very carefully, and I didn't feel messy, in fact, many people have the same experience. The poor man has only one true love in his life, and you have already loved, love does not need to care about gains and losses! Next, it's time to face life calmly, feelings are just a part of life, life is colorful, or use your spare time to learn what you love; or have made significant progress in the development of their careers; Maybe it's just seeing the child's innocent smiling face and unconsciously laughing with him ......If you think she is suitable to live with you, accept it, and if it is not suitable, boldly find and pursue your own happiness!

If a relationship can really stand the test, no matter what, both parties will never give up. But if you have already separated, it means that there is no fate, since there is no fate, why force it? With one separation, there will be more clutch, what is the point of such an unstable relationship?

Loving someone doesn't have to be with her, if you see her living happily, it's the best reward for this love!

I think I'm all messed up Why can't I accept it I think as long as I tell her what happened before and ask her if she wants to go on with you this time If yes, accept it If so, you won't be hurt if you're alone in ** As long as we're not so easily knocked down And as a man I believe you can.

Feelings are often messy, and you have a lot of things in your heart, which is why you are incoherent. Love is often like this, it seems simple but it is messy. Love is not so great, and love alone cannot cut through the trivial clutter of life.

If you love her, let her be happy, and leave yourself a way back. Wishing you happiness!

Please listen to the classic old song "Change of Heart" and you will understand!

Go with your heart, maybe you're too tired and need to find a time to rest.

It's okay! Anyone will feel this way, but if you really love her, you must accept it.

Money can be earned! No one is a big money from the beginning! As long as you work hard. Good.

Why do you want to do anything for her, why do you want to change yourself like this, so that you will be very painful, not only can you not change anything, but also make yourself tired, why do you have to like someone who has nothing to do with you, take out the spirit of a man, wave goodbye, go out with friends for a drink when you are bored, Jumping Di, you will quickly forget, remember that there is nothing wrong with liking, but it is happy.

Some things are determined by fate. It's not that just because you like her, she'll like you. There are many people's likes who pay silently behind the scenes.

You're one of them. It's been a long time to meet her, but it always touches your heart. It shows that you have deep feelings for her.

You also said that if you confess your failure, it means that you are not her thing. When you see her now, will you feel inferior? I suggest you go and work somewhere else.

Come back in two or three years and give yourself a chance to work out. Make yourself more and more attractive. You haven't met many times now, and if you really do, you'll still meet in two or three years.

Back to become a memory.

In fact, your biggest question is not whether she loves you or not, accepts or accepts you.

The biggest problem lies with yourself.

Sometimes, love should be bold and don't suppress your emotions too much.

And don't doubt yourself, don't think you can't do it!! Don't let these negative emotions bother you.

First of all, you have to value yourself and have a comprehensive understanding of yourself.

There are also things that encounter difficulties, don't be discouraged, don't be discouraged.

Be a strong insider!

Love doesn't seem to be able to be forced, everything is arranged by God.

Don't be too upset. You're going to meet the right person!!

I send you three words to express your feelings: Tian Sixiao.

The first step is to make a confirmation.

I heard you say that you are in a state of anxiety right now, and that you are not in a very good state, mainly from three aspects. First, there is a change of leadership in the school, and there are some apprehensions in my heart. The second is that my son has started school, and my child is a little nervous and I am a little anxious, and I don't know how to support him.

Thirdly, my mother-in-law came and our lifestyle changed, which made me a little anxious as well. Is that the case?

This kind of confirmation allows the other party to sort out their own events clearly and gives the other party a sense of being heard.

After confirming that the ruler is completed, the second step needs to be focused. I just heard that your anxiety comes from three aspects, which aspect of the tomb is the most anxious about your friends?

This kind of questioning makes the other party focus on a certain point for discussion, focus on the topic that the other person wants to discuss, and make the conversation more targeted. This is necessary because in the course of a conversation, when we start with the first topic by default, we may not attract enough attention from the other person. The other party mentioned three aspects, in fact, the first and second aspects are all foreshadowing, and the third topic is the most important content to talk about.

When we don't pay attention to the other person's concerns, the conversation will not be as efficient and effective as it should be.

Third, follow the other party's emotions closely and grasp the key points. In order to rationalize one's own point of view in the process of the other party's confession, they will focus on the event. What we have to do is to grasp the key points and give the other side strength.