How to choose between two places to live apart and stick to your dream job? 10

I've always thought that distant separations are for better togetherness, and you can't choose whichever you want, I mean choose the one that interests you the most between the two, the one that you are willing to pay even if you don't give you a salary. As for the wife, children, parents, house, etc., you have to believe that you will have these ten years later, and they will all get better, after all, you are only 27...

If you go to the oil field, you may make a lot of money, and at the same time, you may also have a wife. Doing your favorite foreign trade, you may not be able to make a lot of money for the time being, but it does not necessarily mean that you will always be like this, and at the same time, if your wife is satisfied with your current situation, you will have a happy family. I don't know what your wife does, but if I could go with you, I think it would be perfect!

When everything is stable, you can do your foreign trade again.

You can choose to work in the oil field first, but it does not mean that you have to give up your foreign trade, you can study while working, because maybe one day there will be an opportunity to play your strength, as for your wife, as long as the two treat each other sincerely, no matter how far away it is not a problem, come on! I wish you success.

It depends on what you and your family value most, it's a good choice, if you can bring your wife with you when you go to other places.

This is your future, and only you can weigh it. Good luck with the light.

In my own life, I believe that you should fulfill your responsibilities first, and then realize your dreams, because in this world, we are not only our own interests, but also take into account many things, such as the expectations of our parents, the feelings of our loved ones, and whether we have made the right choice.

In fact, there is no contradiction between the two, stable work is your material pursuit, walking around is your spiritual desire, and Ma Zhe told us that the origin of the world is material, so we should regard stable work as the material basis of your dreams Only under the premise that the material foundation is guaranteed, it is possible to have the ability to satisfy your spiritual desire Therefore, stick to your post and do what Zhuangzi said, "meet with God without sight" What is separated by mountains and rivers is not necessarily false; What we see with our own eyes may not be true We should go beyond our ears and eyes and be close to our hearts Of course it doesn't matter if we can't do it Then let's work hard and hide our dreams in our hearts for the time being Work hard to make money God rewards hard work One day you will realize your dreams What do you say, landlord?

The party to be transferred must be a member of the system (the specific status is not limited to the status of a civil servant or a public institution), and the identity of the spouse of the person to be transferred is not limited. As long as there is indeed an objective fact of separation between husband and wife, and the transfer flow is reasonable, the husband and wife can apply for transfer. To go through the transfer procedures, under normal circumstances, it is necessary to provide a copy of the marriage certificate, the certificate of the spouse's work unit, the household registration certificate and other materials according to the requirements of the personnel department of the organization to be transferred.

1. Civil servants, the full name of which is national civil servants, are public officials who are responsible for the overall management of economic and social order and national public resources, and the implementation of national laws and regulations. In China, civil servants refer to those who perform public duties in accordance with the law, are included in the state administrative establishment, and are paid wages and benefits by the state treasury.

2. According to the nature, characteristics and management needs of the positions, civil servant positions are divided into general management, professional and technical and administrative law enforcement categories. According to the Civil Servants Law of the People's Republic of China, other job categories may be added for positions that are special and need to be managed separately.

3. Article 68: Civil servants who have a husband and wife relationship, a direct blood relationship, a collateral blood relationship within three generations, or a close relationship by marriage must not hold a position in the same organ in which both parties are directly subordinate to the same leader or have a direct leadership relationship between a superior or a subordinate, nor may they engage in organizational, personnel, discipline inspection, supervision, auditing, or financial work in an organ where one of them holds a leadership position. Where due to the special region or nature of the work, it is necessary to perform a recusal of office, the competent department for civil servants at the provincial level or above is to provide for it.

I'm in Nanchang, Jiangxi, and my girlfriend is in Kunshan, Jiangsu, and I want to transfer too.

How is the landlord now? Has the problem of relocation been solved? My husband and I are also away from home, and I want to go back too.

Both sides are civil servants, and now it is difficult to transfer, if they have to be together, then one of them has to give up.

There is a way, ** there is a document "to resolve the separation of husband and wife (cadres)", you can go to the personnel department of one of the units to apply after one year of marriage.

Generally, the longer the marriage, the easier it is, and we have been married for five years. It doesn't have much to do with the level. Of course, if you have a high level, it will be easier to do it.

To find the receiving unit (i.e. the unit you are going to transfer in) in the place of transfer, the unit agrees to accept it, and there is a vacancy in the establishment.

Submit an application, there are units willing to accept and prepare available, and coordinate all aspects!

Good luck and happiness!

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It's too much trouble, give up on this idea.

How can civil servants be transferred to another place? These 4 paths can be tried! Are you eligible?

You can apply for transfer if you live separately, and I am in charge of work transfer in the personnel department of the unit, and I can help you ask

Hello, is the declarant reported to the Municipal Human Resources and Social Security Bureau or the Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security? Have you got the account approval?

If you get the approval document of the household registration, you will first handle the settlement, and then take the approval document to open the transfer letter to handle the file transfer, and transfer it to any talent file in the city. If my work unit has personnel rights, I can transfer them to my own unit, and if my unit does not have personnel rights, then I can put other talent centers that can be archived. Free consultation for details: 185--000---67--555

I think you can discuss this with your wife, after all, if you don't go well at work, slowly conflicts will appear, but I think women want their husbands to be by their side, not to mention that there is a child, you can't let your wife take it alone, right?

I think it's important to reunite the family, the child is so young, can you take your wife and children with you? If not, don't go, or you can try a different job.

Or the family is more important, if the husband and wife are separated for a long time, the relationship will be weakened, and there will be conflicts.

You may not like to hear all of the following words, but this is something that others can see. Plainly! The two of you still love each other, but her parents don't like you much at all, just for their son's future or so that their son can help them live a good life, and that's how they came, so I didn't expect you to be in any mood, and I won't understand you, and in their opinion, this is what it should be, and it's what you have to do as a wife, some perfunctory people must say stupid things like you just divorce, I don't think it's advisable, because the relationship between the two of you didn't have a half-dime rift, The problem is not the two of you but the two elderly people at work, maybe your family's mortgage pressure is still very heavy, this method is a little undesirable, but try it if necessary, get pregnant Otherwise, before your husband can get out, the relationship between the two of you may change from a long-distance relationship to a husband and wife conflict.

Some people also have this situation, and men should have a career and family at the same time. Men are relatively more ambitious than women, so it is difficult for him to only get two or three thousand yuan per friend, after all, men have to support their families. So all I can say is:

Loving someone doesn't have to be glued together all the time. If you choose each other, you should believe in him, understand him, and go through hardships with him. As husband and wife, we should trust each other, understand each other, help each other, love each other, and take responsibility for each other.

Give the other person a proper amount of free space and don't put too much pressure on the other person.

Many dreams have been destroyed by reality, listen to adults more, after all, adults have more life experience than you, and you can also work to achieve your dreams.

In fact, there are many people who are facing this problem in the family now, and I am one of them, Ha Separation is not terrible, what is terrible is that it depends on the degree of trust between husband and wife, but then again, how many men are outside the home and don't mix it up? You have to face this series of problems very clearly, but believe that the other person is the best

If the company allows, you can take your lover over with you! If you have time, go home more, call your lover more, and chat with him more!

It's not good, after a long time, two people are likely to steal food. If possible, it is better to be together. If not, you often go to see him, and he will come to see you.

The long-term separation of husband and wife will definitely affect the relationship.

If love can go through the tempering of distance, then there will be no problem, but the most needed mutual trust, a long-term love will sometimes have a distance, the distance in the heart, even if you are close to each other, but your heart is far away from each other, that long-term love, you should "say goodbye". Although the saying is very good, "distance produces beauty", how much love can withstand the test of distance? Many loves, which are considered perfect, will disappear right in front of their eyes, let alone separate.

Maybe it's hard to miss at first, but will it be after a while? Love is unclear to anyone After all, there is no answer to even the parties ?..There is no best way to maintain this long-distance relationship"...

It's up to youThe love of each other's hearts

I shouldn't have chosen such a marriage in the first place, but now I know the pain.

What are the effects of men separating.

Hold on to your dreams and never give up. If you know that you like it, you can be motivated, and you can do better! Dreams will enable you to realize your own worth.

It's good to have a dream, because there will be hard work when you have a dream

If it's a dream rather than an ideal, stability comes first.

Since you have a stable job for you, why not worry about not having food, why not chase your dreams

You should be brave enough to pursue your dreams, it will give you unexpected strength.