In this way, will it be easier to forget the past?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It will definitely not be forgotten, but it will make you less likely to miss the past.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, it's impossible to forget that....I can only slowly forget...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not that easy, hehe, it's okay to go out for a walk, relax, and adapt to other environments.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's better to get out of that place, not to have any contact with the person you're going to forget about, or something, and to jump out of his world entirely.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Forgetting is not as simple as you think, even if you delete everything related to him, you take it out and ask, do you think you can forget?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

    But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now, in trouble, in pain.

    I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

    I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to abandon a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

    I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You won't remember what you should forget, you can't forget what you remember, you engrave what you want to forget, and what you miss is always new, let it be.

    It is impossible to completely forget the past, because it is a part of your life and can never be changed. If you really want to forget the past, you can only change yourself, change your view of the so-called past, then you have to start from the present, let some things in the present let you come out of the shadow of the past, and slowly stop caring so much. Then, when you think about your "past" again, you feel that it is just a passing cloud and is no longer unforgettable.

    I don't know your life and I don't know what you want to forget, so I want you to cherish the present and do more things that make you happy. The past is gone, what can you do to him? Thinking too much will only make you more miserable, so why not give me some happiness now!

    I think you should know how to use your life to forget about the past.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Forget? You? Impossible, don't find any way and don't deceive yourself, asking this question itself shows that you value love and righteousness, you can't be as soulless chic as some people, so you can't forget it at all, not only can't you forget, your life state may also affect your mood for a long time, all of this comes from your dedication, from your emotional investment, if you want to forget unless your soul can be cut, so don't forget it, your love and righteousness determine your loveliness, There should be someone who understands you to help you heal the trauma and dilute everything unpleasant, let's wait together...

    Love is a sad fairy tale.

    Anyone who has read it has left more or less regrets When we finish reading, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distances. If there is no fate, even if we get together, we won't be able to understand, so let's let everything go with the flow.

    。Everyone has their own journey, there will be a variety of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience everyone is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have happened, time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as the beginning, adjust the mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future...

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Forgetting one person can't do it. Can it only be that his or her place in your heart is "important" or "secondary"? I gave an example, when your thoughts are full of people, then when you pretend again, someone has to go out of your heart, it is "squeezed" out, and lovers are the same, when you change to another lover, maybe his position will be "occupied"; However, when there was a vacancy, he returned.

    It is impossible to completely erase the memory of one person from the heart of another person, especially the first love, which may be the pain of his life. I'm just suffering from something like you that "can't forget someone", it's very painful; But I can't forget her. When I'm busy with work, I can't think of her for a while, but when I'm alone, her shadow, and all of her things reappear, and I can't forget about her (completely).

    Why don't you do something? Forget him for a while, let him fade out of your inner world, time will hide him and the pain of the thoughts he brings to you. So that you can have a little bit of happiness, and sometimes, a little bit of joy is enough.

    Although I am still suffering, I still wish you happiness: love is sinless.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The most important thing is that you have to let go of yourself, you have to think about it, and the more you force yourself to forget, the more difficult it will be.

    In the face of pain, we often look at it with a magnifying glass.

    Life is short for decades, don't leave yourself with any regrets, laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, love when you should love, and learn to give up when you should give up. There is no need to suppress yourself.

    Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten. Change what can be changed, accept what can't be changed.

    In life, there are constantly people leaving or entering.

    In fact, so much is just to comfort you, because you are very serious, you care, you really put your heart into it, there is no way to forget, if you can be a little more selfish, maybe it won't hurt so much, but unfortunately, love has no ifs.

    It's a process, a process that you have to go through.

    But you have to cheer yourself up.

    So, what is seen, what is not seen; What is remembered, forgotten.

    In life, there are constantly gains and losses.

    And he that which was not seen, saw it; Forgotten, remembered.

    However, what is not seen is the same as not existing?

    Remember, is it never going to go away?

    In fact, many of the injuries in life are not as serious as I imagined. If, not taking it seriously, he wouldn't be in pain. When you feel pain, it's because you think the wound hurts, and you're afraid that the wound hurts.

    The state of mind of how you look at a thing is very important, just as the optimist sees the fried ring, and the pessimist sees the hole.

    You should learn to let go and say to yourself: What is there? What's the big deal.

    When you dare to face it, you will begin to forget.

    Because your mind is already at ease, what things don't need to be remembered.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Even if it is a little trace of experience, we can not forget, the deeper the more can not forget, the things that can be forgotten may only be when I was not sensible when I was a child, when I was a child, I think it is only before the age of whom, because maybe we will occasionally have some memories of the things of the year, as we grow older, we have the pursuit and belief, whether the things we experience are sad or happy, plain or complex, especially feelings, can not be erased from our minds at all! If you can forget, you won't be asked to ask questions to answer! I also have a lot of things that I want to forget, but it's hard, to put it bluntly, when you want to forget, you're actually remembering, aren't you?

    Time can dilute everything, but it can't take everything away If you really can't forget it, then try to remember it until you die

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Do more.

    It's a happy thing.

    Hehe, actually, I just want to tell you.

    Life is our most basic thing.

    And the ** of life is ourselves.

    If you don't pay attention to this issue.

    Maybe your life is going to be bad.

    So life. Love career.

    Friendship if you want it all.

    You have to keep a good attitude.

    To live vividly.

    It's wonderful to live your perfect life.

    Do you understand. The ** of life is yourself.

    Make the most of your current life.

    I think you'll be happy.

    May good people have a safe life.

    You can do something you love to enrich your life, and you have to keep a good attitude every day, be happy, happy, and happy.

    It's better to be in a good mood than anything else.

    I think it's hard for you to be unhappy.

    For example, listen.

    Watch TV series. Eat what you like.

    Food read comics.

    Watch movies, play and run.

    Play the game and play mahjong.

    Read**Go out shopping.

    Find a friend to chat with.

    Sleep for tourism. I think it's good to do housework.

    In short, do whatever you want.

    It's good to be happy, hehe.

    Happy to you. A happy life.

    Always carefree.

    of happiness and peace.

    Please do me a favor.

    This is my patent.

    Thank you].

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    To deliberately forget the past is to regain the pain. Don't do everything on purpose. Don't pick up the past. What we need to do is to take steps towards tomorrow. That way, we'll be well. Maybe one day you'll find yourself, indeed. Forget the past.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Actually, it doesn't have to be forgotten.

    Forgetting isn't necessarily the best thing to do.

    It depends on what you think of the person.

    Just don't take it too seriously.

    The past is gone.

    Why bother thinking about it?

    Maybe he's causing you pain.

    Don't let him hurt twice.

    Be happy. Why bother thinking about the meaningless past.

    Since the past was painful.

    Why dwell on pain.

    Why put the key to your own happiness in someone else's hands.

    Your own happiness and joy should be grasped by yourself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This is an interesting question, strictly speaking, it is impossible for people to forget the past, unless they have amnesia, or they are self-deluded and pretend to forget. Since you can't forget, how do you face it? I think there are two things I can try:

    If you can't forget it, you will treasure it, and all experiences are wealth.

    What most people want to forget are painful memories, such as ex-boyfriends, girlfriends, or unspeakable secrets. To tell the truth, as long as something happens, it will more or less leave traces in people's hearts, and the marks left by painful things are deeper.

    Strive to live the present life well and strive for a better future.

    A person's life is a process of continuous growth and progress, from not being smart to being smart, from not being ignorant to knowing a lot of things, no one can not make mistakes and not do stupid things, especially when they are young and ignorant. The mistakes made are all valuable experiences on the road of life, and it is the mistakes that have been made one after another. I have become more and more mature myself today.

    History can not be assumed, let alone go back to the past, bad things happened when they happened, what we have to do is to sum up experience, do not make repetitive mistakes in the future, and live the present life well, philosophers say, people should not fall into the same river twice, there are two and no three and four.

    The Buddha said: Everything that should happen is bound to happen, and whether it is good or bad, everything is the best arrangement. Without the past, there is no present!

    There is no need to mention the past, let it continue tomorrow.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    "First of all, I want to tell you that it is not easy to forget a person, or to forget a relationship. It takes a lot of effort from us. Someone once said that it is impossible for a person to forget the person he loves, because once he forgets, it is not love.

    If you think about it, it still makes sense. So you don't have to blame yourself and be distressed that you can't forget someone. But we can't forget what we don't want to remember, and it will be very uncomfortable, so we.

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