Because my husband and I are both only children, we can have two children

Let him save enough money before asking for it.

Maybe, he didn't want to, he was for his parents, and it was probably your mother-in-law and father-in-law who meant.

Yes, in modern society, raising children is very hard, according to their actual ability; Otherwise, there will be a lot of pressure in the future, and it is better to raise more than to raise well, and to cultivate one well, this is the best way.

2 children are not too many, let's raise them! You can always grow up.

Can't afford it? Really can't afford it?

Think about how poor China was in the 50s and 70s, and couldn't eat enough, and didn't the children still give birth one after another?

Can't afford it? Not a reason. It's an excuse.

There is a local saying in our rural areas called "the poor should be poor, and the rich should be rich".

Why do you prefer to have more children in those poor places?

What I mean by this is that raising children has nothing to do with family circumstances.

If your family situation is not good, you won't raise it? 、

You can try to ask your husband why he has two children.

If that reason convinces you, listen to him.

If this reason doesn't convince you, don't deny him.

You tell him to raise one first.

You're still young anyway.

If you feel that it is still necessary to raise it in the future, then raise it.

Actually, it's nothing.

Don't fall out with your family over this.

I wish you an early birth to a precious son.

Legal analysis: No, even if the child's household registration is removed, there is a record, and the birth permit has just been applied for according to the second child. A remarried couple with one child each, and a child born during the existence of the original husband and wife relationship who has received a certificate of honor for the parents of a single child, and who has not given birth to or adopted a child after remarriage, may continue to enjoy the treatment of a parent of a single child.

Legal basis: "Law of the People's Republic of China on the Protection of Women's Rights and Interests" Article 51: Women have the right to have children in accordance with relevant state provisions, and also have the freedom not to have children. Husbands and wives of childbearing age shall follow the relevant provisions of the State in family planning, and the relevant departments shall provide safe and effective contraceptives and technology to ensure the health and safety of women undergoing birth control operations.

The State implements a system of premarital health care and maternal health care, and develops maternal and infant health care. People at all levels shall take measures to ensure that women enjoy family planning technical services and improve women's reproductive health.

Not counted. The only child is counted on a family basis. Under the family planning policy, couples who voluntarily give birth to one child will no longer be issued with the "Certificate of Honor for Parents of One Child", and will no longer enjoy relevant incentives and preferential policies such as incentive fees for parents of one child.

Those who have previously received the "Certificate of Honor for Parents of One-Child Children" shall continue to enjoy various family planning incentives and preferential treatment policies in accordance with the prescribed conditions, standards, and years. Those who have already received the "Certificate of Honor for Parents of One Child" and request to have another child".

I think first of all, you two should make it clear in your hearts that there are a few points that seep through the cherry branches:

1.Procreation is a right, not an obligation.

It is entirely up to us whether or not to exercise this right. Catch up.

2.Childbearing is our own right, not our parents.

Parents have and have exercised their own reproductive rights, and so our parents have given birth to us.

3.The decision not to have children has been carefully considered and agreed upon by both parties.

So my choice not to have children is exactly the same as his choice not to have children.

In the hearts of both parties, there is no such thing as not having children who listens to whom.

The following personal experience is based on the consensus of both parties on the above three points.

1.When we were asked by our parents about our family plans after marriage, they directly said that they had discussed whether to have children.

Whether my parents understood or not, what attitude or opinion I had no effect on either of us.

At most, they take the initiative to reduce their contacts when their expectations are too high, so as not to let this trivial matter that has nothing to do with them block both sides.

2.Whoever is the parent will be the one who will speak.

Face my parents, it's up to me to say:

I decided not to have children, and he did as I pleased.

In the face of his parents, it is up to him to say:

He decided not to have children, and I did what he wanted.

This is a necessary strategy when facing parents.

Never take the anger of your parents out on your spouse over childbearing.

Never let a parent have.

My girl (son) must have wanted to have children, but she was spoiled by the other party! Thoughts.

3.If you feel that you can't withstand the pressure of your parents, then just give birth!!

I think purely from an emotional point of view, the relationship between two people has nothing to do with other people, and the relationship between two people cannot be affected because the husband doesn't like it. It is normal for the father-in-law to love his daughter, and he can't bear to watch her live happily after working hard to raise a daughter, and pity the hearts of parents all over the world!

Being disliked by the father-in-law should not become an obstacle to love, but should become a motivation to work hard, to strive to change oneself and become a person that the father-in-law is satisfied with. It is a very bad habit for young people to give up at every turn, and what young people need most is the courage to face difficulties, and not to be afraid of being sleepy and accompanying them, and in the end they will still impress their father-in-law.

Because everyone's situation is different. So, here are some factors to consider:

1.There is no such thing as a bad door. This notion is based on traditional social hierarchies, which are becoming less and less common in modern society.

Therefore, before deciding whether or not to stick with this feeling, you need to understand how important you are to the match.

2.The quality of the feelings themselves. Even if the relationship itself is not good, then there is no need to continue to insist. On the contrary, even if the door is not the right one, if the relationship is good, then it is possible to continue walking.

3.Other factors. In addition to the right fit and the quality of the relationship, there are a lot of other factors to consider.

For example, family background, cultural background, religious beliefs, career planning, etc. These factors can sometimes affect the development and future of the relationship, and need to be considered and communicated in advance.