Do only children envy non only children?

Don't envy, the only child can enjoy better economic conditions, if the family conditions are good, it's fine, if the family conditions are average, if there are two children in the family, the economic pressure is very great, and there will be no problem of parents favoring anyone.

Nowadays, the price of goods is very high, the cost of education is also very high, for the only child, the standard of living since childhood is quite good, can be specific to all aspects of life, from food and clothing, to education, tourism, etc.

For example, the food is imported milk powder, snacks are also imported from abroad, not to mention toys, almost what you want, parents will buy, usually wear brands and high-quality clothes, any pair of shoes will cost thousands of yuan, and when it comes to school, when I was young, there were many choices for schools, private and public schools can be, and the environment of private schools will be better, of course, ** is also very expensive, for families with two children at home, parents will be discouraged in the face of expensive tuition fees in private schools.

There is also the only child who travels a lot every year, as long as there is time, when it comes to holidays, they will go out to travel, after the accumulation of childhood, so that their horizons are broader, and their knowledge will be broader.

There is also a very real problem, that is, the property problem in the future, the only child will not face the problem of property distribution, and the property left by the parents, if there is no accident, will be the only child, so there will be no economic contradictions in the future.

But there are pros and cons in everything, and I personally feel that it is better to have a family with brothers and sisters, and we can help each other and keep each other warm if there is any difficulty at any time, after all, it is a milk compatriot with a blood heritage.

When an only child grows up, he or she is faced with the problem of taking care of the elderly, which can be stressful. In addition to financial relationships, even if you are rich, it is difficult to balance the companionship in the case of many elderly people who have problems. Because the doppelganger can't come.

At this time, it is very certain to envy non-only children.

The financial and elderly care issues can be shared. Of course, brothers and sisters can confide in each other and huddle together for warmth.

First of all, we must know that whether it is an only child or a non-only child, in fact, each has its own advantages and disadvantages, and we must look at the problem dialectically. In terms of the joy of life, I think only children will envy non-only children, because they don't have a playmate who can be by their side all the time, and sometimes they are quite lonely.

No. Now it is the non-only child who will envy the only child, because the only child has everything in his house and no one robs it.

Definitely, envy those who are not only children who are accompanied and have someone to play with; The worst thing about an only child is that a person is too lonely, and he can only bear it alone in all aspects, and there is nothing to share.

Definitely, I envy that my daughter who is not an only child has playmates from time to time, and it will not be too much pressure to raise my parents when she grows up.

I think only children will envy non-only children, because it is better to have siblings with them, so that they have someone to play with.

Not necessarily. Some people feel lonely and envious, but some people feel happy to have only one child in the family.

I will envy, I am an only child, I feel more lonely when I am the only child in the family, and I envy how many children there are in other people's families, it is more lively, and someone is talking.

I am a one-child family, I envy that there are many children, I am the only child in the child's family, I feel very lonely, and two or three children in the family are really good. When I grew up, I felt too stressed, and how much I wished someone helped me with it.

Yes, especially after they get married, they are even more envious, because the only child is under pressure, and all the burden of the family is on him, and the non-only child has siblings to share.

Yes, an only child has all the love of his parents and also bears all the pressure, and since he was a child, he has envied others to have siblings to play with.

Yes. They will envy their siblings for accompanying each other, supporting each other and sharing each other's burdens, and the home is much more lively.

Yes. My roommate, who was the only child, was very envious of me having a younger brother, and he said that sometimes he was bored by himself, and he didn't have anyone to play with since he was a child. And there is also the pressure of coming to your own family.

In fact, this depends on the family situation. Some only children may be envious, some may not. Why?

One. The reason why only children envy non-only children is that they are not only children.

1.Non-only children have friends to play with and play with them since childhood, and their childhood will not seem lonely and boring.

2.Non-only children to the middle age, is their most responsible, the most stressful time period, the old and the young, once the elderly in the family are sick and hospitalized, especially if they have a major illness need financial and personal resources, at this time multiple people discuss it is not false at all, this I myself have a deep experience. In this way, siblings can share the financial and nursing pressures appropriately, especially in families with children who have average family conditions and parents who have no insurance and no retirement salary.

3.If it is an ordinary rural family, the non-only child in the link of the parents' pension and death, in the customs and culture are also very important to this thing, if more people in the money and efforts of these aspects to spread evenly, can reduce the pressure of many ordinary families.

4.There will be more and more people in non-single-child families, and everyone will be very lively together during the New Year's holidays. And when something big happens, the ones who can really help are their own family members.

If someone gets better, the first thing that comes to mind must be their brothers and sisters, and they can also drive everyone to get better together.

Two. Only children do not envy non-only children.

1.Once parents choose to have a child, then they will be very careful in planning for their child. Their children's educational resources, living materials, and parental companionship time are very good.

On the one hand, the children they educate are more independent and excellent, and they will not envy others. On the other hand, they are more capable and confident, work better, and have better material living conditions, so they can calmly face and bear all kinds of pressures when their parents are old.

2.Once parents choose to have a child, then they have already begun to plan their own pension, buy pension insurance for themselves, plan nursing homes for themselves, etc. In the event of illness and hospitalization, how to plan money and caregivers, etc., try not to cause trouble to your child.

Parents are independent, children are more independent, they love each other, but they also fulfill each other and do not trouble each other.

All in all, different family conditions, different educational content and different personalities of children from childhood, then they will have different views and attitudes on this issue.

Personally, I don't envy people who are not only children.

Although sometimes I joke with my parents, "Why don't you give me an older brother or sister, or a younger brother or sister to play?" "But in fact, it's just lip service.

As for the reason, if you are selfish, it is that you can enjoy the love of your parents alone, and your parents will help you even if you work, and there will be no question of who to leave this to and who to leave it to.

I'm used to all things being unique, I don't want my parents' love is not the only one, I don't understand the feelings of non-only children, but I don't envy them, although the palms of my hands and the backs of my hands are all meat, but you won't be sad if your parents are a little bit biased?

Nowadays, there are actually many examples on the Internet, such as patriarchy, parental favoritism, differences between siblings, and complainers abound, these are facts, not fabricated. No one can achieve a bowl of water, not to mention that people's hearts are biased. Of course, I am not saying that there will always be conflicts if you are not an only child, and there are many people who have harmonious families, but we still cannot ignore those who are hurt by their parents' partiality.

I see a lot of people who envy non-only children, and most of them want to have siblings to take care of them and accompany them. That friend can also be, a good friend who knows well, can't it? Even there will be no family conflicts between you.

And personally, I have cousins and cousins, although they are not brothers and sisters, but we have a good relationship, no worse than brothers and sisters. My parents will also be with me a lot, so to speak, I can give whatever I want, and the company they give me has filled the void of siblings, so I am not alone.

There is also a problem, that is, the problem of pension, they think that if they have brothers and sisters, they can share the burden together when their parents are old, even if they are not free, they can also have someone to accompany their parents. First of all, I agree with this point of view, it is really a big advantage of not being an only child.

And as an only child, I feel that I have received all the love of my parents, and I will give me all the love to them, I don't need to calculate whether it is worth it or not, and I don't have to worry about the problem of how much you give and how little I pay, I should have given everything. Besides, now that the country's policy on the only child is very good, I will also make myself better and have the ability to take responsibility and take care of my parents.

In fact, people are egoists, whether they envy or not, the essence is self-interest. Those who envy go for the benefit of having brothers and sisters, and those who do not envy go for the benefit of not having brothers and sisters. But no matter what you do, hopefully you will be able to take on a responsibility in the future.

Sometimes it will, but when it comes to some interest issues, it's also very annoying when you quarrel with each other, so it doesn't matter how many children you have, the main thing is to see if the children are united? Can you fight over the issue of dividing the family property in the end?

No, I won't. How happy an only child is, especially for girls, their parents love them wholeheartedly, and if they have many children, their parents can't take care of them, there will be unfairness between children and turn a blind eye. Therefore, in families with many children, the children's personalities are almost different, not all of them have been formed since childhood, and they are very aggrieved.

If it were me, I would envy the non-only child (I am an only child) I want a brother or sister to accompany me, play with me, have someone to accompany me in everything, cry and have someone to coax me, and someone understands me.

I'm an only child, and I may have gotten used to it by myself, and I think it's good.

Live your own life, why envy other people's lives!

Only children will envy people who are not only children, but most of the time, they do not yearn for the life of non-only children.

Only children sometimes envy non-only children, they will envy that they have an older brother or sister, they will envy that they have someone to play with all the time, they will envy that they have an older brother and older brothers and sisters to protect them, and they will envy their older brothers and sisters who can help them in school. I have to say that everyone likes to be pampered by others from the bottom of their hearts, especially relatives like brothers and sisters whose blood is thicker than water. There are also a series of topics such as other people's brothers and other people's sisters often appear on the Internet.

At the same time, compared with non-only children, the only child bears more pressure, he buys all the expectations and sustenance of a family, parents will be more strict with the only child, but it is precisely because of this, the only child will get all the favor of the parents, I am an only child, I can be selfish, I don't want to have a younger brother or sister to share the love of my parents, I am selfish, I hope that the love of my parents will always be in me, I can never have to share snacks and pocket money with my younger siblings. Some people will say that an only child can be very lonely, I don't think so, I also have my own life, I also have my friends, and my life is not so lonely.

But as an only child, we are the only parents, and when we grow up, when we start a family, one day we will leave our parents and live alone. When the only child is no longer with the parents, it is a kind of insecurity for the parents, and at this time, they will still want to say that there is someone who can come and share with them, so as to reduce the pressure on themselves. Only children bear more pressure to support their parents, and once there is something wrong with their parents' health, there is no one else to help them, and they often have to sacrifice work to accompany their parents when they need you.

These are the difficulties of being an only child.

Will be envious. The only child enjoys the love of his parents, and he also bears the expectation of the only son Jackie Chan and his daughter Jackie Chan.

Without the help of brothers and sisters, I have never experienced the deep brotherhood of blood thicker than water. Carrying the hope of the whole family.

The pressure of pension is high, and the cost of taking care of it is not shared.

After starting a family, parents will become elderly people living alone, and it is currently advocated that they should not go out of the province or city unless necessary, and spend the New Year on the spot, so they cannot visit their parents often, and parents cannot see their children often. It is also a kind of psychological pressure.

In many people's minds, a child in a one-child family can get 100% love. ......The reason for this is that the only child can receive all the care of his parents, the only child can receive all the protection of his parents, and the only child can have all the resources of life.

1. An only child can receive all the care and love from his parents.

There is only one child in a one-child family. ......Because of this, all the care and love of the parents is given to this child. This is the fundamental reason why an only child can get 100% love.

It is precisely because of all the care and love of the parents that the only child gets all the hearts of the parents, and this kind of heart is the most sincere love of the parents for their children.

2. Parents can provide all-round protection for their only child.

As the only child in the family, the only child will naturally be valued by the parents. ......Because of this, parents devote all their energy to their only child and give him the fullest protection. ......For children, this kind of protection can obtain the most ideal growth environment, so that they can grow up and become talents as soon as possible, all of which are obtained under the wholehearted protection of parents.

This is also a concrete embodiment of the 100% love that an only child can get.

3. The only child has all the resources of family life.

Another concrete manifestation of the 100% love that an only child can get is that he can have all the resources of family life. ......This aspect is more impressive than the care, love and all-round protection of parents. ......Specifically, the living conditions of the only child are the most superior, and he can get everything in the family, whether it is clothing, food, housing and transportation, he has the most abundant resources.

It is precisely because of this performance that people will leave a deep impression that the only child has 100% love.