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Your predicament is like mine.

I also have too much unwillingness, but I lack enough courage.

I think it's because of our lack of self-confidence.

The first thing to do is to build self-confidence. Any success is not easy, we will encounter such and such setbacks and uncertainties, at this time, we must believe that we can overcome this difficulty, not afraid of difficulties. Explore step by step, sum up experience, and try again until you succeed.

It's important to know what kind of person you want to be. Without a clear goal, we get lost as we walk...

I'm also planning and working hard for my goals now, in fact, life is like this, set a goal, to accomplish it, and repeat the cycle... If you have an idea and don't try it, you'll regret it for the rest of your life.

I'd rather fail a hundred times and cry a thousand times than regret it once because of cowardice, that's what I think.

Let's work together for our ideals! Encourage it.

In fact, everyone will have this kind of confusion, but you have to remember that people change with society, when you feel that you can't persevere, find a reason for yourself, or choose a way to vent your inner helplessness (traveling, climbing, or watching the water), and persist in the opposite, believing that there is nothing you can't do! Good luck!

If you really don't like it, make up your mind to quit and try to find your own happiness, we're still young, aren't we?

Have a long-term goal and see what others do. You can walk the way of others, and it is better to sit on a horse than to race with a horse.

Take a day off and give yourself a day off.

That is the lack of a spiritual motivation, you can think about the people around you, they can give themselves the courage to persevere, and the feelings can break through everything!

In fact, you also know that you are just unwilling, why not? Only by unlocking that unwilling lock can you cheer yourself up.

When you can't do without the company, you will know how to go in the future. If you don't go to the company doesn't matter, then I still suggest you learn more knowledge, although it is said that young people should dare to break through, but breaking is the need for capital, or you are young, or you have technology, if the company is very small, there is no development prospect, I suggest you leave quickly, delay 1 year or more time, it is a big loss in the future. Either way, technology comes first.

Opportunities are for those who are prepared! This kind of thing requires courage, ability and luck, but people with strong ability will not have bad luck, and it is better to enrich themselves when they are inferior and hesitant.

Look at the time, maybe you will be changed by it.

It's difficult, it doesn't mean that there is no hope, it depends on whether you dare to try to change yourself.

No. Find your right direction, work boldly, never give up, persevere?

Among the thousands, meet the people you meet; In the endless wilderness of time, in the tens of thousands of years, there is no earlier or later step, and it just happened to catch up.

You are a conflicted and tangled person, and you can't make up your mind, and you hesitate. Therefore, it is recommended that you set a deadline for yourself, within which you must make a decision on whether to change the status quo. If you still can't make up your mind to change the status quo within the deadline, you should continue to be content with the status quo.

Change what can be changed, accept what can't be changed! Mindset matters.

Then try to look for opportunities in reality.

It's very resonant. du, a few months ago

I'm also sleepy about life.

Zhi was confused, and he didn't know where to go. Even though I do the same thing as others every day, I am ......Not happy! So I made a choice:

I don't do anything to anyone anymore, I just want to be myself, I just want to do what I'm really interested in, because that's the only way I feel good and I'm happy. Sometimes I feel a bit cynical because I still have a responsibility on my shoulders. But that's not the case!!

When I felt good, I suddenly found that all my troubles had run out of the clouds, and suddenly I found that all the confusion was so simple. So, I have concluded with one sentence: What is happiness?

It's not that you get everything you want to be happy; It's when you feel happy and everything around you is what you want!!

Time is bai can't stay, there is no need to hurt the spring and autumn. A person's happiness is not because of the specialization he has.

It's that he cares less. The road of life is very long, and there are many troubles. Adjust your mindset.

There is no straight road in life, and there are ups and downs in life. Life is immeasurable, and there are countless troubles. A good mood is heaven, and anger is hell, and if you want to be happy, forget the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past.

Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back. Go climb the mountain, see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance. Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed.

After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear. As long as you adjust your mentality, everything will be fine.

I'm just like you.

If you don't explode in silence, you perish in silence.

Everyone has this stage, confused.

This stage is bitter and a sign of maturity.

You have to believe that your future is happy and happy, and the suffering of the present will make you stronger.

A word for you: if you are well, it is a sunny day.

There are too many cases of this problem, maybe you see a lot of people doing ordinary things, and the first feeling is that they are all content with the status quo. However, you can imagine that if you are not satisfied with the status quo, then these seemingly ordinary jobs will be done by no one, and the world will be chaotic. Therefore, what is content with the status quo and uneasy about the status quo is relative, it is not that he does not want to, but he has a lot of responsibilities that he cannot change casually, family, relatives, maybe the majority.

Personally, I think that 95% of society is made up of people who are content with the status quo, they are the most important part of society, and those who are similar to those who are not satisfied with the status quo will not be able to play a role without them. Examples, Liu Bang, Zhuge Liang. Liu Bei.

It depends on the individual's life ideals and their own conditions. Some things don't just go your way.

Don't rest on your laurels.

In the big arena of the world, no matter what role you are, you have to constantly compete, if you don't compete, the world will throw you down, there is no eternal status quo in the world, just like the book "The Home That Sinks to the Sea" tells us, the island you thought could exist for a long time will sink into the sea one day.

Time flies, modern society is already a high-tech, high-information society, every moment is in a state of rapid change. Only by forging ahead and constantly pursuing can we be invincible in this society. Roland said that one must not remain immersed in nostalgia for the past, otherwise one will lose its ambition towards reality.

But modern affluent life has filled our narrow minds, and the so-called pleasures and money circle around us every day. As a result, we are gradually overwhelmed by these fleeting clouds, do not want to forge ahead, and immerse ourselves in the world of flowers. In the journey of life, if you lack enterprising spirit, even if you have hundreds of millions of wealth, life is indulgent, drunk and dreaming is empty.

When Picasso started painting a new painting at the age of 90, it was as if he had seen things in the world for the first time, and he still lived like a young man. He is not satisfied with the status quo, looking for new ideas and using new expressions to express his artistic feelings.

Most painters, having created a style of painting that suits them, do not change their pursuits, and even more so when their work is appreciated by people. As artists get older, their painting styles don't change much. Picasso, on the other hand, was like a painter who never found his particular artistic style, trying his best to find the perfect way to express his unquiet mind.

From Picasso, we can learn from his unsatisfied and energetic and insatiable spirit, and only those with this spirit can achieve career success and spiritual prosperity.

Many people stop because of temporary satisfaction, but they don't know that the world is still progressing, and when all your satisfaction is gradually gone, you will look back and find that you have nothing. When you see that your immediate interests are satisfied with your desires, people's laziness will be highlighted, and if you are satisfied with the status quo, the value of your life will be devalued and surpassed by one latecomer after another. The situation you find yourself in is changing all the time, and just when you think you can meet what you have, everything that exists is slowly disappearing.

If we are satisfied with small achievements, then we will never be able to climb the peak of our career, and we will never be able to achieve impressive results, only when we maintain a humble and cautious attitude, we may gain more.

First, if it is a work problem, first of all, make sure that your work really has no direction to develop and strive for? If there is a worthwhile goal to strive for, work hard and stick to it.

Second, if it's your own problem, you need to adjust your mentality, because changing jobs at this time will not help you much.

I hope you can talk to a few good friends around you, they know you well, and they will give you the best advice.

The great poet Pushkin wrote that you lose friends, you lose a lot, you lose courage, you lose everything. If you want to change your fate, you need a lot of courage to overcome the "evil of human nature", one of the seven deadly sins of man, laziness.

Because you are "afraid of change" and "content with the status quo", it means that you are now living, work is okay, change will be more risky, what to do if you fail, this is an unavoidable specific problem, as an adult, you must be mature in doing things, you must be sure, you can't take risks to break blindly, it is recommended to spend time, think more, think more, analyze more, and be ashamed to ask relatives and friends and knowledgeable and experienced experts, combined with their own actual situation to make comprehensive judgments, and then make corresponding countermeasures and decisions. Changing the status quo and breaking the status quo is undoubtedly changing one's destiny and being one's own master. This is a huge, big proposition, most people don't want to say to change, just think about it and don't dare, or to be exact, they can't think about it, because they want to change their fate, to break the status quo, to overcome themselves, to find themselves, they need the right time, the right place, the external conditions of people, subjectively also require their people to have "great wisdom", have great courage.

Settle for the status quo, the wealthy, not so great, content with the status quo, to put it bluntly, is laziness and avoidance, and others?

I don't know how to forge ahead.

The self-confidence is there.

Just do what you want, there's no need to change anything.