What should I do if my girlfriend is not beautiful and doesn t like it at home?

Your parents like beautiful women, but can beautiful women be eaten?

If you truly love her, then you should overcome all odds.

In fact, you yourself are already biased towards your mother's side, and if you portray your girlfriend so badly, it means that you don't like her anymore.

I really don't understand why boys are so irresponsible.

Or accept the family's opinion, at least, the woman is angry, and there is a reason to be angry.

Now it is commonplace for a lot of handsome guys to match ugly women, beautiful women to match ugly men. Go for plastic surgery, or simply conceive the child first and give birth, depending on how your family still objects. Maybe you might even give birth to a pretty and cute baby.

She's not for you!!

Be cautious.

If you think she has a bad temper, it's best to do it early. And once she is tolerated now, she will definitely divorce not long after getting married. When the time comes, you will have to carry the burden of divorce, do you think that's good.

Now I think your thoughts don't have to be with others in the previous life, I read the above, when you said your girlfriend, you also knew that she had so many shortcomings, but you still couldn't struggle, in fact, there were only a few reasons:

The first one, that is, you have done it with her, in fact, this is nothing, in this era of open-mindedness, these are normal, this, well, how to say, everyone has a first time, and you do it and others do it, it's the same, but in a certain situation, the meaning is different, in you and her feelings, that meaning is even more different, don't pay too much attention to this, and this is not the most important reason for the conditions you choose for a lifetime, right? Is it a place, no matter how bad a person is, you feel good, not a place, no matter how good, do you feel bad? This is not the main condition for a person who chooses to be together for the rest of his life, at the age of 22, he is still experiencing it.

When you're a little older, you'll find out that I'm so stupid with someone else for this reason, understand?

Second, you have such thoughts, people don't necessarily have such thoughts, you say that you should be her boyfriend for more than 10 years, do you think that other people's thoughts will be the same as yours? People may also be enjoying this new love, marriage, a lifetime, that's a very serious issue, it's about a person's life, you want to be with this person for the rest of your life, for a lifetime, how long, think about it, live with such a woman and man who you don't know and who is not suitable for you, do you think it's good? Is this what you want?

Third, you are not mature, you are still a half-adult, half-child, people say that men are not adults in the real sense until they are 30 years old, what about you? Females tend to mature early, while males are slower.

Fourth, and most importantly, I think you, or dating her for a while, but also really understand what kind of girl she is, you can make a decision again, because two people together are to take care of each other, adapt to each other, you have to tolerate her, and she also has to tolerate you, the two are equal, not whoever wants to do what will do what, don't force yourself to adapt to her, otherwise, in the end, it is you who regret it!

Life! This is also a very serious issue, please think about your own life, and then make a decision, a lifetime, is very long, responsible for yourself is responsible for your family, family, is the closest in the world, they will not harm you, they just want to give the best, to their children, so, sometimes you can also listen to the opinions of your parents, after all, they are from the past, experienced, and experienced more than you! Well, without further ado, I hope these words help you!

Good luck!

I think you should think about the answer in your own heart, but after reading your description of her, she is not very good, we don't care much about how she looks, and we don't just take it to see if we marry a wife! Right? Be able to give yourself motivation, give yourself support, and not put too much pressure on yourself...People who truly love you won't ask for you that much!

Maybe you didn't love her, but you were just impulsive! It feels like she doesn't really love you either! Hehe, this is just a personal opinion....Provide references.

Love takes courage, no matter what your family thinks, you have to be brave and go on, good luck.

Make your own decisions

'Dumped' her.

Or you will be a 'wife slave' for the rest of your life!

Think for yourself. Are you going to marry your girlfriend or your mom's family?

Do you live with your mom's family or with your girlfriend after you get married?

In fact, judging by your description of him, I think you can match it better, handsome guy. Hehe, and look at what you said about her love history, you said that you are at a loss, and you hope to be separated.

May I ask if you broke her, if not, then get rid of it.

From what you said, it feels like you're not too willing.

Category: Annoyances >> in love.

Problem description Kaidou do:

I can't say the specific reason, I went to her house once, and my relatives have no opinion on me, that is, her parents don't like me!

When I pressed them, my girlfriend gave the following reasons:

1.The two of us are still young. (I said it three years ago, when we were 17 years old).

2.Because I'm from Guangzhou, the boys in Guangzhou are all attentive. (I'm depressed, who are the people who have ruined the reputation of our Guangzhou men?) )

3.The two people are too far apart, and it is inconvenient to visit relatives. (I'm depressed, isn't it 247 kilometers, and it doesn't take three hours to get a ride, let alone drive by myself!) )

4.You don't have a regular job yet. (I don't have anything to say, just graduated, which ones have a monthly income of tens of thousands?) )

5.Anyway, we don't want you to have a relationship, if you stare at Heng and go your own way, we will not have your daughter! (Haha After a long period of persuasion from my girlfriend and those uncles and aunts of hers, it's finally hard to come!) )

Analysis: Her parents' concern is very reasonable, you can't blame anyone, just try to work hard and try your best to improve their image of themselves! Let them see that you are really trying hard, and that you are really good to their daughter, and that you are a reliable man!

I think you should choose to break up, because the family is completely for your good, and they will be very transparent in seeing people and things, and they are experienced, so you should still take the advice of your family.

If that's the case, I don't think you really need to stick to the relationship, I have to say that a relationship really deserves the approval of your parents, otherwise you won't be happy together.

If my family doesn't like my girlfriend, then I'm going to find out why and then I'm going to fix it. I also want to tell my girlfriend not to give up on our relationship, and then we will slowly convince the family.

This requires work, the family is an inseparable part of you, if the girlfriend can't accept the boyfriend's family distress, then forget it.

If it's the kind of person who doesn't like your family to be poor. I can't blame your girlfriend, people, there are a lot of people who hate the poor and love the rich, which means that maybe she doesn't love you as much as you think, maybe you can consider changing a girlfriend, because you can't choose your own origin, you can't choose your parents, no matter what, loving your parents is better than loving a fantasy woman to meet human emotional standards.

This is a sign of danger, the essence is that it is normal to not like it, but it is shown before you are married, which means that the problem is very serious, and breaking up may be the best option

I like you, my girlfriend doesn't like to live in my house, I don't like to go to my mother-in-law's house, I don't like my mother-in-law and brother-in-law, it's normal, it's good that the two can get along.

In the future, you will get married and live your own life with both parents, but it will gradually decrease, and your girlfriend doesn't like it now doesn't mean that you will still have this idea in the future, people will slowly understand various things and truths as they get older. It must be going in a good direction and understanding each other.

Tell her the truth of loving the house and Wu, people can't come to the world out of thin air, or cherish where they come from. In addition, it is more important for the two of them to build their own love nest together, and there are some things that can be ignored if they don't like them.

First of all, what your girlfriend doesn't like in your family, is it the conditions, or the environment, or your parents, relatives and friends, you have to figure out, if it's the conditions, it's possible that she is a money worshipper, if you don't like your parents, it's possible that she won't be a filial girl in the future, so you have to figure it out.

Break up directly! If your girlfriend doesn't like your family, it also means that you don't like your family, including both of your parents. Do you think it's necessary to continue with such a girlfriend?

points, indicating that he is immature, uncertain, prone to contradictions, or go to extremes.

She doesn't love you.

The dog is not too poor, replace it, it's too powerful, and after getting married, there will be a lot of things.

Love is mutual love, and she has to embrace everything she has.

Either change girlfriends or change homes.

To be honest, that's what adults think, and I'll give you an analysis:

First, how does it affect your learning? If you don't have a girlfriend, it won't affect your studies, you are studying every day except for eating and sleeping, you are not a high school student, you must know how to arrange your study time, you must have the ability to learn knowledge well, why put the responsibility for your study on a girl.

Second, girls' schools are bad? Do you think it's good if you're one, who doesn't want to have one, if everyone can get one, then why do you want two or three? According to your logic, a Tsinghua student must put you in his eyes, in his eyes, you are just a garbage school, not worth mentioning at all, when Tsinghua people look at you like this, what do you feel, what do you think in your heart?

Third, your family's conditions are superior, so you tell me, your family's superiority is **? If your parents teach you well, you should be empathetic, at least you should respect others, and people who look down on others are even more angry. Your family is in good condition, it was created by your parents' hard work, and it has nothing to do with you, your energy is still zero, you have to show what you have, don't show off your parents' things as your own.

Fourth, material and immaterial, is it a house or something, if you can afford a house or something, you definitely don't care about this, if you can't afford it, you can rent a house, life is for the two of you, your parents can only give you a little help, if all rely on your parents, then you will only be a parasite, no matter how high the education, no matter how much money is a useless parasite.

Brother, I said it a little bit, don't blame me, I just don't want you to live your own life, unless you want to live the life of your parents in your own way, but I have nothing to say about my own fresh life.

In short, remember, you are a man, there is something, there is a contradiction, don't always push on the girl, you have to take responsibility for yourself, you have to protect her, as long as you like her, then be sincere to her, no matter what difficulties you encounter in the future, take her hand, walk over strongly, the words can only be said here, I hope you live well, I hope you two will be better in the future, I hope you forgive me for being so fierce at the beginning of what I said to you, sorry buddy, it's for your good, work hard!

You already have your own idea in mind, don't you? What you need to do now is to get along well, study hard and be admitted to graduate school, and the rest will give you the answer in the future, whether it is suitable or not is too early to say now, it is really too early to say that when you want to marry her, it is estimated that you will not care about his family background, and your parents may not be against it in the end, it is not necessarily bad to experience more when you are young, it is terrible to be too simple, and it will be too late to fall in love after graduating from graduate school.

You have to make sure you like her first, if you don't like these troubles are unnecessary, if you like it, you can be together, anyway, the love in college can't last long, and it's almost broken up when you graduate, what are you worried about, anyway, you have no loss.

First of all, you have to confirm whether you like this girl, secondly, whether you feel that this girl loves you, and then you estimate what kind of impact love will bring to your studies. Family affection and love sometimes have to find the right balance.

To be honest, you really have to focus on your studies now, paving the way for future development, you have said that girls are very materialistic, so you have to have the ability, a man's career success will definitely be favored by girls, and your parents don't have to worry about it in the future!

It depends on whether you like her or not, first, you also think she is three, and second, you also know that you have only known each other for a month. I also know that she is very materialistic. I feel like you like him from the inside and out.

I like her to be together, and I'm so young. Afraid of what. It's a different place again, so it won't delay your studies.

You only need to know two things: first, whether you really like her, and are willing to love her, protect her and be with her; 2. Are you suitable? If the family factor is important, if there is a huge disparity in family conditions, then I am not very in favor of being together.

Also, I don't understand what you mean by "substance", is it nasty?