I m always not confident, unassertive, and love to listen to others, so I m always laughed at by oth

I've had the same experience before. You should be asked by someone else and dare not refuse (because you are afraid that he will dare to be dissatisfied with yourself), so people will find that you listen to him, and over time he will rely on you too much, and when you reject him, he will have an opinion about you (including face problems), so now you have to slowly get used to rejection, and you will succeed if you make people think that you are an assertive person, and you will know this and start to teach you how to change yourself.

First of all, you have to be rational and decisive to the other person, don't hesitate, refuse what you should refuse, or people will misunderstand you and think that you can help him but don't want to help him. When rejecting the other person, have an affirmative expression. Don't be hippie or smiley, or not annoying.

When you have your own opinions, you must have the initiative to speak, because independent thinking is the only sign of a person's existence. (It was badly explained, but I tried).

Read more psychological books! Go your own way and let others say go! *^

Can you deal with it calmly and judge rationally?

Read books, read more books and improve yourself. Sometimes it's useless what others teach you, so make a summary when you calm down. Things have to be weighed at several ends, just to have a satisfactory decision. Good luck with this soon!

The first few are good! I think you'll be fine as long as you take care of everything!! You have to learn to be assertive!! And you have to look carefully at my words above, and choose the good ones to follow! You'll be fine in the future!

Self-confidence is based on one's own life experience, knowledge, wisdom and years of training.

Calm down, first of all, make yourself calm, don't rush to act when you encounter something, and be sure to think a little before making a decision. It's their business for others to laugh at you, just take care of yourself.

It is necessary to have the initiative of discourse, because independent thinking is the only sign of a person's existence.

Then you try to motivate him more, or the woman should not be too strong and ask the man's opinion, and then he will take more ideas and become assertive!

I feel that there is no foundation for love, life will be very boring, two people, either the man loves the woman, or the woman loves the man, if both parties have no feelings, just look at the family background and environment are good, in the future, I feel that "he can do without him", it will be very boring, the days between husband and wife are very long, then you need to find a common hobby after getting married, and you have to make efforts to "care" about each other, but I feel that doing these "care" is also like taking care of friends, not like parents, Relatives, see if you have a common love in the future, "get married first, then fall in love", it's a bit ridiculous, but 40% of families are like this, so there are also a lot of people, and then if you have a child, you will live a lifetime. But don't divorce after having children, children are innocent!

It is necessary to think about it well, or talk to him, it is necessary for the husband and wife to communicate with each other, at any time!!

Engagement is a major event in life, you must make your own ideas, you can't listen to others, you must set standards or goals according to your own reality, and you can't be too detached from reality or make do with grievances.

Don't care about others, after all, you have to live with yourself for a lifetime, so if you are not satisfied, retreat, don't leave a shadow. Bless you.

Do what you think in your heart Don't regret it later Be assertive yourself, and since you already feel that it is not appropriate, then take advantage of it. Don't wait until it's irretrievable to make a decision. As for whether to discuss it or not, it has nothing to do with you.

She is in charge of her own affairs, others will not live with her for the rest of her life, if she feels unhappy, she will withdraw from the marriage and get married if she thinks it is okay.

I don't feel why I agree.,It's definitely not good to get married three times twice.,There was the first time since there was a second time I'm also drunk.,Dispensable.,As long as the other party has a good character.,Feelings can be cultivated slowly.,If you really don't want to do it this time, just say it.,But there's no next time.,You can try to be engaged for a period of time first.,Since it's set and withdrawn, the matchmaker introduced is also unhappy.,I hope it can help you.。

What kind of partner do you want? Emotional matters should ask themselves what they want in their hearts, although they can't ignore external factors, but they can't be completely coerced by the environment, and they must think twice before doing things in the future.

There is no way, the reality of society, there are many means, but they are all intense, and the consequences are serious, see for yourself.

Why not, it's not a feudal society, and marriage is free. directly said that he would not get married.

You have to have brains yourself, and a marriage without feelings - a bitter life. (No fate) just quit!

It's you who get married, it's up to you to grasp it, and happiness is not child's play.

Your own happiness is in your own hands, and you don't care what others say! Living is for oneself, not for others.

It's not too painful to be together without feelings for decades, it was too hasty at the time, and it was yourself who lived with him, not your own family, I think you should persuade your friends to think more about themselves in the future, if the conditions allow or withdraw from the marriage, there must be discussions, but you have to endure it for your own happiness.

It's the most troublesome thing to be unassertive, and if you really don't like to be reluctant to be together, you're not happy and happy, because there is no common ground and mutual appreciation. Even if she is married for a long time, all we give is advice, and she has to make her own decisions.

How can you care about other people's gossip about life events!

You can try to date and see, free love may not last long,

The marriage is one's own, and the mouth is someone else's

If you don't like to be together, you won't be happy.

Could it be me? The girl on the blind date was a year older than me.

How old is it? Leftover women? If not, why do you do it in such a hurry?