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It's that you're thinking too much, and the psychological imbalance may be caused by the environment or pressure, and it's also like the first floor said Anyone who lets go and is happy, is the so-called laughing at the situation.
Let's talk about the interval between you and the landlord first, in fact, I don't think the landlord needs to meet you, he takes your money, you rent his room, there is no need to trouble you, if he doesn't like you, he will definitely call you away, they are noisy at night, listen to **, you can talk to him, think you have to study, let them be quiet and you can pull, it is really not good to recommend changing rent, a good environment is indeed very important for reading.
Let's talk about your studies, grades don't mean everything, you know? Good grades, just show that his learning ability is strong, maybe he pays more than you, think about you are sleeping at 12 o'clock, people are still reading, if you are better than him in the exam, then what will he think, isn't it, don't say smart or not, brother, I don't believe in this thing, academic performance is inseparable from hard work. So, there is no need to envy others, live your own life, don't let one more person tired you, there is a good saying, the enemy is your best friend, with him you can make more progress, with him, you have a goal.
Are you right? Don't be envious, don't be jealous, use your own strength to defeat him, that's what you want to do now, I believe that you will be able to surpass him if you work hard, and soon.
Finally, let's talk about your interpersonal relationship, I can see from your words, you don't have a lot of true friends, try to socialize, try to help others, maybe he will help you in the future than you help him pay more now, of course, it is not to say that friends use it, just to tell you, there are people around you who often chat together in their spare time, ** question, isn't that a very happy thing?
In today's society, if you don't have the ability, you can, but you have to have a relationship, which is what I call interpersonal relationships, if there is no interpersonal relationship, then you have to have money, if you don't have any of the three, haha...
You have the ability, learn to handle personnel relations well now, and I believe that you will be able to do it in the future.
Look at everything and smile a little more, and you will find that the world is so beautiful.
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I said, you're okay, it's like this, it's because you're thinking too much, right? But I'll still have to say a few words.
The landlord has a gap with you, you didn't offend him, did you? Do you live together? If so, are you involved in cleaning up their home?
When you wash your face, do you get water all over the place? Have you paid attention to your landlord's habits? Do you often buy good food for the landlord and pat yourself on the back?
Is the utility bill paid without being urged by the landlord? Is there anything that would bother the landlord, such as; Early riser, kitchen
If all the above is done, and the landlord is still like that, then you can talk to him. Anyway, he also makes our money, and the customer is God! Otherwise, buy him a better headset when he speaks, so that he can continue to listen to his ** cheekily?
Of course, when people usually listen to ** and don't hinder you, you will become a complete family.
I often take time to go out to have a meal with the landlord, of course, you have a treat, and you don't have to be very often, and the landlord who will be moved once a month or two doesn't know what to say. Don't give your opinion when you talk, first talk about things that the landlord is interested in, such as life and family, and gradually talk about your suggestions in depth, don't let the landlord see that you are inviting guests to give advice, and let him think that you are to deepen the relationship.
We learned in high school politics that people's values will not be exactly the same, and it is appropriate that your values are different. You don't want your landlord to change his values for you, do you?!
Jealousy is something that everyone has, right? Anyway, I think so, and I don't know the correct answer. Your score is high, maybe people are still jealous of you! Everyone uses their own path, just follow your own line, and don't care what others do (this is absolutely classic, read it a few more times).
Your jealousy indicates that you are very self-motivated, and taking advantage of it will make you progress. Of course, don't go so far as to use bad means to make people, I'm sure you won't, haha!
Live a good life, don't put too much pressure on yourself, it's good to have a healthy and ordinary life. If my values are different from yours, you can continue with yours.
Okay, that's all the work of the coherent advice under my hands, okay? Ha ha.
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Very common, no mental illness, I am like this ==
The landlord didn't want to solve the problem, I will give my personal opinion, I don't think the middle-aged people around me will discuss or solve the problem with me as a 'child' in their eyes, it is quite unreasonable, they are always very perfunctory to my problems.
It may be more effective to ask your parents to communicate with him.
I really can't communicate with the landlord to change the environment, although it is not easy to move, but in order to have a good mood for yourself, it doesn't matter if you are troublesome.
Competitive aspects. There is a saying: "Be both a companion and an adversary".
Friends grow up in competition and unity, and the occasional jealousy in their hearts can also be turned into a determination to make progress. In a word, as long as you don't do things that are sorry for others and yourself, jealousy will not have much effect, and you should make good use of it to surpass your imaginary enemies.
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Summary. Dear, do you feel **uncomfortable? If you just think you have a psychological problem, but you can't be sure, then the best thing to do is to see a psychologist. A psychiatrist will be able to help you.
What to do if you feel that you have a psychological problem.
Dear, do you feel **uncomfortable? If you just think you have a psychological problem, but you can't be sure, then the best thing to do is to see a psychologist. A psychiatrist will be able to help you.
It's just that I'm not comfortable in a crowded place, and then I've been thinking about one thing for a long time, and I'm very concerned about other people's opinions, and I don't want to care, but I can't control it. When there are many people, you can't control your expression naturally, but if you are very familiar, you are very enthusiastic.
Dear, preliminary analysis, you are a phenomenon of "social disorder", a fear of the unfamiliar environment, related to the growth environment of the original family.
So what to do.
You should consult a psychiatrist**, and the doctor will help you analyze and judge.
Doctors are too expensive, and I don't want people to see my problem.
How old are you? Can you ask your parents to pay for you? It is recommended that you ** as soon as possible**.
Just develop your own strengths.
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